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Loupiness · Loupiness

My son is almost 15 . The other night we were talking and he told me that when he grows up, he either wants to live in Barcelona, Spain or Utah. Of course, I asked him why, to which he replied that Barcelona is the skateboarding capital of the world and its located near the ocean. Okay, that made sense. As f...

queenie105 · queenie105

I just want to let you all know that even though I joined MIP last week, I have been reading so many posts, and I'll tell you, I am learning so much from all of you. I'm learning new tools and also sayings that make so much sense and put things in a new perspective. I may be a little down right now, but coming...

glad · glad

When I detach and focus on my work, my life, my program. I feel great and things get better when I do spend time with my ABF. But then they get a little better- he almost shares something or seems to care about something a little and I "forget" and act "normal" meaning forget to const...

stormie · stormie

My AH loves to fish. He and his fishing buddies, some are family members, have always planned a few weekend fishing trips per year, throughout several decades. Of course, alcohol is "always" a part of the weekend package. Last year was my AH's first year to pass on the trip to a particula...

akristab · akristab

Although, I haven't been very active posting on this board, I frequently read the posts and want to thank everyone and tell you how grateful I have been to read your words of encouragement to other members. The unwaiving support that I have read regularly provided me the foundation that I needed to ge...

queenie105 · queenie105

Well, I went away for the weekend w/my son, his girlfriend and my grandson. We had such a nice time. I figured AH would call me, so I wasn't planning on answering the phone. My grandson answered it while we were outside though, and it was AH. Of course, he was drunk. (If any of you remember, he was susp...

CABBYJ · CABBYJ

Hello. I'm new here. My AH and I have been together 15 years & married just 1. I postponed the marriage for a long time because of the drinking. Then I accepted my fate and decided I wasn't going to leave and decided to marry him, under the impression that God blesses marriage & all my problem...

SOSAD · SOSAD

hi this is my first time posting here. im so tired, so drained, so disgusted i could spit. I married my husband almost 19 years ago im in my mid 40,s. he hid his drinking quite well. As i have never drank I really didnt notice any of the red flags. I have 4 beautiful children who have not really had a Dad emot...

joyoma · joyoma

Yesterday I had my 3-month post-cancer treatment checkup once more; it has been 15 months since my initial diagnosis of sarcoma in upper thigh with four months of chemo, and one year exactly since surgery to remove tumor, and then I had three months of radiation treatment. Well, bad news yesterday...

ESH · ESH

Recap: Haven't seen A-bf since early February. He had broken up with me. I went through the grief process of loss. He went to 90-day rehab (April - July) and is now calling and acting as if nothing ever happened; acting as if we are still a couple. In short I stated, "You broke up with me." H...

China · China

It has been very difficult to deal with the ups and downs of alcoholism, drug addiction, bipolar. It is like beeing in the middle of the storm and unable to do anything. Finally, the A has calmed-down for a couple of days. He does not remember anythings: Yelling, beings hurtful to me and his son, destruc...

beth38 · beth38

I'm kind of new to the program. I was in alanon when I was married to my first husband but stopped going when we got divorced. The problem is my fifteen year old daughter. She got into trouble and got a ticket for being a minor in posession of alcohol. She has been unable to earn my trust and calls me terr...

stormie · stormie

Hello Everyone: I found this board last year about this time when my AH was very active and in deep denial. Messages on this board, coupled with the research I had done all last year helped me to make the personal choice of separating from him. After 3 weeks of separation, he crashed and went into to deto...

sdisnie · sdisnie

http://www.healthmad.com/Addiction/Understanding-Addiction.139538

DT1221 · DT1221

Hello, everyone! I am so frustrated I want to scream. I can't get on the chat room my Java isn't working. sounds like a good line in a commercial ) but it's not. I just want to pull my hair out and scream retty much. I know I let my AH get to me and I shouldn't but with that said I am also tired of the nasty person I l...

Loupiness · Loupiness

Hi Friends, I'm numb and apalled, but relieved. My AH decided to take Father's Day as the opportunity to tell his children about his girlfriend. Yep, Father's Day, the day designed to celebrate the one who is the leader and protector of his family. What an idiot! As we were driving out of town tonight...

Jerry F · Jerry F

Aloha All. Happy Fathers Day to those of you who are qualified especially for the gals who are doing double duty. I kinda forgot it was Fathers Day even though the family started the celebration yesterday at the zoo. Three sons and a daughter doing double duty for now as her pilot husband just returne...

maresie · maresie

I am working on my 4th step which given I have been here 2/3 years is something. I am really finding it hard going as I'm now aware how much my people pleasing cost me and what a set up it was for me. I feel pretty raw about it. I also feel kind of stuck where I am. I am not making enough money and in theory would b...

Hoot Nanny · Hoot Nanny

My kitties are doing well..except one who had an ingrown nail. She is doing well after a trip to the Vet and some antibiotics that we have to give her! She does like it but it smells like bubblegum or something like that! Anyway, I hope it is ok to send you a direct post. I wanted to make sure you got this mes...

JDel · JDel

Hi everyone! I am so happy to have found this board. I have been reading the posts and I don't feel alone anymore. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one in the world going through this. My husband is an addict. Mainly alcohol and rx pain pills, but what I'm learning is that he will abuse anything he can...

worriedgirl · worriedgirl

Hi to the group! So, I'm worried. I'm worried about my boyfriend. We've been dating for 8 months and I thought I'd found the one. I still think he's for me. However, the last couple months have been a roller coaster. We moved in together in April and now summer has begun (I'm a school teacher) and I'm...

dlookeast · dlookeast

My boyfriend is an Ah. I love him dearly. I have recently informed him that I couldn't deal with it anymore. It refering to coming home every night and wondering weather or not at one point or another he'd be standing over me yelling, cursing, and screaming. Basically I gave him a choice. He made a doctor...

debilyn · debilyn

where are you???

cookie1971 · cookie1971

((((Family))))) Hubby and I went for our annual physical this week. The doctor found that hubby's blood pressure was elevated. Hubby has had high blood pressure, but the doctor also found that mine was elevated too. I have never had high blood pressure before. The doctor has ordered some tests for bo...

david62 · david62

For my Dad....... I wanted to do something special today for my dad. I wanted to try to express what he means to me now and how I feel about him. The obvious starting place is that without him..with a little help from my mom too of course, I would not exist. And I also believe "The King" my HP, has e...

Andrea12 · Andrea12

Hello Friends, Tonight I took a journey back to the room where I have met some wonderful friends over these few years. It felt like coming home everyone was so very warm and welcoming. It was absolutely wonderful. Sometimes along the road of Life, we can get lost, confused and just down right depre...

joyoma · joyoma

My husband, our son and his child, and I spent Father's Day weekend in a condo on a lovely beach. It was an attempt at celebrating a family holiday in a different way. My son continues to grieve over his now two-year old divorce...something he did not want but couldn't stop. His grief and depression...

junehouse · junehouse

Hello All, I find Father's Day a thoughtful time for me because I am 'not' in contact with my father. I send photos of my son two times a year at Christmas and at his birthday. Since he is just two this year this is a fairly new idea I have had. I got the idea from someone in AA to send photos. Both my parents...

meagain · meagain

As I was saying my son treats me like his A father did to me. I have told my some I am not afraid physcially-but mentainally an emotionally.I have not heard back from him in this regard---but no more playing tag on the internet with him. Enough already. I am really sticking to my boundaries....I am reall...

Karilynn · Karilynn

(((((MIP Dads))))), To my MIP Dads: HAPPY FATHER'S DAY! I thank you for all your love, strength and laughs you have given us. You are indeed a special bunch of men. I may tease you lots, but it comes from the . May your day be extra special filled with love and laughter. Do the things you and spend them...

China · China

Hi, It is my first time posting. I am very concerned. I have been thinking of moving out of the house. But my A always changes my mind. Telling me that it is best for the family to stay together that it will hurt our 8 year old son, that it is best finanacially etc... However, I can't control my temper anymore...

deecee6565 · deecee6565

My A exhusband who I have been living with moved out a few weeks ago. He had been doing drugs instead of drinking because of an anklemonitor and really I think he left because he knew how bad he gets. I had noticed for the last few months he had been spending a sick amount of money and his cell rang at all hou...

belle1 · belle1

As many of you may already know my mom found a lump on her breast and it was cancerous well today was day of surgery and a long one for my family, many prayers well wishes from so many people and from this family of mines also id just like to send many many thanks Surgery went well at night visit she was sitting...

Hoot Nanny · Hoot Nanny

Well, I hope I was missed, HA! HA! Seriously I was forgetting to check in. I don't remember the last time I posted. I am doing pretty well.. I am enjoying the much needed sunshine. Lots of rain earlier. I am very sorry for all of you in areas of the country who have suffered from excessive heat, floodin...

kitty · kitty

and now for something completely different... I saw this elephant on Animal Planet and found it so moving & beautiful, I thought it would be nice to share with all of you. I have never seen such a happy elephant in captivity before, truly amazing! http://www.treehugger.com/files/2008/06/am...

ally · ally

((((((((((((((((Guys))))))))))))))) Was thinking about you all and i decided to drop by and say hi Hoping this finds everyone having the courage to change their lives into what they want it to be... Well the last three months i have had no Al-anon, i felt i needed some time to truely get to know myse...

joyoma · joyoma

I haven't posted in weeks due to technical problems I probably created all by myself. I haven't been able to log on at all. Finally, with John's e-mail of this week, I was able to make contact. Now it seems my screen name is "joyoma" rather than "omajoy"!!! Isn't that interes...

madonna · madonna

Hi, I really need a sponsor and I was wondering if I can get one online? Or do I have to go to a live meeting to get one. Please let me know. I do not have an alcoholic in my family but my father (who died in 1995) was a ragoholic. He is still haunting me. My biggest problem is my weight. He always made fun of m...

seekingserenity · seekingserenity

Hi! Today my daughter and I peeled and cut potatoes together and I enjoyed it! More importantly, I felt like an adult! I just thought I'd share. Later Danette

RLC · RLC

Happy Fathers Day to all MIP Fathers. A day to sit back and reflect not on mistakes we might have made, or things we wish we had done differently, but be proud of the opportunity we had to shape the lives of the ones we hold so dear. It is also a day to remember our own Fathers and all the things they did for...

Karilynn · Karilynn

((((Family))), Thank you for your love and prayers this past week. It has really meant alot to me. Hubby does not know that I posted asking for prayers, but if he did I know he'd appreciate it too. We were suppose to go to the doctor's yesterday, but he wasn't into it. I can understand that. Who want t...

Loupiness · Loupiness

As I have posted, I have kept my private life very private. Given my life as it is and where it appears to be headed, I know it has been a good decision for me thus far. In this small town I am in, the privacy really kept the chaos at bay and has allowed me to move forward at my own pace. Other than immediate fami...

notmywill · notmywill

Hi everyone, I new here and needed some feedback. I went to an open talk tonight, Al-Anon. It made me think about how similiar my life is compared to the A. When they are drinking, they make a lot of bad decisions. Well, I was looking back on my life and see how many bad decisions I've made. I have the same di...

charr · charr

just got back from our 3rd MT session, She said I still have to much anger at my ah, to keep comming back to the sessions, she said to my husband, can i do anything for you? I just walked out. Now i think he knows for sure i am crazy. All i do is just tare into him when i get there, i feel safe i don't confront him I am...

John · John

When we enter the world of recovery so many dynamics come into play. Life continues to unfold. We still experience saddness, disappointments, frustrations, anger and fear. Many of us don't know where we will end up from here. Where we will live, where we will work, how we will take care of our famil...

shawn306 · shawn306

Well I'm back. Things were looking good for a while for my AD. He quit drinking for about two weeks knowing that I was coming with my wife and kids and his brother and hit wife. The whole Memorial Day weekend was really good. I talked with my Mom and she was telling me about here alanon meetings and that my AD...

sadako · sadako

i guess i should spell out the situation a little bit first. i live in public housing, fairly nice actually, but we do have problems. there has been a guy about 20 hanging around here - after a trespassing charge and restraining order - he's preyed on ateenage girl in the building before, and the rumor is...

meagain · meagain

My son and I have been battling back and forth thru email-----I shouldn't say battling---they will not pick up the phone, or email. Well yesterday DS called me and I mean he was VERy mad--just yelling at me on the phone. A month ago their marriage was over---now its turned around and I am the big blame fo...

seekingserenity · seekingserenity

so, I've watched this show from time to time and the relationship that Lauralei has with Rory, mother and daughter respectively, has been one I've often been jealous of. Here's why, Lauralei has this completely dysfunctional relationship with her own mother but she is a good mom in the show. Now, I kn...

nycbt · nycbt

I have an online sponsor. I went to the alanon online room and was in the chat alot. In fact I started with online before face to face. I got face to face sponsor she really didn't help me. I am not suggesting that face to face sponsor don't work I enjoy it, however there are some people that might do better wi...

maire rua · maire rua

Dear All, Today I got another doozie of an email from one of my bosses. He says his higher ups are making him do these things which involve changing the title of my job which was sanctioned by all these higher ups. I rang him back and was very direct. I told him I was insulted by the email and had not received a...

Andrea12 · Andrea12

Hello Friends, Been awhile since I posted. I have a beautiful baby grand daughter. She was born May 31, at 5:30 am. It was a little bitter sweet as I was thinking why couldn't my husband be here he would have been such a wonderful grandpap. Things for me have been pretty good, I still cry, I miss him. How...

deecee6565 · deecee6565

My AH that I am divorced from but have been living with for the past 3 years left under a rage, my interpretation, he felt guilty doing it in front of his family, his is that since his health is bad I have ignored him, wont help him financially for his meds and the kids get on his nerves. I use my tools everyday...

queenie105 · queenie105

Hi All, I'm new here, but I'm not new to Alanon, nor am I new to on-line support groups. Background: I've been with my AH for 23 years. When I was first w/him, he was actively drinking. I was a single mom of 3 kids, xh abandoned us and we haven't heard from him since, no child support, no nothing (and he wa...

belle1 · belle1

anyone seen 'blessed' around or if you can read this yourself could u please leave a message id like to get in touch again belle1

kitty · kitty

In the last few days, I've found out that (my step-dad) the A is vomitting blood daily, now. Not sure how long it's been happening. My mother mentioned it and it seems to have taken me a couple of days for it to really sink in. I knew he was bad, I know it's progressive. It is really sad to know he's at this s...

mamaof4angels · mamaof4angels

Hello everyone, So much has happened in my life since I was here last. Just to introduce myself to those of you who don't know me, I am a 34 yr old mother of 5 children and a wife to a wonderful man. I am also the daughter to a mother who is addicted to additions. Pills, alcohol, gambling, men, sex, internet, o...

carolinagirl · carolinagirl

Things have been mellow and good lately. A little snafu with the bank, and changing accounts but I'm hoping that will be resolved without too much chaos. Still don't know if daughter graduated middle school and apparently they won't tell us until everyone is gone for the summer which I take as a bad s...

Tiger2006 · Tiger2006

SHAWNEE, Kan. - George Chandler says he didn't know a 2 1/2-inch nail was driven into his skull until his buddy spotted it stuck through his cap. Chandler said he felt only a sting. "It never did really what you call hurt," the Shawnee man said Wednesday on NBC's "Today." ADVERTI...

Codependent · Codependent

Well, the A is still in jail and I am SLOWLY leaving him behind. I still talk to him, etc, but it is getting easier to not answer the phone. I am also seeing someone else. He is "healthy" in that he has a great job is respectful of me, etc. He pays a lot of attention to me, etc. He is recently di...

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	Barcelona or Utah? (Preview) My son is almost 15 . The other night we were talking and he told me that when he grows up, he either wants to live in Barcelona, Spain or Utah. Of course, I asked him why, to which he replied that Barcelona is the skateboarding capital of the world and its located near the ocean. Okay, that made sense. As f...	Loupiness	8	483	Jun 19, 2008 by nmike
	Glad I'm Here! (Preview) I just want to let you all know that even though I joined MIP last week, I have been reading so many posts, and I'll tell you, I am learning so much from all of you. I'm learning new tools and also sayings that make so much sense and put things in a new perspective. I may be a little down right now, but coming...	queenie105	4	367	Jun 19, 2008 by Mabeleileen
	yuky weekend! (Preview) When I detach and focus on my work, my life, my program. I feel great and things get better when I do spend time with my ABF. But then they get a little better- he almost shares something or seems to care about something a little and I "forget" and act "normal" meaning forget to const...	glad	5	567	Jun 19, 2008 by round3
	Is This Even Possible? (Preview) My AH loves to fish. He and his fishing buddies, some are family members, have always planned a few weekend fishing trips per year, throughout several decades. Of course, alcohol is "always" a part of the weekend package. Last year was my AH's first year to pass on the trip to a particula...	stormie	15	487	Jun 19, 2008 by stormie
	Slowly but surely (Preview) Although, I haven't been very active posting on this board, I frequently read the posts and want to thank everyone and tell you how grateful I have been to read your words of encouragement to other members. The unwaiving support that I have read regularly provided me the foundation that I needed to ge...	akristab	4	346	Jun 18, 2008 by Jean4444
	Any tools to remain calm? Also a vent! Sorry. (Preview) Well, I went away for the weekend w/my son, his girlfriend and my grandson. We had such a nice time. I figured AH would call me, so I wasn't planning on answering the phone. My grandson answered it while we were outside though, and it was AH. Of course, he was drunk. (If any of you remember, he was susp...	queenie105	9	614	Jun 18, 2008 by Jean4444
	NEW HERE (Preview) Hello. I'm new here. My AH and I have been together 15 years & married just 1. I postponed the marriage for a long time because of the drinking. Then I accepted my fate and decided I wasn't going to leave and decided to marry him, under the impression that God blesses marriage & all my problem...	CABBYJ	2	345	Jun 18, 2008 by stariana
	please help AH (Preview) hi this is my first time posting here. im so tired, so drained, so disgusted i could spit. I married my husband almost 19 years ago im in my mid 40,s. he hid his drinking quite well. As i have never drank I really didnt notice any of the red flags. I have 4 beautiful children who have not really had a Dad emot...	SOSAD	12	454	Jun 18, 2008 by SOSAD
	Prayers definitely needed (Preview) Yesterday I had my 3-month post-cancer treatment checkup once more; it has been 15 months since my initial diagnosis of sarcoma in upper thigh with four months of chemo, and one year exactly since surgery to remove tumor, and then I had three months of radiation treatment. Well, bad news yesterday...	joyoma	8	492	Jun 18, 2008 by carosie
	I'm at a loss for words... speechless. (Preview) Recap: Haven't seen A-bf since early February. He had broken up with me. I went through the grief process of loss. He went to 90-day rehab (April - July) and is now calling and acting as if nothing ever happened; acting as if we are still a couple. In short I stated, "You broke up with me." H...	ESH	9	766	Jun 18, 2008 by Jean4444
	The storm has passed! (Preview) It has been very difficult to deal with the ups and downs of alcoholism, drug addiction, bipolar. It is like beeing in the middle of the storm and unable to do anything. Finally, the A has calmed-down for a couple of days. He does not remember anythings: Yelling, beings hurtful to me and his son, destruc...	China	4	343	Jun 18, 2008 by Jean4444
	need help (Preview) I'm kind of new to the program. I was in alanon when I was married to my first husband but stopped going when we got divorced. The problem is my fifteen year old daughter. She got into trouble and got a ticket for being a minor in posession of alcohol. She has been unable to earn my trust and calls me terr...	beth38	1	346	Jun 18, 2008 by CJ
	He Had a Relapse (Preview) Hello Everyone: I found this board last year about this time when my AH was very active and in deep denial. Messages on this board, coupled with the research I had done all last year helped me to make the personal choice of separating from him. After 3 weeks of separation, he crashed and went into to deto...	stormie	6	440	Jun 17, 2008 by maresie
	Understanding Alcoholism (Preview) http://www.healthmad.com/Addiction/Understanding-Addiction.139538	sdisnie	4	1197	Jun 17, 2008 by canadianguy
	Pulling my hair out! (Preview) Hello, everyone! I am so frustrated I want to scream. I can't get on the chat room my Java isn't working. sounds like a good line in a commercial ) but it's not. I just want to pull my hair out and scream retty much. I know I let my AH get to me and I shouldn't but with that said I am also tired of the nasty person I l...	DT1221	5	447	Jun 17, 2008 by maresie
	the elephant left the room (Preview) Hi Friends, I'm numb and apalled, but relieved. My AH decided to take Father's Day as the opportunity to tell his children about his girlfriend. Yep, Father's Day, the day designed to celebrate the one who is the leader and protector of his family. What an idiot! As we were driving out of town tonight...	Loupiness	7	950	Jun 17, 2008 by junehouse
	Fathers Day experiences (Preview) Aloha All. Happy Fathers Day to those of you who are qualified especially for the gals who are doing double duty. I kinda forgot it was Fathers Day even though the family started the celebration yesterday at the zoo. Three sons and a daughter doing double duty for now as her pilot husband just returne...	Jerry F	6	511	Jun 17, 2008 by glad lee
	doing a 4th step (Preview) I am working on my 4th step which given I have been here 2/3 years is something. I am really finding it hard going as I'm now aware how much my people pleasing cost me and what a set up it was for me. I feel pretty raw about it. I also feel kind of stuck where I am. I am not making enough money and in theory would b...	maresie	4	502	Jun 17, 2008 by maresie
	Hey Karilyn! (Preview) My kitties are doing well..except one who had an ingrown nail. She is doing well after a trip to the Vet and some antibiotics that we have to give her! She does like it but it smells like bubblegum or something like that! Anyway, I hope it is ok to send you a direct post. I wanted to make sure you got this mes...	Hoot Nanny	1	333	Jun 17, 2008 by Karilynn
	Hi! New and glad to be here (Preview) Hi everyone! I am so happy to have found this board. I have been reading the posts and I don't feel alone anymore. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one in the world going through this. My husband is an addict. Mainly alcohol and rx pain pills, but what I'm learning is that he will abuse anything he can...	JDel	7	662	Jun 17, 2008 by JDel
	wondering if I should even be here (Preview) Hi to the group! So, I'm worried. I'm worried about my boyfriend. We've been dating for 8 months and I thought I'd found the one. I still think he's for me. However, the last couple months have been a roller coaster. We moved in together in April and now summer has begun (I'm a school teacher) and I'm...	worriedgirl	5	580	Jun 17, 2008 by JDel
	Feels Like A Lost Cause (Preview) My boyfriend is an Ah. I love him dearly. I have recently informed him that I couldn't deal with it anymore. It refering to coming home every night and wondering weather or not at one point or another he'd be standing over me yelling, cursing, and screaming. Basically I gave him a choice. He made a doctor...	dlookeast	3	697	Jun 16, 2008 by dlookeast
	Suzannah (Preview) where are you???	debilyn	0	282	Jun 16, 2008 by debilyn
	HAVING TESTS AND NEED PRAYERS (Preview) ((((Family))))) Hubby and I went for our annual physical this week. The doctor found that hubby's blood pressure was elevated. Hubby has had high blood pressure, but the doctor also found that mine was elevated too. I have never had high blood pressure before. The doctor has ordered some tests for bo...	cookie1971	2	453	Jun 16, 2008 by Maria123
	For My Dad (Preview) For my Dad....... I wanted to do something special today for my dad. I wanted to try to express what he means to me now and how I feel about him. The obvious starting place is that without him..with a little help from my mom too of course, I would not exist. And I also believe "The King" my HP, has e...	david62	9	497	Jun 16, 2008 by abbyal
	Coming Home (Preview) Hello Friends, Tonight I took a journey back to the room where I have met some wonderful friends over these few years. It felt like coming home everyone was so very warm and welcoming. It was absolutely wonderful. Sometimes along the road of Life, we can get lost, confused and just down right depre...	Andrea12	6	384	Jun 16, 2008 by queenie105
	family weekend (Preview) My husband, our son and his child, and I spent Father's Day weekend in a condo on a lovely beach. It was an attempt at celebrating a family holiday in a different way. My son continues to grieve over his now two-year old divorce...something he did not want but couldn't stop. His grief and depression...	joyoma	1	339	Jun 16, 2008 by Diva
	I find Father's Day a thoughtful time for me... (Preview) Hello All, I find Father's Day a thoughtful time for me because I am 'not' in contact with my father. I send photos of my son two times a year at Christmas and at his birthday. Since he is just two this year this is a fairly new idea I have had. I got the idea from someone in AA to send photos. Both my parents...	junehouse	2	402	Jun 16, 2008 by junehouse
	sons like fathers?? (Preview) As I was saying my son treats me like his A father did to me. I have told my some I am not afraid physcially-but mentainally an emotionally.I have not heard back from him in this regard---but no more playing tag on the internet with him. Enough already. I am really sticking to my boundaries....I am reall...	meagain	2	401	Jun 16, 2008 by Jerry F
	HAPPY FATHER'S DAY TO MIP DADS! (Preview) (((((MIP Dads))))), To my MIP Dads: HAPPY FATHER'S DAY! I thank you for all your love, strength and laughs you have given us. You are indeed a special bunch of men. I may tease you lots, but it comes from the . May your day be extra special filled with love and laughter. Do the things you and spend them...	Karilynn	2	557	Jun 16, 2008 by Jerry F
	What to do? (Preview) Hi, It is my first time posting. I am very concerned. I have been thinking of moving out of the house. But my A always changes my mind. Telling me that it is best for the family to stay together that it will hurt our 8 year old son, that it is best finanacially etc... However, I can't control my temper anymore...	China	7	413	Jun 16, 2008 by China
	The vultures fly (Preview) My A exhusband who I have been living with moved out a few weeks ago. He had been doing drugs instead of drinking because of an anklemonitor and really I think he left because he knew how bad he gets. I had noticed for the last few months he had been spending a sick amount of money and his cell rang at all hou...	deecee6565	1	391	Jun 15, 2008 by Jerry F
	Moms Surgery (Preview) As many of you may already know my mom found a lump on her breast and it was cancerous well today was day of surgery and a long one for my family, many prayers well wishes from so many people and from this family of mines also id just like to send many many thanks Surgery went well at night visit she was sitting...	belle1	5	291	Jun 15, 2008 by cookie1971
	I am back! (Preview) Well, I hope I was missed, HA! HA! Seriously I was forgetting to check in. I don't remember the last time I posted. I am doing pretty well.. I am enjoying the much needed sunshine. Lots of rain earlier. I am very sorry for all of you in areas of the country who have suffered from excessive heat, floodin...	Hoot Nanny	2	332	Jun 15, 2008 by cookie1971
	elephant paints portrait (Preview) and now for something completely different... I saw this elephant on Animal Planet and found it so moving & beautiful, I thought it would be nice to share with all of you. I have never seen such a happy elephant in captivity before, truly amazing! http://www.treehugger.com/files/2008/06/am...	kitty	0	312	Jun 15, 2008 by kitty
	HELLO GUYS.... (Preview) ((((((((((((((((Guys))))))))))))))) Was thinking about you all and i decided to drop by and say hi Hoping this finds everyone having the courage to change their lives into what they want it to be... Well the last three months i have had no Al-anon, i felt i needed some time to truely get to know myse...	ally	3	324	Jun 15, 2008 by Jen
	technical problems (Preview) I haven't posted in weeks due to technical problems I probably created all by myself. I haven't been able to log on at all. Finally, with John's e-mail of this week, I was able to make contact. Now it seems my screen name is "joyoma" rather than "omajoy"!!! Isn't that interes...	joyoma	3	368	Jun 15, 2008 by Jen
	HELP!! Can I get a sponsor online? (Preview) Hi, I really need a sponsor and I was wondering if I can get one online? Or do I have to go to a live meeting to get one. Please let me know. I do not have an alcoholic in my family but my father (who died in 1995) was a ragoholic. He is still haunting me. My biggest problem is my weight. He always made fun of m...	madonna	9	1126	Jun 15, 2008 by kitty
	yay!! (Preview) Hi! Today my daughter and I peeled and cut potatoes together and I enjoyed it! More importantly, I felt like an adult! I just thought I'd share. Later Danette	seekingserenity	1	254	Jun 15, 2008 by belle1
	HAPPY FATHERS DAY AND A "THANK YOU" TO MY DAD (Preview) Happy Fathers Day to all MIP Fathers. A day to sit back and reflect not on mistakes we might have made, or things we wish we had done differently, but be proud of the opportunity we had to shape the lives of the ones we hold so dear. It is also a day to remember our own Fathers and all the things they did for...	RLC	1	492	Jun 15, 2008 by Karilynn
	Update (Preview) ((((Family))), Thank you for your love and prayers this past week. It has really meant alot to me. Hubby does not know that I posted asking for prayers, but if he did I know he'd appreciate it too. We were suppose to go to the doctor's yesterday, but he wasn't into it. I can understand that. Who want t...	Karilynn	9	445	Jun 14, 2008 by leo
	getting thrown under the bus (Preview) As I have posted, I have kept my private life very private. Given my life as it is and where it appears to be headed, I know it has been a good decision for me thus far. In this small town I am in, the privacy really kept the chaos at bay and has allowed me to move forward at my own pace. Other than immediate fami...	Loupiness	5	588	Jun 14, 2008 by Leetle
	Lost Job (Preview) Hi everyone, I new here and needed some feedback. I went to an open talk tonight, Al-Anon. It made me think about how similiar my life is compared to the A. When they are drinking, they make a lot of bad decisions. Well, I was looking back on my life and see how many bad decisions I've made. I have the same di...	notmywill	3	330	Jun 14, 2008 by maire rua
	so angery and Marriage therapy (Preview) just got back from our 3rd MT session, She said I still have to much anger at my ah, to keep comming back to the sessions, she said to my husband, can i do anything for you? I just walked out. Now i think he knows for sure i am crazy. All i do is just tare into him when i get there, i feel safe i don't confront him I am...	charr	8	1359	Jun 14, 2008 by junehouse
	Variables of Recovery, Healing and Growth (Preview) When we enter the world of recovery so many dynamics come into play. Life continues to unfold. We still experience saddness, disappointments, frustrations, anger and fear. Many of us don't know where we will end up from here. Where we will live, where we will work, how we will take care of our famil...	John	5	406	Jun 14, 2008 by Andrea12
	We all got played (Preview) Well I'm back. Things were looking good for a while for my AD. He quit drinking for about two weeks knowing that I was coming with my wife and kids and his brother and hit wife. The whole Memorial Day weekend was really good. I talked with my Mom and she was telling me about here alanon meetings and that my AD...	shawn306	7	776	Jun 14, 2008 by Euoria
	A is out of control again, i feel scared (Preview) i guess i should spell out the situation a little bit first. i live in public housing, fairly nice actually, but we do have problems. there has been a guy about 20 hanging around here - after a trespassing charge and restraining order - he's preyed on ateenage girl in the building before, and the rumor is...	sadako	5	648	Jun 14, 2008 by sadako
	I really need your help.................. (Preview) My son and I have been battling back and forth thru email-----I shouldn't say battling---they will not pick up the phone, or email. Well yesterday DS called me and I mean he was VERy mad--just yelling at me on the phone. A month ago their marriage was over---now its turned around and I am the big blame fo...	meagain	4	614	Jun 14, 2008 by Jerry F
	Gilmore Girls (Preview) so, I've watched this show from time to time and the relationship that Lauralei has with Rory, mother and daughter respectively, has been one I've often been jealous of. Here's why, Lauralei has this completely dysfunctional relationship with her own mother but she is a good mom in the show. Now, I kn...	seekingserenity	2	259	Jun 13, 2008 by maresie
	having an online sponsor (Preview) I have an online sponsor. I went to the alanon online room and was in the chat alot. In fact I started with online before face to face. I got face to face sponsor she really didn't help me. I am not suggesting that face to face sponsor don't work I enjoy it, however there are some people that might do better wi...	nycbt	10	796	Jun 13, 2008 by madonna
	Excuses and Blame (Preview) Dear All, Today I got another doozie of an email from one of my bosses. He says his higher ups are making him do these things which involve changing the title of my job which was sanctioned by all these higher ups. I rang him back and was very direct. I told him I was insulted by the email and had not received a...	maire rua	2	522	Jun 13, 2008 by maresie
	I am a Grandma (Preview) Hello Friends, Been awhile since I posted. I have a beautiful baby grand daughter. She was born May 31, at 5:30 am. It was a little bitter sweet as I was thinking why couldn't my husband be here he would have been such a wonderful grandpap. Things for me have been pretty good, I still cry, I miss him. How...	Andrea12	9	442	Jun 13, 2008 by Mabeleileen
	He wants me to change. (Preview) My AH that I am divorced from but have been living with for the past 3 years left under a rage, my interpretation, he felt guilty doing it in front of his family, his is that since his health is bad I have ignored him, wont help him financially for his meds and the kids get on his nerves. I use my tools everyday...	deecee6565	8	663	Jun 12, 2008 by deecee6565
	I'm new and needing input (Preview) Hi All, I'm new here, but I'm not new to Alanon, nor am I new to on-line support groups. Background: I've been with my AH for 23 years. When I was first w/him, he was actively drinking. I was a single mom of 3 kids, xh abandoned us and we haven't heard from him since, no child support, no nothing (and he wa...	queenie105	11	603	Jun 12, 2008 by SOSAD
	looking for nick 'Blessed' (Preview) anyone seen 'blessed' around or if you can read this yourself could u please leave a message id like to get in touch again belle1	belle1	0	308	Jun 12, 2008 by belle1
	vomitting blood (Preview) In the last few days, I've found out that (my step-dad) the A is vomitting blood daily, now. Not sure how long it's been happening. My mother mentioned it and it seems to have taken me a couple of days for it to really sink in. I knew he was bad, I know it's progressive. It is really sad to know he's at this s...	kitty	5	452	Jun 12, 2008 by Jean4444
	Sorry it's been a while (Preview) Hello everyone, So much has happened in my life since I was here last. Just to introduce myself to those of you who don't know me, I am a 34 yr old mother of 5 children and a wife to a wonderful man. I am also the daughter to a mother who is addicted to additions. Pills, alcohol, gambling, men, sex, internet, o...	mamaof4angels	1	417	Jun 12, 2008 by queenie105
	Update... (Preview) Things have been mellow and good lately. A little snafu with the bank, and changing accounts but I'm hoping that will be resolved without too much chaos. Still don't know if daughter graduated middle school and apparently they won't tell us until everyone is gone for the summer which I take as a bad s...	carolinagirl	6	337	Jun 12, 2008 by carolinagirl
	everyday's a new adventure...:) (Preview) SHAWNEE, Kan. - George Chandler says he didn't know a 2 1/2-inch nail was driven into his skull until his buddy spotted it stuck through his cap. Chandler said he felt only a sting. "It never did really what you call hurt," the Shawnee man said Wednesday on NBC's "Today." ADVERTI...	Tiger2006	1	266	Jun 12, 2008 by carolinagirl
	Starting Over- Insecurity (Preview) Well, the A is still in jail and I am SLOWLY leaving him behind. I still talk to him, etc, but it is getting easier to not answer the phone. I am also seeing someone else. He is "healthy" in that he has a great job is respectful of me, etc. He pays a lot of attention to me, etc. He is recently di...	Codependent	4	435	Jun 12, 2008 by Bettina
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