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angelnomore · angelnomore

I DON’T KNOW HOW it’s evolved to this PART4 Dear Friends Yesterday, the A in my life told me that while on this break he realized that; he doesn’t have that kick in stomach feeling for me and he never has, also the lack of attention both emotional and physical that I been feeling fro...

MrBlue42 · MrBlue42

(((everyone)))

sandie123 · sandie123

I have been having a bad problem with my self confidence... well that has been going on all my life but I am realizing it more now. I am feeling very confused as to why someone would want to be my friend, why someone would be willing to spend their time sponsoring me. I don't feel I deserve it. There is a p...

leo · leo

Today has been a long one. My husband was late it has been raining all day very unusual for here and my gut instinct told me he was drinking. He did not answer my phone calls and my instinct was spot on. He rocks up with his friend and pretends he has not been drinking which always makes m...

Attention AOL Users · John

If you are using AOL as your internet provider, please read the post at the top of our message board and it will tell you what you need to do in order to be seen by other room members when you enter our chatroom. Your chatroom nickname needs to be registered with StarChat.net in order for AOL users to have...

jonniejane1314 · jonniejane1314

Jennfer32 · Jennfer32

It is strange how making changes in ourselves and how we approach our A and our own shortcomings creates changes in our family, life, acquaintances, relationships. My A is still not living at home. I am just amazed at how much peace I am feeling with all of this. I find myself lookin...

debilyn · debilyn

Mil went to the "dark" side. lol I don't care one bit. She called and told friend that she does not want her or me doing anything now.Meth daughter came to her on her knees and begged her to give her another chance. Co that she is... uno the rest. Whatever. What do light and darkness have in common anywa...

Rita G · Rita G

Have you ever looked in the mirror and said: "God, I can't believe this is my Life" Prior to recovery everyday in my life, I remember looking in my mirror, trying to get ready for work, dark circles from no sleep, a night of worry, financial woes, fretting about my daughters, wond...

jennneeefffurrr · jennneeefffurrr

If not for being able to come here and REALLY expose myself I would NEVER have gotten through the past several weeks.

I have been blessed with so many burdens and blessings, God led me here, I feel like I have grown more in the past few weeks than I had in my last 3...

Karilynn · Karilynn

(((((((((((((Family))))))))), One of you kind souls sent me the Alanon Bill of Rights. However my ancient computer couldn't print it out. Can someone PM me with it, or reprint it here? It is really good and I think it would be helpful to others. Thank you. Love and blessings t...

jrtjosey · jrtjosey

What is the trick to keep moving forward in recovery? We may not be able to stop it completely, but maybe we can stop crashing backwards and slow the fall. I found this saying in my readings... BACKSLIDING BEGINS, WHEN KNEE-BENDING STOPS so if we remember to use our higher po...

Barbara · Barbara

I need to hear more about how to actively live with an alcoholic husband. Not how to shift the focus onto myself. How to connect to my husband, live with him happily, etc. I need to be told to spend time with my husband, join my husband & son when they fish, hang out on the deck with him and his friends (ev...

debilyn · debilyn

I got a horrible call first thing this morn. Mil's sister, who I have never met, was very rude to me. Telling me I was NOT part of the family and to BACK OFF. All I did was call and leave a message that mil had no cloths at the nursing home, and that mil's friend tried to go to the house to get some and mil's meth...

megan · megan

Thursday night my best friend and I got our butterfly pin in a celebration ceremony put on by our home group of alanon. This pin was given to us for our one year anniversary in alanon. The ceremony had an alanon speaker and an AA speaker and plenty of refreshments. The butterfly story w...

Emafer · Emafer

Lately I feel like everyone has permission to express thier feelings, to have excuses for their actions to have a free pass to do as they please whithout suffering the consequences, except ME. I feel like any time I express myself or just in general live my life, I can't turn around without getting hit....

Lanchas · Lanchas

I just realized I have been on this board for a total of 1 year, 2 months, 3 weeks, and 1 day! I've learned some things but I still have lots to learn. Lanchas

Andrea12 · Andrea12

(((hello friends)))) These past two days have been insane....hub checked out of the hospital yesterday. I picked him up and tok him to his dads.....hub was really out of it...I was worried but, left there to deal with it. Then he jut kept calling, he was telling me I have to get out of here....he doe...

Barbara · Barbara

People are always telling me "you have to relax!" Ive gotten back into reading fiction books, walk 30mins before work, 30mins after work, play catch w/DS most weeknights. This weekend with the nice weather finally coming Im planning on taking my book, my chair and myself to a nearby lake and just si...

jrtjosey · jrtjosey

"It's not how many times you breathe in your life time, it is the number of times your life takes your breath away" Are you doing special things in your life to allow to enjoy life enough to take your breath away? Finding serenity and keeping it, is one way to ensure that you never lose one of these mome...

AlaMom · AlaMom

It seems like forever since I have posted to this board or for that matter getting to a meeting. I certainly feel the difference in myself. Between computer problems, kids activities, and life in general, I have found very little time for myself. But I have found that there is hope...

Scota · Scota

Hey-

I just joined up as wggk but decided to change it scota b/c my A. hubby is familiar with wggk and don't want him to go snooping and read my posts in case I leave this screen up by accident. Wendy

angel123 · angel123

Alanon co-founder Lois Lois would have bin 99years young on March 4'1990 She died Oct.5,1988 If she was still alive today she would have bin 115years old Her life story has opened many doors for us.As I grew in AlAnon.I reserched manythings.I was interested in.Where Alanon started...In my reserc...

serendipity · serendipity

my ah just called. haven't spoken with him in a week. he has left messages but never called back. so he calls today. and i really let him have it. i didn't scream but i did tell him that he is a horrible person and i don't care if he has a disease or a mental illness. what he has done can never be undone. i told him...

hudsond · hudsond

Well today was the last day of school for me--yeah! Summer is officially here for me. I am not teaching summer school, so I can take some me time. I will not be posting or getting online as much since I do all of that at school--I don't have internet access at home. That may have t...

angel123 · angel123

I once posted about a skit we did at our convention and our aniversary party of Alanon,Found the words wanted to share..... *sung to the tune "I heard it through the Grapevine"(the california Raisins song) Ooh ooh I bet you wonder how I knew bout the trips to get your booze All those nights I w...

angel123 · angel123

Begining each day with one day at a time. Today my computor net was down so I was sitting here with foot in cast tring ,to stay put for I can not walk on it.Patiences is the key word for me.I thought how the ODAT book One day at a time is looking so old.But it does show I use it often.Turning to pages I spend valua...

twinmom2 · twinmom2

I think I'm due for a break from the hum drum routine, the A, and the kids. Some days I want to get in my car and travel to a remote beach area, check into a hotel and just relax for two whole days. I could use a week honestly, who couldn't right?

I hate to admit this to myself much less...

Gailey · Gailey

can someone please share what this slogan means. It is not one that I understand.

debilyn · debilyn

I was just thinking how i have NO expectations from my A. If I cannot accept him as is, then it is not being fair to him. I don't control him. I don't control anyone. I watch and see how they are and then if I can be around them fine. If not, then I don't. My sil is the meth user. She is real nice when she wants s...

nikkilou · nikkilou

Hi roomies, I have been feeling really down all week. Then I went to my sons dance class. He is four and loves to dance. There big show was last saturday today was there last class for the year. There was a little girl there her father used to take her to every class. Tod...

sarahlm · sarahlm

Allright, so my AH cant contact me for awhile in Prison. Its been 2 days and I am already freaked. My fridge broke this morning, my printer is out of ink, Im afraid to get the mail because of bills, my registration is due and car insurance, I cant get approved to visit him til I pay off an old $500 traffic tick...

jennneeefffurrr · jennneeefffurrr

I started off today feeling very productive and like I had regained some of my dignity and my mental and emotional state were starting to return to "normal". As the day has gone on, I have become very emotional about my A. I have re-read my posts and I see agony, fear, desperation, anger, strength an...

d53sjurne · d53sjurne

Well, it seems the 1st impressions of me are not so good in the place I found to try to get support. I felt a need to work them out as I felt after effects from reaching out in a time of panic and desperation coming back to haunt me. I had wanted clarity in case I was misinterpreted when I was in such awful crisis...

angelnomore · angelnomore

Today, is my father’s 81’st B-day, it didn’t think he would be here; I’m Thankful to God, Thank you Lord. I’m trying to stay focus on his care and my goal/boundaries of not speaking to the A in my life, as he needs a break, he said maybe in two weeks we can talk which will be June 5th (what the point...

sarahlm · sarahlm

I called a friend who is very grownup (the responsible kind of ACoA) and he bought me a new fridge at Best Buy (open box-total $400!) and I am going to pay it back in installments. He came over before we went and cleaned the dog poop for me while I got ready for work (and scolded her for me-I cant do it very well...

jecy · jecy

the last few days have been rough, but i have to say thank you all for listening. i have found peace in saying how i feel and not being made to feel guilty for feeling that way. mind you i'm on my first step and it seems 20 feet high. but i am sitting on top of it and it's only the begining. tomorrow's another day...

wggk · wggk

Hi, I just joined this message board the other day, thought I'd post an intro. I've already posted in the ACA board as well. I am married to an A, for 13 years now. Hubby is getting worse, so of course I am feeling more and more desperate. Right now I'd like nothing more to just end this marraige b...

Barbara · Barbara

Last week I quit Curves, then I didnt go to Church. This entire week Ive been thinking of quitting AlAnon. Thinking maybe its actually holding me back from going forward with my relationship with A husband. Planning on returning a book I borrowed from an AlAnon friend tomorrow morn just in case I dont r...

rtexas · rtexas

((((Family)))) I just found out that a young friend of ours who has been battling Lukemia is prognosis has been dropped to 2 wks to 2 months. He just finished a bone marrow transplant and things were looking very good. His parents and all of us really are just devistated. He is 18 years...

peanutb · peanutb

help me to pray that God's will is the correct will. help me to let it go. she'd rather visit her friends in arizona, california, new york, whereever. i don't want to drinki over it, but i have to stop crying. i haven't done anything. any suggestions? i've joined a gym, to work out my frustrations, i go to m...

bobump · bobump

Well I was served a huge dose of acceptance yesterday. Got a call the day before that my wife was do to discharge as insurance ran out. I bust my butt to see what I can do but then hit brick wall after brick wall. Yesterday, I call and my A is enroute home. I attempt a restraining order and can't get on...

debilyn · debilyn

A is in Jail dui's. I finally had to go see him to get his power of attorney signed so I can get his stuff from his moms house. Mom is in nursing home now, heading to assisted living. A very good thing. Meth daughter is being evicted from mil's house, good thing. My mil's friend tried to get cloths from mi...

Diva · Diva

As many of you know, and now all of you do, my name is Sandy. Several have messaged me to ask if I am the same Sandy who posts here using that name. One or two have mentioned that while we don't sound like the same person, the name causes a bit of wonder. "Sandy" is not that uncommon. I am actually Alexandra, sh...

Miranda · Miranda

Hi everybody. Well as you know, things have kinda sucked lately. Well I finally have some really good news. I gained custody of all three of my brothers and sisters! I'm so happy and excited. We can all finally have some stability. Anyway just thought I'd let everyone know! Mir

tea2 · tea2

I wish to share with the Just For Today approach. After reading a few posts here seems some have been down lately –I see a few members are noticing and sharing as a result. Hmmm... I’m trying with this new way of thinking lately that no matter how crummy a situation is for that day -to think happy thoug...

peewee · peewee

Problem: when I edit my info on map, my marker goes away!! What do I do now? Thank you, peeps.... Peewee

twinmom2 · twinmom2

My A has clearly made some good progress in the last couple of days. He's attended meetings every evening since Tuesday. He said last night he feels this time is different for him. He said he feels very welcomed by the other people, which before he felt awkward like he didn't fit int...

tippergirl · tippergirl

I am full of worry. I need prayers and positive thoughts that I my find comfort through this trying time. I don't want to go into details, but I too am praying for God's, comfort, wisdom, and mercy for both my a and myself. Thanks in advance.

afmom03 · afmom03

Hi Everyone!!!

It's been a LONG TIME Since I've posted here!! I couldn't remember my pass word!! <LOL> I finally found it in the back of my "secret journal" I started months ago, but fell away from it. It's been hidden in the closet for a few months now. ( GRRRRRRRR )!!! But I was still able to r...

Jayda · Jayda

Well, after being missing for 3 months, my brother has finally shown up back at my mom's. He is extremely unhealthy. He's been doing crack, meth, using needles. He's about as close to death as you can possibly be without actually being dead. He is so skinny and probably only weighs about 8...

Tammy · Tammy

I am sad today... Just a few days ago i wrote about how i was feeling numb. Well, today I am sad.. Not sobbing sad, but just blue sad .. ( you know the difference ) .. I guess it is part of this roller coaster we are on .. I think we should seperate again, that scares me but i know it is the right thing.. My...

KathyS · KathyS

I receive a daily reading an Al Anon site. I felt todays fit so well with the recent thread on clarification about MIP that I wanted to share it. ~~~~~~~~~~ Today's thought is: I can live for two months on a good compliment. -- Mark Twain Newcomer At a meet...

Jennifer · Jennifer

Good Morning All, Even though I have filed for divorce, and am ready to follow through there is this fantasy in my head of my AH finding recovery and living happily ever after together. I am afraid of the pain I will feel when this does not happen. Why I believe this will not happen was confirmed last n...

Taylor · Taylor

I am a fairly new to Al Anon, been joining the chat rooms but never really posted here or attended a f2f. During an online chat last night, I asked folks is it normal or common for your A to be nasty to your family (meaning my siblings/parents). It was a rough week for me this week...

sandy · sandy

Hi Everyone It's been a long time since I posted, December I think. It's been a rough year. My husband of 38 years just passed away 3 weeks ago. I could see it coming because he was so short of breath. He smoked 2-3 packs a day, more when he drank. He was also an "...

Emafer · Emafer

OK so last week I set a boundary with my roomate. She kind of crossed my line and the folowwing morning I left her a message saying basically "When you don't respect my boundaries it makes me feel insignificant and stepped on." So ever since the entire incident happened I've been obsessing about it. It D...

nikkilou · nikkilou

Hi roomies, I have a question. My husband and I have been in a malpractice trail for the past two weeks. I did not lie. I put all my faith in God. Let go and let God. Well they came back today in the doctors favor not ares. I'm still crying and feeling out of control. ...

Jennfer32 · Jennfer32

Is it normal to start healing, quit obsessing, completely detach and then question your love for your A? My husband came to the house to meet with a lawyer regarding our "landlord". He was laying on the couch, and I went up to him and touched his leg, and said "hey you!" We were like...

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

i was reading some posts and i have been noticing lately the PAIN , all OVER the world...like people just being SAD!!!!! i thought of my Ex and the good we had together, not just the bad....he was a sweet guy, funny as hell, and an alkie who did not want reco...

Topic		Started By	Replies	Views	Last Post
	I DON’T KNOW HOW it’s evolved to this PART4 (Preview) I DON’T KNOW HOW it’s evolved to this PART4 Dear Friends Yesterday, the A in my life told me that while on this break he realized that; he doesn’t have that kick in stomach feeling for me and he never has, also the lack of attention both emotional and physical that I been feeling fro...	angelnomore	5	356	May 28, 2006 by nmike
	New Server (Preview) (((everyone)))	MrBlue42	3	379	May 28, 2006 by kismetstrand
	self confidence (Preview) I have been having a bad problem with my self confidence... well that has been going on all my life but I am realizing it more now. I am feeling very confused as to why someone would want to be my friend, why someone would be willing to spend their time sponsoring me. I don't feel I deserve it. There is a p...	sandie123	2	338	May 28, 2006 by canadianguy
	gut instinct (Preview) Today has been a long one. My husband was late it has been raining all day very unusual for here and my gut instinct told me he was drinking. He did not answer my phone calls and my instinct was spot on. He rocks up with his friend and pretends he has not been drinking which always makes m...	leo	9	679	May 28, 2006 by canadianguy
	Attention AOL Users (Preview) If you are using AOL as your internet provider, please read the post at the top of our message board and it will tell you what you need to do in order to be seen by other room members when you enter our chatroom. Your chatroom nickname needs to be registered with StarChat.net in order for AOL users to have...	John	0	367	May 28, 2006 by John
	hello im jonnie (Preview)	jonniejane1314	5	367	May 28, 2006 by Jennfer32
	Strange... (Preview) It is strange how making changes in ourselves and how we approach our A and our own shortcomings creates changes in our family, life, acquaintances, relationships. My A is still not living at home. I am just amazed at how much peace I am feeling with all of this. I find myself lookin...	Jennfer32	2	288	May 28, 2006 by sandie123
	typical (Preview) Mil went to the "dark" side. lol I don't care one bit. She called and told friend that she does not want her or me doing anything now.Meth daughter came to her on her knees and begged her to give her another chance. Co that she is... uno the rest. Whatever. What do light and darkness have in common anywa...	debilyn	0	266	May 28, 2006 by debilyn
	God, I can't believe this is my Life (Preview) Have you ever looked in the mirror and said: "God, I can't believe this is my Life" Prior to recovery everyday in my life, I remember looking in my mirror, trying to get ready for work, dark circles from no sleep, a night of worry, financial woes, fretting about my daughters, wond...	Rita G	6	391	May 27, 2006 by lonely girl
	feeling SO much better! TY all and TY God (Preview) If not for being able to come here and REALLY expose myself I would NEVER have gotten through the past several weeks. I have been blessed with so many burdens and blessings, God led me here, I feel like I have grown more in the past few weeks than I had in my last 3...	jennneeefffurrr	7	426	May 27, 2006 by whitie
	Bill of rights (Preview) (((((((((((((Family))))))))), One of you kind souls sent me the Alanon Bill of Rights. However my ancient computer couldn't print it out. Can someone PM me with it, or reprint it here? It is really good and I think it would be helpful to others. Thank you. Love and blessings t...	Karilynn	5	3409	May 27, 2006 by d53sjurne
	how to stop 2 steps forward, 3 steps back (Preview) What is the trick to keep moving forward in recovery? We may not be able to stop it completely, but maybe we can stop crashing backwards and slow the fall. I found this saying in my readings... BACKSLIDING BEGINS, WHEN KNEE-BENDING STOPS so if we remember to use our higher po...	jrtjosey	7	728	May 27, 2006 by Andrea12
	seems we really dont hear much about how to live with the A but more on how to focus on ourselves (Preview) I need to hear more about how to actively live with an alcoholic husband. Not how to shift the focus onto myself. How to connect to my husband, live with him happily, etc. I need to be told to spend time with my husband, join my husband & son when they fish, hang out on the deck with him and his friends (ev...	Barbara	7	401	May 27, 2006 by Tiger2006
	do u relate? (Preview) I got a horrible call first thing this morn. Mil's sister, who I have never met, was very rude to me. Telling me I was NOT part of the family and to BACK OFF. All I did was call and leave a message that mil had no cloths at the nursing home, and that mil's friend tried to go to the house to get some and mil's meth...	debilyn	4	374	May 27, 2006 by d53sjurne
	Butterfly pin for 1 year in alanon (Preview) Thursday night my best friend and I got our butterfly pin in a celebration ceremony put on by our home group of alanon. This pin was given to us for our one year anniversary in alanon. The ceremony had an alanon speaker and an AA speaker and plenty of refreshments. The butterfly story w...	megan	17	1216	May 27, 2006 by Faith73
	When is it MY turn??? (Preview) Lately I feel like everyone has permission to express thier feelings, to have excuses for their actions to have a free pass to do as they please whithout suffering the consequences, except ME. I feel like any time I express myself or just in general live my life, I can't turn around without getting hit....	Emafer	8	407	May 27, 2006 by Karilynn
	Time (Preview) I just realized I have been on this board for a total of 1 year, 2 months, 3 weeks, and 1 day! I've learned some things but I still have lots to learn. Lanchas	Lanchas	2	308	May 27, 2006 by Maria123
	Two days of insanity (Preview) (((hello friends)))) These past two days have been insane....hub checked out of the hospital yesterday. I picked him up and tok him to his dads.....hub was really out of it...I was worried but, left there to deal with it. Then he jut kept calling, he was telling me I have to get out of here....he doe...	Andrea12	8	406	May 27, 2006 by mel123
	Relax relax - how do you relax? (Preview) People are always telling me "you have to relax!" Ive gotten back into reading fiction books, walk 30mins before work, 30mins after work, play catch w/DS most weeknights. This weekend with the nice weather finally coming Im planning on taking my book, my chair and myself to a nearby lake and just si...	Barbara	5	354	May 26, 2006 by whitie
	breathing (Preview) "It's not how many times you breathe in your life time, it is the number of times your life takes your breath away" Are you doing special things in your life to allow to enjoy life enough to take your breath away? Finding serenity and keeping it, is one way to ensure that you never lose one of these mome...	jrtjosey	8	369	May 26, 2006 by bubbles1990
	Taking time for self... (Preview) It seems like forever since I have posted to this board or for that matter getting to a meeting. I certainly feel the difference in myself. Between computer problems, kids activities, and life in general, I have found very little time for myself. But I have found that there is hope...	AlaMom	5	398	May 26, 2006 by Tracys Mom
	name change- but still me (Preview) Hey- I just joined up as wggk but decided to change it scota b/c my A. hubby is familiar with wggk and don't want him to go snooping and read my posts in case I leave this screen up by accident. Wendy	Scota	4	424	May 26, 2006 by Scota
	memory of our Lois (Preview) Alanon co-founder Lois Lois would have bin 99years young on March 4'1990 She died Oct.5,1988 If she was still alive today she would have bin 115years old Her life story has opened many doors for us.As I grew in AlAnon.I reserched manythings.I was interested in.Where Alanon started...In my reserc...	angel123	0	328	May 26, 2006 by angel123
	whoops (Preview) my ah just called. haven't spoken with him in a week. he has left messages but never called back. so he calls today. and i really let him have it. i didn't scream but i did tell him that he is a horrible person and i don't care if he has a disease or a mental illness. what he has done can never be undone. i told him...	serendipity	6	311	May 26, 2006 by jennneeefffurrr
	Summer is here (Preview) Well today was the last day of school for me--yeah! Summer is officially here for me. I am not teaching summer school, so I can take some me time. I will not be posting or getting online as much since I do all of that at school--I don't have internet access at home. That may have t...	hudsond	0	250	May 26, 2006 by hudsond
	lifeline (Preview) I once posted about a skit we did at our convention and our aniversary party of Alanon,Found the words wanted to share..... *sung to the tune "I heard it through the Grapevine"(the california Raisins song) Ooh ooh I bet you wonder how I knew bout the trips to get your booze All those nights I w...	angel123	2	337	May 26, 2006 by Juster
	ODAT (Preview) Begining each day with one day at a time. Today my computor net was down so I was sitting here with foot in cast tring ,to stay put for I can not walk on it.Patiences is the key word for me.I thought how the ODAT book One day at a time is looking so old.But it does show I use it often.Turning to pages I spend valua...	angel123	1	374	May 26, 2006 by toto12
	Need a break and having anxiety over it. (Preview) I think I'm due for a break from the hum drum routine, the A, and the kids. Some days I want to get in my car and travel to a remote beach area, check into a hotel and just relax for two whole days. I could use a week honestly, who couldn't right? I hate to admit this to myself much less...	twinmom2	4	401	May 26, 2006 by jennneeefffurrr
	the next best thing!!! (Preview) can someone please share what this slogan means. It is not one that I understand.	Gailey	5	396	May 26, 2006 by jennneeefffurrr
	expectations, my experience (Preview) I was just thinking how i have NO expectations from my A. If I cannot accept him as is, then it is not being fair to him. I don't control him. I don't control anyone. I watch and see how they are and then if I can be around them fine. If not, then I don't. My sil is the meth user. She is real nice when she wants s...	debilyn	5	372	May 26, 2006 by QOD
	feeling better (Preview) Hi roomies, I have been feeling really down all week. Then I went to my sons dance class. He is four and loves to dance. There big show was last saturday today was there last class for the year. There was a little girl there her father used to take her to every class. Tod...	nikkilou	2	298	May 26, 2006 by jennneeefffurrr
	In fear-dont know how to do "grownup" stuff (Preview) Allright, so my AH cant contact me for awhile in Prison. Its been 2 days and I am already freaked. My fridge broke this morning, my printer is out of ink, Im afraid to get the mail because of bills, my registration is due and car insurance, I cant get approved to visit him til I pay off an old $500 traffic tick...	sarahlm	4	385	May 26, 2006 by jennneeefffurrr
	5 minutes at a time (Preview) I started off today feeling very productive and like I had regained some of my dignity and my mental and emotional state were starting to return to "normal". As the day has gone on, I have become very emotional about my A. I have re-read my posts and I see agony, fear, desperation, anger, strength an...	jennneeefffurrr	7	328	May 26, 2006 by jennneeefffurrr
	Prayers and Blessings to All (Preview) Well, it seems the 1st impressions of me are not so good in the place I found to try to get support. I felt a need to work them out as I felt after effects from reaching out in a time of panic and desperation coming back to haunt me. I had wanted clarity in case I was misinterpreted when I was in such awful crisis...	d53sjurne	4	459	May 26, 2006 by d53sjurne
	I DON’T KNOW HOW it’s evolved to this PART 3 (Preview) Today, is my father’s 81’st B-day, it didn’t think he would be here; I’m Thankful to God, Thank you Lord. I’m trying to stay focus on his care and my goal/boundaries of not speaking to the A in my life, as he needs a break, he said maybe in two weeks we can talk which will be June 5th (what the point...	angelnomore	3	365	May 26, 2006 by jennneeefffurrr
	Update on being a grownup and thanks for being here (Preview) I called a friend who is very grownup (the responsible kind of ACoA) and he bought me a new fridge at Best Buy (open box-total $400!) and I am going to pay it back in installments. He came over before we went and cleaned the dog poop for me while I got ready for work (and scolded her for me-I cant do it very well...	sarahlm	4	340	May 26, 2006 by QOD
	making ground (Preview) the last few days have been rough, but i have to say thank you all for listening. i have found peace in saying how i feel and not being made to feel guilty for feeling that way. mind you i'm on my first step and it seems 20 feet high. but i am sitting on top of it and it's only the begining. tomorrow's another day...	jecy	2	278	May 26, 2006 by wggk
	Hi-newbie (Preview) Hi, I just joined this message board the other day, thought I'd post an intro. I've already posted in the ACA board as well. I am married to an A, for 13 years now. Hubby is getting worse, so of course I am feeling more and more desperate. Right now I'd like nothing more to just end this marraige b...	wggk	10	483	May 26, 2006 by wggk
	It doesnt need to be one way or the other - finding balance (Preview) Last week I quit Curves, then I didnt go to Church. This entire week Ive been thinking of quitting AlAnon. Thinking maybe its actually holding me back from going forward with my relationship with A husband. Planning on returning a book I borrowed from an AlAnon friend tomorrow morn just in case I dont r...	Barbara	3	386	May 26, 2006 by tiredtonite
	Prayer Request... (Preview) ((((Family)))) I just found out that a young friend of ours who has been battling Lukemia is prognosis has been dropped to 2 wks to 2 months. He just finished a bone marrow transplant and things were looking very good. His parents and all of us really are just devistated. He is 18 years...	rtexas	19	419	May 26, 2006 by hudsond
	i can't stop crying (Preview) help me to pray that God's will is the correct will. help me to let it go. she'd rather visit her friends in arizona, california, new york, whereever. i don't want to drinki over it, but i have to stop crying. i haven't done anything. any suggestions? i've joined a gym, to work out my frustrations, i go to m...	peanutb	8	554	May 26, 2006 by jecy
	looks like I get to learn how to live with recovery (Preview) Well I was served a huge dose of acceptance yesterday. Got a call the day before that my wife was do to discharge as insurance ran out. I bust my butt to see what I can do but then hit brick wall after brick wall. Yesterday, I call and my A is enroute home. I attempt a restraining order and can't get on...	bobump	8	374	May 25, 2006 by Karilynn
	and the beat goes on.... (Preview) A is in Jail dui's. I finally had to go see him to get his power of attorney signed so I can get his stuff from his moms house. Mom is in nursing home now, heading to assisted living. A very good thing. Meth daughter is being evicted from mil's house, good thing. My mil's friend tried to get cloths from mi...	debilyn	5	318	May 25, 2006 by nikkilou
	To clear up a bit of confusion (Preview) As many of you know, and now all of you do, my name is Sandy. Several have messaged me to ask if I am the same Sandy who posts here using that name. One or two have mentioned that while we don't sound like the same person, the name causes a bit of wonder. "Sandy" is not that uncommon. I am actually Alexandra, sh...	Diva	3	369	May 25, 2006 by Diva
	Good news! (Preview) Hi everybody. Well as you know, things have kinda sucked lately. Well I finally have some really good news. I gained custody of all three of my brothers and sisters! I'm so happy and excited. We can all finally have some stability. Anyway just thought I'd let everyone know! Mir	Miranda	9	373	May 25, 2006 by Karilynn
	How was your day? (Preview) I wish to share with the Just For Today approach. After reading a few posts here seems some have been down lately –I see a few members are noticing and sharing as a result. Hmmm... I’m trying with this new way of thinking lately that no matter how crummy a situation is for that day -to think happy thoug...	tea2	11	462	May 25, 2006 by Karilynn
	Help !!! with map!!! (Preview) Problem: when I edit my info on map, my marker goes away!! What do I do now? Thank you, peeps.... Peewee	peewee	2	292	May 25, 2006 by peewee
	Am I putting too much pressure on A? (Preview) My A has clearly made some good progress in the last couple of days. He's attended meetings every evening since Tuesday. He said last night he feels this time is different for him. He said he feels very welcomed by the other people, which before he felt awkward like he didn't fit int...	twinmom2	5	402	May 25, 2006 by kent_s
	need prayers (Preview) I am full of worry. I need prayers and positive thoughts that I my find comfort through this trying time. I don't want to go into details, but I too am praying for God's, comfort, wisdom, and mercy for both my a and myself. Thanks in advance.	tippergirl	7	305	May 25, 2006 by aunitedway
	Any Day Now.... (Preview) Hi Everyone!!! It's been a LONG TIME Since I've posted here!! I couldn't remember my pass word!! <LOL> I finally found it in the back of my "secret journal" I started months ago, but fell away from it. It's been hidden in the closet for a few months now. ( GRRRRRRRR )!!! But I was still able to r...	afmom03	3	317	May 25, 2006 by Busbe
	Finally (Preview) Well, after being missing for 3 months, my brother has finally shown up back at my mom's. He is extremely unhealthy. He's been doing crack, meth, using needles. He's about as close to death as you can possibly be without actually being dead. He is so skinny and probably only weighs about 8...	Jayda	3	273	May 25, 2006 by doxie
	Please say a prayer for me (Preview) I am sad today... Just a few days ago i wrote about how i was feeling numb. Well, today I am sad.. Not sobbing sad, but just blue sad .. ( you know the difference ) .. I guess it is part of this roller coaster we are on .. I think we should seperate again, that scares me but i know it is the right thing.. My...	Tammy	7	481	May 25, 2006 by QOD
	What not to expect from others.... (Preview) I receive a daily reading an Al Anon site. I felt todays fit so well with the recent thread on clarification about MIP that I wanted to share it. ~~~~~~~~~~ Today's thought is: *I can live for two months on a good compliment. -- Mark Twain* Newcomer At a meet...	KathyS	0	295	May 25, 2006 by KathyS
	Fantasy & reality (Preview) Good Morning All, Even though I have filed for divorce, and am ready to follow through there is this fantasy in my head of my AH finding recovery and living happily ever after together. I am afraid of the pain I will feel when this does not happen. Why I believe this will not happen was confirmed last n...	Jennifer	4	367	May 25, 2006 by jennneeefffurrr
	having an epiphany (Preview) I am a fairly new to Al Anon, been joining the chat rooms but never really posted here or attended a f2f. During an online chat last night, I asked folks is it normal or common for your A to be nasty to your family (meaning my siblings/parents). It was a rough week for me this week...	Taylor	1	400	May 25, 2006 by Christy
	Hello again (Preview) Hi Everyone It's been a long time since I posted, December I think. It's been a rough year. My husband of 38 years just passed away 3 weeks ago. I could see it coming because he was so short of breath. He smoked 2-3 packs a day, more when he drank. He was also an "...	sandy	5	325	May 25, 2006 by Diva
	Guilt (Preview) OK so last week I set a boundary with my roomate. She kind of crossed my line and the folowwing morning I left her a message saying basically "When you don't respect my boundaries it makes me feel insignificant and stepped on." So ever since the entire incident happened I've been obsessing about it. It D...	Emafer	6	557	May 25, 2006 by Emafer
	God problem (Preview) Hi roomies, I have a question. My husband and I have been in a malpractice trail for the past two weeks. I did not lie. I put all my faith in God. Let go and let God. Well they came back today in the doctors favor not ares. I'm still crying and feeling out of control. ...	nikkilou	6	381	May 25, 2006 by Diva
	Defining Love (Preview) Is it normal to start healing, quit obsessing, completely detach and then question your love for your A? My husband came to the house to meet with a lawyer regarding our "landlord". He was laying on the couch, and I went up to him and touched his leg, and said "hey you!" We were like...	Jennfer32	5	341	May 25, 2006 by jennneeefffurrr
	holy moly!! this is long even for ME (Preview) i was reading some posts and i have been noticing lately the PAIN , all OVER the world...like people just being SAD!!!!! i thought of my Ex and the good we had together, not just the bad....he was a sweet guy, funny as hell, and an alkie who did not want reco...	rosie light shines	3	424	May 25, 2006 by leo
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