Al-Anon Family Group - Al-Anon Family Group

nmike · nmike

I had a great holiday with my sons. Two home from college and my soldier home on leave. They are amazing people. I have felt so full of love for 3 weeks. Someone in the house, someone to help with the chores, someone to hug. I talked to them about their father and me and our separation. I think it bothers them...

snoopy · snoopy

Someone told me to start a new thread on this question so here goes. I have a question for everyone. This was a fatal question I asked 2 years ago when he left me for the 5th time and we were reconciling and going to meetings. I paid for this for 2 weeks afterward as my question was take...

chrissy · chrissy

Hi guys, Sorry it has been so long. Everything has been wonderful Chuck has been clean sober. Amanda is great & we are very happy. My whole family celebrated all the holidays together. We havent done that since my mom passed away 4 years ago

. i really miss...

serendipity · serendipity

i have gained 30 pounds since september. that is when my ex ah got sober(again) and started hanging out here with the kids (whom he had abandonded in march). he also has bipolar disorder which is currently unmedicated and is in a "remission" of sorts. yeah, back to me. well, it seems that i am in a pretty b...

Klynn · Klynn

I am holding up at home and at work but in the car is HELL!! I hide my tears at home so our child wont know I'm hurting, and of course I hide it at work, but when I am alone in the car driving to work the tears fall!! Yeah a not so good time to be crying!!!! *rolling eyes* I do cry at home after our child...

DeeDee · DeeDee

Hello my friends, I have much to learn here....I have been using this site since Labor Day last year, but since I also started school (in an attempt to focus on myself,) I have trouble staying with the program... Until I get myself into trouble again! Anyway, I am sooo grateful to be able...

hippietrippiechick · hippietrippiechick

I guess I may have, by my reactions last night with his sister, and since we are in an interraional relationship. I said the wrong thing. I said, "my family does not act so irrational" I yelled at him today to get hm to understand that he was really just brougt up by a wife-beating alcoholic. I said since my...

david62 · david62

Ahem......I'm not supposed to say but........oh well!!!! Maria123 is having her birthday today!!! Woooohoooo!!!!!!!!!!

Happy Birthday my friend!!! Hope you have a wonderful day!!!! Love ya! David

Davids wife · Davids wife

This has been the worst year I can imagine. After being sober for 8 years my husband starting drinking again, as of today, has gone to detox this year 6 times on his own. I am getting so tired of the rambling about what a*holes. (and that is being polite), (I am an ugly c**t becau...

marty · marty

i have the same problem,thinking of what the other person is not doing marty will,i also had had where i never measure up to my dad and it did not matter ,what i did,it was not good enought,but my dad been gone sence 84.i thought i tell you so you can get some back round on me and were i am coming from,it the sam...

carolinagirl · carolinagirl

Many times I feel unworthy, I see an attractive man and think he wouldn't want me, why would he want me, etc. I keep thinking if I change this or that then I will meet or attract the right person, the person I really want to be with. Sometimes I see this as ridiculous but most of the time I think i...

nycbt · nycbt

I am working on Step Six. Well working on the step I was working on not calling my husband all the time. Then I did some research and found that I have Attachment Disorder. Which means that I have had this problem since I was a little kid. I have realize that when I was dealing with my husband and he would take...

chris52 · chris52

Hello (((((((((Alanuts))))))))) First of all.....a belated Happy new Year to you all. I don't get to post often these days since it's so difficut for me to get to the internet,but when I do I avidly read as many posts as I can. A friend in Uk got me some Alanon literature and I managed to get a copy of Courag...

carol · carol

The more I go to meetings or go out to enjoy myself, I have come home to my A husband much worse than before I went. This has been going on for a couple of months now. I am having a lot of stress becuase my mother may be dying, my father is also very sick and griefstricken. It seems my...

Lauren ashley · Lauren ashley

I am the Lucky Girl to have you both…. I just wanted to say How thankful I am for you each day I may not tell you how much I love you, or how much I really care Let me tell you the love has always been there You both are my all The ones who picked me up every time I would fall Where would I be w...

jewely · jewely

i feel like my head is going to blow off. HE IS EVERYWHERE !!!!!!!!!!!!!! if i go down into another room he is there, come back upstairs, he is there. tried to explalin i don't feel well , would just like to lay down and QUIETLY watch tv. HE IS THERE !!!!!! oh, he has no problem wit...

hippietrippiechick · hippietrippiechick

I am calling Verizon (local telephone comp.) and having both his sister and niece's numbers blocked from calling on my phone. I am already having a hrd time getttng out, now I don't know. I know she will be looking for me. What do I keep in my purse to protect myslef. Anyone know how expesive mace or pepp...

cullyvan · cullyvan

post removed -- Edited by cullyvan at 10:27, 2007-01-08

kissers · kissers

I'm very confused about this. I'm very direct in that I state what I think and feel, so I am very lost. I keep hearing that those in Alanon are manipulative. Another member shared that when she was little she would give her mother evil looks to get what she wanted. She said this was controlling behavior. S...

Jeanie · Jeanie

I have been attending Al-Anon since 1991.due to my son's drinking and my ex-husband's drinking. I had a bad attitude and a loose mouth the criticizum and sarcasm that came out of my mouth was awfull. I never thought before I spoke I've learned to do that in Al-Anon. I've also learne...

Klynn · Klynn

So I am taking one day at a time....Hubby and I talked today, I told him some of my fears and worries, although I really did not want to....I want him to focus on him not me. But I cant keep much from him so I buckled....I felt better afterwards!! He talked some too, I realized that we are both in...

hippietrippiechick · hippietrippiechick

I guess I haven't had a very good day. I have been in a lot of physidal pain, and my A has some kind of flu==I really don't want to mess with hism a lot since I was just in the hosp. for pneumonia right after Thanksgiving. I have realized I myself can just have the bitchiest attitutde around my A, even...

Fifi · Fifi

hi all so my weekend visit to A in rehab went well...i had 8 hours of aa life...talked with a lot of A's, and their loved ones. attended my first aa meeting - heard the stories that we all know - so moving, so hopeful, so much reliance on HP. he and i had good talks....open communication - what our needs,...

carol · carol

My A is in the hospital for the 5th time in 2 months because of his drinking. He was very, very sick & escaped a heart attack again but he's getting close to no-escape. At home I can detach, & deal with my A husband when he tries to cause an argument, manipulate me etc.&n...

kkw · kkw

Hi- I'm new to the site and have never done this. My A is in treatment for a relapse after 14 months sober. The Dr. at the center is thinking of putting him on a RX for cravings. I'm not sure if it will work but my A is hopeful. I guess anything is worth a try. I'd be in...

Karilynn · Karilynn

(((((((((((Family))))))))))), We have another birthday girl today. Shh.....don't tell anyone but it's our GARDENGAL!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEET GARDENGAL! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!

May it be extra spec...

maire rua · maire rua

My ex-A who I refused to have for Christmas had to be hospitalised on new year's eve for high blood pressure. He is staying with me and is now watching tv. That might not sound so strange only it is ten years since he has staying away from the pub and watched television in a family environment. Unfortunate...

New member needs help. · lilliput

I have been with my husband for 20 years and he has been an alcoholic all of this time. It has been livable but not an enjoyable life. He recently became steadily weaker, had loss of muscle mass, loss of appetite and weight. He then suffered two seizures. My daughter who knows how t...

kissers · kissers

http://www.lightmovie.com/

Lunamoth · Lunamoth

(((((Everyone)))))) I'm taking a little break from the board. Things here are a bit unmanagable and I need to focus on taking care of a few things. I thank you all for the prayers for my friend. Her Ex-Ah has been sent home, because that is where he wants to be. He's been given abo...

rtexas · rtexas

(((((Everyone)))))) This song has become very popular around here. Really sums up how I feel these days. Hope you like it and take it as a personal wish from me to you even though I stole it... LOL My wish, for you, is that this life becomes all that you want it to, your dreams stay big, yo...

sissy · sissy

I am back home at the apt. I have a big presentation tommorrow and I am nervous about it. I am having to adjust to my one nephew moving away from me and he will not call me. It is nice to have the peace and quiet but I miss him. I could not go to my parents this partly because my broth...

Rebecca · Rebecca

marmare · marmare

It's a crisis for the A.....I am trying to stay on track, things have been going good for me, new job, going through the feelings and feeling them of losing my mom. My A for the most part has been a good husband, coming home after work, not hanging out in the bars, although he's still drinking. ...

hersh · hersh

(((Everyone))): I have lived with my AH for 17 years, and we have both raised his children together that his ex-wife left 17 years ago. I have had these kids since they were 2 and 6. They are now 19 and 23. They have kept in touch with their mother but never lived with her, visited a co...

johello · johello

I have tried to find you - just want to thank you for helping me that friday night before xmas early in the morning est. I thought your name was breezee but forgot. then remembered wendy. Please know your words meant so much to get me through that night. Now i check in regularly with alanon. W...

Klynn · Klynn

Hi so if you have not guessed I am NEW here!! Well everyone probably already KNOWS why I am here so I guess to tell you what is going on and how I feel is the next step right!?!? My husband has come to the realization that he has a problem!! He has smoked pot for 15 years or so. But he REALLY sta...

Fifi · Fifi

sooooo two weeks from now,Aboyfriend gets out of rehab...unable to go back to his former living situation(tho he primarily lived with me and my two daughters) because they are drinkers. unwilling to move to his mother's(thank god). does not want to go to 1/2 way house, tho he hasn't explored that p...

snoopy · snoopy

I found this on another messageboard and it touched me so much that I ask your permission to share it with you. This must be one heck of a guy. If I had a husband with a fraction of these principles, I would be still married. Imagine-- no lying, no cheating, no manipulati...

kerry5 · kerry5

Business Meeting this month only will be held on January 14th, 2007 at 9pm est. If you have anything to add for the agenda or any new concerns please let me know. Kerry

Nvizable_mike · Nvizable_mike

I would like to thank all of you who sent Christmas cards and care packages to us at the Miricales in Progress recovery house. Your support ment so mutch to all of us. As Christmas aproched I was feeling so alone and was sarting to f...

albertarose · albertarose

Happy New Year everyone! I have not been on much due to the holidays and being sick with an aweful cold. I am ready for the new year to begin right and with that, some new changes that I have to make. The most biggest change I must concentrate on is TRUST!!!!!! Trust is so hard for me as I have been abused in eve...

Fifi · Fifi

so can i feel sorry for myself here? i HATE to do that. i just dropped off my kids at their dad's house....the kids are there one night a week only....it was all nice and cozy and cleaned by his new partner....i come home to my house - big,messy,full of toys,laundry,dishes,papers and the anxiety of m...

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abryann · abryann

So, tonight I was going to my first f2f alanon meeting. I was super nervous, but determined. I was running a little late because my boyfriend kept talking to me (I think he thought if he made me run late, I would decide not to go). So, when I got there, I hurried in and sat at a table with s...

gardengal · gardengal

Each year millions of people "say" they are going to this and do that.........but in alanon we learn to not only say we are going to change in some ways, but we do it to improve our life situations. I for one take each new year as another challenge, how can I make my life more simpler, less stre...

shadow1 · shadow1

((((((((((((((roomies)))))))))))))) If any of you were wondering what happened to Ally (aka hen) her internet is down. She will be back as soon as they fix it. I'm praying that it is not much longer. We miss you hen!!!!! Take care Shad

debilyn · debilyn

Are we all invisible??? (c: Just kidding, so what do you think? I mean how did all the shares make ya feel? You brought up something we all relate to. Are you ok? Please do not disappear. That took courage to share your feelings. I am glad you did. love,debilyn

carolinagirl · carolinagirl

On match dot com I have a terrific career working for a non-profit, which allows me to occasionally wander through swamps starting the woods on fire. The work is rewarding and I could not imagine doing anything else. Not your ordinary lawyer! It's a sign... An internet surfing lawyer who is singl...

mmerlino · mmerlino

Lately, things in my life seem to be going in circles. And, as I led a meeting I realized that if I surrender on a daily basis. I will not only become one with my HP, but also find that my option to use and the choice to use is eliminated. Because, with that surrender I adapt my will to my&n...

faraway06 · faraway06

MIP Friends-- Happy new year!! I hope it is filled with happiness, hope, health for everyone. Just took my 5th step today with a fellow member and feel really good about how far I've come, and so much more realistic than I used to be about how far I have to go. I'm so grateful to this program for h...

RainyJamie · RainyJamie

Wow, I can't believe it has been only six days since I found MIP. Things have been going a little more smoothly lately, almost smooth enough to forget there was even an issue. I found a nearby meeting, but because I was trying to secretive, I ended up taking care of the kids while he was out somewhere. His d...

annmarie · annmarie

Hi everyone, My A and I split a few weeks ago. I have a nice new place to live and although it's lonely without him, I'm setting in. I'm doing okay. I had no choice but to split I felt. His drinking was getting worse and worse and I couldn't cope with it at all in the end. I thought I was doing the right thing by...

maresie2 · maresie2

The A I live with is in a huge sulk. He's playing video games night and day (he's always done that). He has let many of his bills go. He is not even initiating work anymore. I can't imagine what some of his customers must think (he is an electrician) he has cut his phone off. He has also le...

maresie2 · maresie2

I am having such a really really bad day at the moment. The hotel didn't pay me. They are jerking me around. I now have to wait a few days and then file for the labor board if needbe. Needless to say that is a tremendously long process and I hope I don't have to go down that. Of cours...

irish54 · irish54

Hi family! Well, the holidays were very difficult, and yes, I'm glad they are over. My daughter (grandaughter) who left home the 10th of Dec. did come for a little bit Christmas Eve and then again for a few hours Christmas day. She didn't say much, although did say she loves me when she left.&...

kabbie · kabbie

hello all, i have not posted in awhile, and just wanted to say hello. my daughter is at 100 days or so of recovery, and my husband and i the same. he's actually been more faithful than i to alanon the past few weeks, but the holidays and end of year work obligations keep me a bit more tied up than him. i'm g...

jennifer9 · jennifer9

I just wanted to give some hope to those out there who might be new to al-anon. I've been going to meetings for about one and a half years now. I was a real mess when I first arrived and wasn't really sure how it could help me because like most people I was seeking someone to tell me what to do. I left the first me...

johello · johello

I am new here ( just before xmas). I just want to thank the angel who talked to me that scarey night when I got a call from the police telling me my husband got picked up for a dui. Her words calmed me , let me know that the situation was not caused by me.I only wish I could cont...

hudsond · hudsond

I have been thinking a lot lately about ruts and pits. I read a book over the holidays called Get out of the Pit. I found the book very helpful. It basically tells how at some point or another we all get in a pit, and although we can't get out of them ourselves, if we ask our HP (God) for help He wil...

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	back to reality (Preview) I had a great holiday with my sons. Two home from college and my soldier home on leave. They are amazing people. I have felt so full of love for 3 weeks. Someone in the house, someone to help with the chores, someone to hug. I talked to them about their father and me and our separation. I think it bothers them...	nmike	1	247	Jan 9, 2007 by rtexas
	equal but opposite needs--who trumps (Preview) Someone told me to start a new thread on this question so here goes. I have a question for everyone. This was a fatal question I asked 2 years ago when he left me for the 5th time and we were reconciling and going to meetings. I paid for this for 2 weeks afterward as my question was take...	snoopy	16	567	Jan 9, 2007 by nmike
	hey guys (Preview) Hi guys, Sorry it has been so long. Everything has been wonderful Chuck has been clean sober. Amanda is great & we are very happy. My whole family celebrated all the holidays together. We havent done that since my mom passed away 4 years ago . i really miss...	chrissy	4	401	Jan 9, 2007 by chrissy
	boundries....again (Preview) i have gained 30 pounds since september. that is when my ex ah got sober(again) and started hanging out here with the kids (whom he had abandonded in march). he also has bipolar disorder which is currently unmedicated and is in a "remission" of sorts. yeah, back to me. well, it seems that i am in a pretty b...	serendipity	4	378	Jan 8, 2007 by carolena
	:o/ (Preview) I am holding up at home and at work but in the car is HELL!! I hide my tears at home so our child wont know I'm hurting, and of course I hide it at work, but when I am alone in the car driving to work the tears fall!! Yeah a not so good time to be crying!!!! rolling eyes I do cry at home after our child...	Klynn	1	264	Jan 8, 2007 by CJ
	Patterns of behavior (Preview) Hello my friends, I have much to learn here....I have been using this site since Labor Day last year, but since I also started school (in an attempt to focus on myself,) I have trouble staying with the program... Until I get myself into trouble again! Anyway, I am sooo grateful to be able...	DeeDee	5	415	Jan 8, 2007 by emma
	Well, I may have just broke the straw........ (Preview) I guess I may have, by my reactions last night with his sister, and since we are in an interraional relationship. I said the wrong thing. I said, "my family does not act so irrational" I yelled at him today to get hm to understand that he was really just brougt up by a wife-beating alcoholic. I said since my...	hippietrippiechick	2	272	Jan 8, 2007 by hippietrippiechick
	Who's the Birthday Girl!!!????? (Preview) Ahem......I'm not supposed to say but........oh well!!!! Maria123 is having her birthday today!!! Woooohoooo!!!!!!!!!! Happy Birthday my friend!!! Hope you have a wonderful day!!!! Love ya! David	david62	29	994	Jan 8, 2007 by emma
	It is getting old.. (Preview) This has been the worst year I can imagine. After being sober for 8 years my husband starting drinking again, as of today, has gone to detox this year 6 times on his own. I am getting so tired of the rambling about what aholes. (and that is being polite), (I am an ugly c*t becau...	Davids wife	9	524	Jan 8, 2007 by emma
	how do i think of me (Preview) i have the same problem,thinking of what the other person is not doing marty will,i also had had where i never measure up to my dad and it did not matter ,what i did,it was not good enought,but my dad been gone sence 84.i thought i tell you so you can get some back round on me and were i am coming from,it the sam...	marty	1	356	Jan 8, 2007 by lin0606
	I feel unworthy a lot (Preview) Many times I feel unworthy, I see an attractive man and think he wouldn't want me, why would he want me, etc. I keep thinking if I change this or that then I will meet or attract the right person, the person I really want to be with. Sometimes I see this as ridiculous but most of the time I think i...	carolinagirl	10	595	Jan 8, 2007 by Jerry F
	what i learned (Preview) I am working on Step Six. Well working on the step I was working on not calling my husband all the time. Then I did some research and found that I have Attachment Disorder. Which means that I have had this problem since I was a little kid. I have realize that when I was dealing with my husband and he would take...	nycbt	2	249	Jan 8, 2007 by maresie2
	Red flags (Preview) Hello (((((((((Alanuts))))))))) First of all.....a belated Happy new Year to you all. I don't get to post often these days since it's so difficut for me to get to the internet,but when I do I avidly read as many posts as I can. A friend in Uk got me some Alanon literature and I managed to get a copy of Courag...	chris52	16	513	Jan 8, 2007 by maresie2
	The stronger I get, the worse my A gets (Preview) The more I go to meetings or go out to enjoy myself, I have come home to my A husband much worse than before I went. This has been going on for a couple of months now. I am having a lot of stress becuase my mother may be dying, my father is also very sick and griefstricken. It seems my...	carol	11	549	Jan 8, 2007 by babysteps
	A POem... (Preview) I am the Lucky Girl to have you both…. I just wanted to say How thankful I am for you each day I may not tell you how much I love you, or how much I really care Let me tell you the love has always been there You both are my all The ones who picked me up every time I would fall Where would I be w...	Lauren ashley	8	316	Jan 8, 2007 by Rita G
	i am not happy with myself (Preview) i feel like my head is going to blow off. HE IS EVERYWHERE !!!!!!!!!!!!!! if i go down into another room he is there, come back upstairs, he is there. tried to explalin i don't feel well , would just like to lay down and QUIETLY watch tv. HE IS THERE !!!!!! oh, he has no problem wit...	jewely	8	417	Jan 8, 2007 by Fifi
	Made a decision about all the crap that happened last night.... (Preview) I am calling Verizon (local telephone comp.) and having both his sister and niece's numbers blocked from calling on my phone. I am already having a hrd time getttng out, now I don't know. I know she will be looking for me. What do I keep in my purse to protect myslef. Anyone know how expesive mace or pepp...	hippietrippiechick	0	250	Jan 8, 2007 by hippietrippiechick
	Hello again... (Preview) post removed -- Edited by cullyvan at 10:27, 2007-01-08	cullyvan	0	220	Jan 8, 2007 by cullyvan
	What is manipulative behavior? (Preview) I'm very confused about this. I'm very direct in that I state what I think and feel, so I am very lost. I keep hearing that those in Alanon are manipulative. Another member shared that when she was little she would give her mother evil looks to get what she wanted. She said this was controlling behavior. S...	kissers	13	4554	Jan 8, 2007 by roygbiv
	Old Time Al-Anon Snow bird (Preview) I have been attending Al-Anon since 1991.due to my son's drinking and my ex-husband's drinking. I had a bad attitude and a loose mouth the criticizum and sarcasm that came out of my mouth was awfull. I never thought before I spoke I've learned to do that in Al-Anon. I've also learne...	Jeanie	2	338	Jan 8, 2007 by roygbiv
	Today went well (Preview) So I am taking one day at a time....Hubby and I talked today, I told him some of my fears and worries, although I really did not want to....I want him to focus on him not me. But I cant keep much from him so I buckled....I felt better afterwards!! He talked some too, I realized that we are both in...	Klynn	2	258	Jan 8, 2007 by roygbiv
	haven't posted for a while, however...... (Preview) I guess I haven't had a very good day. I have been in a lot of physidal pain, and my A has some kind of flu==I really don't want to mess with hism a lot since I was just in the hosp. for pneumonia right after Thanksgiving. I have realized I myself can just have the bitchiest attitutde around my A, even...	hippietrippiechick	2	341	Jan 8, 2007 by roygbiv
	reaction (Preview) hi all so my weekend visit to A in rehab went well...i had 8 hours of aa life...talked with a lot of A's, and their loved ones. attended my first aa meeting - heard the stories that we all know - so moving, so hopeful, so much reliance on HP. he and i had good talks....open communication - what our needs,...	Fifi	2	276	Jan 8, 2007 by debilyn
	Anger & shame are eating me up (Preview) My A is in the hospital for the 5th time in 2 months because of his drinking. He was very, very sick & escaped a heart attack again but he's getting close to no-escape. At home I can detach, & deal with my A husband when he tries to cause an argument, manipulate me etc.&n...	carol	3	584	Jan 8, 2007 by debilyn
	Treatment/Medications (Preview) Hi- I'm new to the site and have never done this. My A is in treatment for a relapse after 14 months sober. The Dr. at the center is thinking of putting him on a RX for cravings. I'm not sure if it will work but my A is hopeful. I guess anything is worth a try. I'd be in...	kkw	1	263	Jan 8, 2007 by CJ
	Another birthday girl! (Preview) (((((((((((Family))))))))))), We have another birthday girl today. Shh.....don't tell anyone but it's our GARDENGAL! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEET GARDENGAL! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! May it be extra spec...	Karilynn	12	452	Jan 8, 2007 by gardengal
	A lot can happen in a week (Preview) My ex-A who I refused to have for Christmas had to be hospitalised on new year's eve for high blood pressure. He is staying with me and is now watching tv. That might not sound so strange only it is ten years since he has staying away from the pub and watched television in a family environment. Unfortunate...	maire rua	2	264	Jan 8, 2007 by nmike
	New member needs help. (Preview) I have been with my husband for 20 years and he has been an alcoholic all of this time. It has been livable but not an enjoyable life. He recently became steadily weaker, had loss of muscle mass, loss of appetite and weight. He then suffered two seizures. My daughter who knows how t...	lilliput	2	307	Jan 7, 2007 by nmike
	A Gift For All of You (Preview) http://www.lightmovie.com/	kissers	2	260	Jan 7, 2007 by kissers
	Taking a break from the board (Preview) (((((Everyone)))))) I'm taking a little break from the board. Things here are a bit unmanagable and I need to focus on taking care of a few things. I thank you all for the prayers for my friend. Her Ex-Ah has been sent home, because that is where he wants to be. He's been given abo...	Lunamoth	9	498	Jan 7, 2007 by Maria123
	My wish for you... (Preview) (((((Everyone)))))) This song has become very popular around here. Really sums up how I feel these days. Hope you like it and take it as a personal wish from me to you even though I stole it... LOL My wish, for you, is that this life becomes all that you want it to, your dreams stay big, yo...	rtexas	5	370	Jan 7, 2007 by Maria123
	I am adjusting to alot of changes (Preview) I am back home at the apt. I have a big presentation tommorrow and I am nervous about it. I am having to adjust to my one nephew moving away from me and he will not call me. It is nice to have the peace and quiet but I miss him. I could not go to my parents this partly because my broth...	sissy	2	253	Jan 7, 2007 by sissy
	Positive Update on ME! (Preview)	Rebecca	8	395	Jan 7, 2007 by kclady
	here we go again (Preview) It's a crisis for the A.....I am trying to stay on track, things have been going good for me, new job, going through the feelings and feeling them of losing my mom. My A for the most part has been a good husband, coming home after work, not hanging out in the bars, although he's still drinking. ...	marmare	5	431	Jan 7, 2007 by Karilynn
	Horrible tragedy but hope... (Preview) (((Everyone))): I have lived with my AH for 17 years, and we have both raised his children together that his ex-wife left 17 years ago. I have had these kids since they were 2 and 6. They are now 19 and 23. They have kept in touch with their mother but never lived with her, visited a co...	hersh	17	629	Jan 7, 2007 by peewee
	wendy are you there??? (Preview) I have tried to find you - just want to thank you for helping me that friday night before xmas early in the morning est. I thought your name was breezee but forgot. then remembered wendy. Please know your words meant so much to get me through that night. Now i check in regularly with alanon. W...	johello	0	216	Jan 6, 2007 by johello
	Newbie here.... (Preview) Hi so if you have not guessed I am NEW here!! Well everyone probably already KNOWS why I am here so I guess to tell you what is going on and how I feel is the next step right!?!? My husband has come to the realization that he has a problem!! He has smoked pot for 15 years or so. But he REALLY sta...	Klynn	7	332	Jan 6, 2007 by Klynn
	i know i need to be clear-help (Preview) sooooo two weeks from now,Aboyfriend gets out of rehab...unable to go back to his former living situation(tho he primarily lived with me and my two daughters) because they are drinkers. unwilling to move to his mother's(thank god). does not want to go to 1/2 way house, tho he hasn't explored that p...	Fifi	9	497	Jan 6, 2007 by confused
	This must be one heck of a guy!!! ( 1 2 ) (Preview) I found this on another messageboard and it touched me so much that I ask your permission to share it with you. This must be one heck of a guy. If I had a husband with a fraction of these principles, I would be still married. Imagine-- no lying, no cheating, no manipulati...	snoopy	55	1594	Jan 6, 2007 by Tiger2006
	Business Meeting (Preview) Business Meeting this month only will be held on January 14th, 2007 at 9pm est. If you have anything to add for the agenda or any new concerns please let me know. Kerry	kerry5	1	256	Jan 6, 2007 by Karilynn
	**THANKS FOR CHRISTMAS CARDS**** (Preview) I would like to thank all of you who sent Christmas cards and care packages to us at the Miricales in Progress recovery house. Your support ment so mutch to all of us. As Christmas aproched I was feeling so alone and was sarting to f...	Nvizable_mike	12	519	Jan 6, 2007 by DanaAngel
	Trusting my AH (Preview) Happy New Year everyone! I have not been on much due to the holidays and being sick with an aweful cold. I am ready for the new year to begin right and with that, some new changes that I have to make. The most biggest change I must concentrate on is TRUST!!!!!! Trust is so hard for me as I have been abused in eve...	albertarose	4	464	Jan 6, 2007 by jewely
	glum (Preview) so can i feel sorry for myself here? i HATE to do that. i just dropped off my kids at their dad's house....the kids are there one night a week only....it was all nice and cozy and cleaned by his new partner....i come home to my house - big,messy,full of toys,laundry,dishes,papers and the anxiety of m...	Fifi	5	304	Jan 6, 2007 by Christy
	I'm Home! (Preview)   ...	afmom03	2	253	Jan 6, 2007 by lmt123
	Oops, wrong meeting! (Preview) So, tonight I was going to my first f2f alanon meeting. I was super nervous, but determined. I was running a little late because my boyfriend kept talking to me (I think he thought if he made me run late, I would decide not to go). So, when I got there, I hurried in and sat at a table with s...	abryann	4	325	Jan 6, 2007 by david62
	Resolutions silly? NOT when it comes to alanon ones! (Preview) Each year millions of people "say" they are going to this and do that.........but in alanon we learn to not only say we are going to change in some ways, but we do it to improve our life situations. I for one take each new year as another challenge, how can I make my life more simpler, less stre...	gardengal	0	242	Jan 6, 2007 by gardengal
	Ally is ok but her internet is not (Preview) ((((((((((((((roomies)))))))))))))) If any of you were wondering what happened to Ally (aka hen) her internet is down. She will be back as soon as they fix it. I'm praying that it is not much longer. We miss you hen!!!!! Take care Shad	shadow1	6	302	Jan 6, 2007 by jewely
	Hey Drucilla!!!! (Preview) Are we all invisible??? (c: Just kidding, so what do you think? I mean how did all the shares make ya feel? You brought up something we all relate to. Are you ok? Please do not disappear. That took courage to share your feelings. I am glad you did. love,debilyn	debilyn	2	315	Jan 6, 2007 by jewely
	Lookey what I found... (Preview) On match dot com I have a terrific career working for a non-profit, which allows me to occasionally wander through swamps starting the woods on fire. The work is rewarding and I could not imagine doing anything else. Not your ordinary lawyer! It's a sign... An internet surfing lawyer who is singl...	carolinagirl	1	284	Jan 5, 2007 by rtexas
	Faith and Trust (Preview) Lately, things in my life seem to be going in circles. And, as I led a meeting I realized that if I surrender on a daily basis. I will not only become one with my HP, but also find that my option to use and the choice to use is eliminated. Because, with that surrender I adapt my will to my&n...	mmerlino	1	255	Jan 5, 2007 by MsgBo
	letting go lovingly--ESH?? (Preview) MIP Friends-- Happy new year!! I hope it is filled with happiness, hope, health for everyone. Just took my 5th step today with a fellow member and feel really good about how far I've come, and so much more realistic than I used to be about how far I have to go. I'm so grateful to this program for h...	faraway06	2	479	Jan 5, 2007 by CJ
	Almost a week (Preview) Wow, I can't believe it has been only six days since I found MIP. Things have been going a little more smoothly lately, almost smooth enough to forget there was even an issue. I found a nearby meeting, but because I was trying to secretive, I ended up taking care of the kids while he was out somewhere. His d...	RainyJamie	3	315	Jan 5, 2007 by RainyJamie
	he resents me (Preview) Hi everyone, My A and I split a few weeks ago. I have a nice new place to live and although it's lonely without him, I'm setting in. I'm doing okay. I had no choice but to split I felt. His drinking was getting worse and worse and I couldn't cope with it at all in the end. I thought I was doing the right thing by...	annmarie	7	532	Jan 5, 2007 by doxie
	Detachment such a difficult one (Preview) The A I live with is in a huge sulk. He's playing video games night and day (he's always done that). He has let many of his bills go. He is not even initiating work anymore. I can't imagine what some of his customers must think (he is an electrician) he has cut his phone off. He has also le...	maresie2	6	472	Jan 5, 2007 by Fifi
	really bad day (Preview) I am having such a really really bad day at the moment. The hotel didn't pay me. They are jerking me around. I now have to wait a few days and then file for the labor board if needbe. Needless to say that is a tremendously long process and I hope I don't have to go down that. Of cours...	maresie2	5	433	Jan 5, 2007 by doxie
	Update (Preview) Hi family! Well, the holidays were very difficult, and yes, I'm glad they are over. My daughter (grandaughter) who left home the 10th of Dec. did come for a little bit Christmas Eve and then again for a few hours Christmas day. She didn't say much, although did say she loves me when she left.&...	irish54	4	251	Jan 5, 2007 by irish54
	100 days of recovery (Preview) hello all, i have not posted in awhile, and just wanted to say hello. my daughter is at 100 days or so of recovery, and my husband and i the same. he's actually been more faithful than i to alanon the past few weeks, but the holidays and end of year work obligations keep me a bit more tied up than him. i'm g...	kabbie	3	367	Jan 5, 2007 by kabbie
	wanted to share (Preview) I just wanted to give some hope to those out there who might be new to al-anon. I've been going to meetings for about one and a half years now. I was a real mess when I first arrived and wasn't really sure how it could help me because like most people I was seeking someone to tell me what to do. I left the first me...	jennifer9	4	295	Jan 5, 2007 by faraway06
	an angel that night (Preview) I am new here ( just before xmas). I just want to thank the angel who talked to me that scarey night when I got a call from the police telling me my husband got picked up for a dui. Her words calmed me , let me know that the situation was not caused by me.I only wish I could cont...	johello	6	396	Jan 5, 2007 by Rita G
	Pits (Preview) I have been thinking a lot lately about ruts and pits. I read a book over the holidays called Get out of the Pit. I found the book very helpful. It basically tells how at some point or another we all get in a pit, and although we can't get out of them ourselves, if we ask our HP (God) for help He wil...	hudsond	4	307	Jan 5, 2007 by Rita G
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