Al-Anon Family Group - Al-Anon Family Group

whitie · whitie

I was at the doctor yesterday and was diagnosed with Essential Tremors. The shaking is more prevelent when taking decongestents like I've been taking for my sinus', or from caffeine or stress. The doctor said that the tremors are proven to settle down some when you consume alcohol! All I could do was l...

angel123 · angel123

1988 The Forum put together each slogan to repercent a flower,It was done once more in 1990 at a convention that I know of.I have collected a few.Do not have all for I donated some of my forum books to my home group,given to members in time of need or wanting them.Thought you may enjoy.Attachment is the re...

just me · just me

This is my first time posting. My ex husband is one of my current A's. I have a family full of them! He is the father of my 4 yr old daughter. Therefore I have to deal with him even though we are divorced. To give you a little background on our situation...he filed fo...

angelinme908 · angelinme908

After my f2f meeting, I didn't want to go and sit home alone so I decided to go out to the bar and socialize. I figured it would be safe - my ex g/f has a class on Wed. and is busy with work so shouldn't be out. I was wrong!!!! I go in and I see her with the ex g/f before me. They are with a g...

nycbt · nycbt

My husband has too much time on his hands. He has not been working in a while maybe only on a tue or sat and the rest of the time he has been home. So therefore he has been home all day long. I can't prove it however I know that in the past he has gotten into alot of troblue. Last night when I came down into the hallw...

UncleLou · UncleLou

Went to my homegroup AA meeting last night and saw a young face I thought I recognized. Went up to him after the meeting and asked "didn't I give you a ride after a meeting a few years ago?" Yup same kid, he remembered me. The meeting was a year and a half ago, the kid (early 20's) had just gotten out of a...

Kim · Kim

Well, here I am again. Last night my A decided it was time for him to make "amends" with my father and he went to see him. Aplogized for everything and took the blame for our separation...yada, yada yada....I was not at all in support of this I didnot feel that he was in the right place to do so....

toto12 · toto12

Hi John, Can you help? I wanted to register on the acoa site board room, but it won't take me because it says that my email address is already in use. I used my email address for this site, naturally. I only have one email. What do I do to be in both rooms with one email address? And, w...

Dolphin123 · Dolphin123

Hi Roomies Julie (browneyes) Hey! i just saw your note asking how some of us were. I appreciate your thoughts! I have been so busy it is crazy, but I am enjoying it so much.For the first time in years I have a social life, lol and I am having a hard time keeping up with it. I have been going to my me...

abbyal · abbyal

Hello John , I have some excerpts fromthe FORUM , THEY ARE ON USING THE TRADITIONS IN OUR HOMES AND PERSONAL LIVES. IS IT POSSIBLE TO PUT THEM ON THE BOARD , ONE AT A TIME? THEY ARE REALLY QUITE INTERESTING. lOUISE

confused · confused

This is just so unfair, just when I think I am doing ok I fall back intoa pit. I went to see my A in the hospital yesterday to meet with the Dr. and the care coordinator. I thought it went ok but apparrently I was wrong. They have diagnosed him Bipolar and are starting him on Lithium and have increased the Zolo...

chrissy · chrissy

hi guys, i just wanted to say thank you for all your love & support. i couldn't have gotten through this with out you & my hp. i have made some really great friends here. & i just wanted to share. chuck has been doing wonderful my family is great. amanda's attitude has changed back to my...

Cyn · Cyn

I had a friend rip into me tonight about my ex. He got mad at me because his sister informed him (she is a very good friend of mine as well) that I called Child Protective Services on my ex when I found out he was addicted to painkillers and couldnt take care of his 5 year old son. Now this friend i...

angel123 · angel123

hope you enjoy the attachment love Sharon/angel

Marian2 · Marian2

I am new to this board, but not alcoholism/addiction, and have been on the 'fringes' of Alanon for many years. I am now finally getting serious about really working the program, but realize I have a long way to go. My husband of 30 years was an alcoholic until his death (of course alcohol related) 18 year...

angel123 · angel123

Hope you enjoy the attachment love Sharon/angel

Picowitch · Picowitch

Well boy am I feeling guilty now. My A and I have been living apart for about 3 months or more, cos I needed to get off the rollercoaster. He has now been sober 2 months, and I'm wrestling with my guilt cos twice in the past 2 weeks I've falsely accused him of drinking. I am only just starting t...

angel123 · angel123

Easy does it is a slogan I often need to put in effect in my life,Click the attachment to read...Forum 1988 Love Sharon/angel

chris52 · chris52

Happy Christmas to each and every one of you. The best thing that happened for me this year was finding this Alanon site and giving me the privilege of meeting up with you fantastic people. You've all given me hope and encouragement and your many words of wisdom have led me from the path of misery to one of...

nycbt · nycbt

I would like to say happy xmas and new years to everyone. I am going to be off for a whole week next week for those who will be worrying where I am.

twinmom2 · twinmom2

Hello Group, I just wanted to wish all of you a Merry Christmas and a Happy Holidays. I'll be off for a week with my boys having fun. I pray that all of us have a blessed and safe holiday. This website and all of you have really enriched my life and gave me a safe Haven of comfort to expre...

John · John

Hi everyone, For two days now, the guys at Miracles In Progress Recovery House have received a great number of xmas cards from you fine folks here at MIP 12 Step Forums! If you could see their faces light up, the smiles cross their lips, as they eagerly rip open and read each card...

angel123 · angel123

From the forum,A slogan

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

You are reading from the book Today's Gift </OA_HTML/ibeCCtpItmDspRte.jsp?item=2121>. I came to see the damage that was done and the treasures that prevail. --Adrienne Rich It takes great courage to face ourselves--to look honestly and fearlessly at our behavior, especially i...

Rebecca · Rebecca

well..... im here again. this computer seems like my only friend at the moment. the only one who doesnt keep asking me questions.... my "A" is at home with his parents for the moment. he doesnt seem happy to be in such a "confined location". im living about an hours drive away.... and he rang earli...

LauraI · LauraI

Hello, I have started to write this four times now, but I can't seem to finish it. I don't even know what I am trying to say. I have been reading your posts now for a few weeks and I am trying to decide if this is for me. I can't say for sure if there is alcoholism in my family. I feel like both my parents have sub...

alanajune · alanajune

Hi everyone. So I was haveing a wonderful day and was SO impressed with myself because this is one of the FIRST days I got through without speading the ENTIRE day wondering why he wasn't calling, or wondering what he was doing, or wondering if/what he was thinking of me/ playing our most recent conver...

JulieLynn · JulieLynn

My husband and I have been seperated now for 6 weeks and I have been having the time of my life. I got married the first time around at a very young age and had kids young and then got involved with my current husband so I haven't really ever "lived". Here's the thing, my husband and I have agree...

angel123 · angel123

I have collected readings from the forum,and thought i would share a few Hope you enjoy,or find helpful love Sharon/angel

Cyn · Cyn

You all are fantastic - thanks for all the hugs and congratulations! I am so excited and really feel loved by you all. My ex was the first one to encourage me to go for this new business and the new job - knowing I would be good for it and giving me the courage to go for it. Now I have both - I h...

leo · leo

Hi guys, Today I want to thank each and everyone of you for all your support since I came to the board. I now have faith in a higher power thanks to MIP. I had a chest x-ray a week ago and I was stressing that I had lung cancer as my Dad died of it at age 47 which I am now. Before...

nycbt · nycbt

I am still having trouble getting into the chat room. sometimes i get in which seems to be rare now.

-- Edited by nycbt at 16:08, 2005-12-21

Cyn · Cyn

I got the job...in tears - my life just started!!!

captcodee · captcodee

Yesterday I responded to a post from Marmare about "when is it my time?" It seems that Marmare and i both had the same feelings yesterday, and as I read the replies, so did many others. But Powerless suggested we grab our purse, and get the heck out of the house and do something for ourselves...r...

Earthgirl · Earthgirl

Hello All, I am brand new to the forum but not brand new to the disease of Alcoholism. My father was an alcoholic and was very abusive. I left home at 14 and never went back. I have been in many relationships through the years, some with Alcoholics and some with non-addicts. They always end the same way....

angel123 · angel123

This is from the forum,called meeting in my pocket.

marmare · marmare

My A came home last night from bowling and they had a gift exchange, guess what he got? Yep alcohol. 5 little airplane bottles, of course he and two team mates drank them at the bowling alley. He said "I didn't drink enough to even feel guilty.' Am I wrong to think that this is ju...

rosie light shines · rosie light shines

Faith is the bird that sings when the dawn is still dark. ---Rabindranath Tagore There may be many things in our lives that seem unsure or doubtful. Whatever our hope or personal need today, we are not given the knowledge that tells us how things will turn out. In the predawn darkness we don't know h...

Cyn · Cyn

I've been doing a lot of soul searching since my breakup to determine why it is that I end up in serious relationships with either addicts or children of addicts. My first serious boyfriend, who was one of the most amazing human beings I ever met was a child of an alcoholic. He was so unbelie...

Powerless · Powerless

There are so many things in my future that I don't know what will happen or when. There is so much I can't control. I have decided that I have had enough sitting around waiting to see what is going to happen. I need to be proactive instead of reactive. I don't know if my daughter will e...

Jeannie · Jeannie

Hi, It was so good to see my parents. I have really missed them. My husband never showed up, so there was no altercations with him. His parents showed up, but with my parents here, they are troo concerned with appearances to cause much trouble. The sweetness was just dripping from his mother, with m...

beans · beans

First off, let me say that I have been impressed with and encouraged by the amount of understanding and genuine caring I have seen on this board--I've been a "lurker" for some time now, trying to decide if I belong here or if I would be imposing on you. I've decided that I have a problem with my H's...

Cyn · Cyn

Today is the day that I am supposed to find out about my new job - WISH ME LUCK!! I am actually getting really nervous. I am counting on getting this job too much and am hoping for it - its scaring me! I went onto the university's website last night and looked at their master's program in clin...

Kim · Kim

I went to PA this weekend for our family Christmas Party. I drove up with my dad and we had some nice chats on the way up...nothing about my A.....it was nice to spend some time alone with my dad. My stepmother and stepsisters came up ans well, both with their respective boyfriends. They are wonder...

confused · confused

What a weekend. I went to church yesterday morning and weeped through the entire service. I guess that is a good thing, I have not cried in a long time. I must have felt safe there to do so. After the service the youth group leader asked to speak to me in private. There had been a Christmas party on Friday nig...

confused · confused

Today I an confused again. I took a half a sick day yesterday to try to get some things done for the holiday without messing with the kids routing too much. I was quite successful in that task. Task it is, quite tiring. But I was happy to be able to buy the kids the gift without the added guilt that it was going...

Robinks · Robinks

Please pray for a friend of my son Matthew. His name is Josh Barnill and he is 10 years old and having seizures. The doctors have not figured out what is wrong with him.

dogscribe · dogscribe

Hi all - I haven't posted in a while but I always do come to read and "lurk" because even just doing that helps a lot. Anyway on last Friday I actually mentioned what I call "my tales of woe" to a couple friends - one in another state (via email) and one here at work. They were both really really accep...

liliana · liliana

Hi Everyone, I've been making alot of f to f meetings and getting to know some strong women. I am looking forward to my day off today just to be alone and peaceful. My a was really mean last night. I bought tickets to a Broadway show for his birthday a few weeks ago. So we went to the show yesterday and he ridic...

John · John

As most of us think..This website only reaches the United States... I would like to personally welcome those of you have come to join us that are from all across the world. We understand the time difference and appreciate you staying up late at night. If you have children, we also have a Fami...

cdb · cdb

Hello Maria, My daughter told me about that book. I do plan to read it when I have time but for now am wondering if you feel it is for all alanon people to read? Just looking for your own opnion. cdb :)

nycbt · nycbt

My weekend was nice. On Thursday I went to a concert/dance for a radio station, my husband won tickets which was very nice. He didn't drink was awsome it was a good night. The only thing I worried about was the transit strike on the subway. Which was nice. No transit stike that day. On Friday my husband and...

pixel04 · pixel04

OK, I've proven to myself the God Box works with everything, big and small...lol. We have doggie daycare in our city, and one day a week I take our dog to play there while I am at work. She loves this chance to play with 50 other dogs to no end. All you have to do is say the word "daycare"...

jonibaloni21 · jonibaloni21

Hi Friends, Yesterday I lost my Uncle Kelly, the man who took the place of my A father after he left when I was 7 yrs old. He was 92 yrs old, had everything under the sun wrong with his poor ol body and was very ready to meet his God. But, did you ever notice , that God always takes the most giving wonderful peo...

notsonew1111 · notsonew1111

well my a started working on his workbooks and readings he got from the counsellor. he wanted me to come and discuss it with him during the online meeting. i told him i will when my meeting is over. i want him to know his program wont interfere with mine.mine comes first for me and his for him. make sense? an...

Lanchas · Lanchas

I had to write a paper for my final exam in my Written communications course at college. I think I did a good job. Anyone want to see it? If you do just say so. Lanchas

missylost · missylost

Well since I tend to share so much during the meetings I've decided to try writing in here a little more and maybe get some more feedback from the rest of you. I love the meetings and I love hearing from those of you who have been there for a wile and even those of you who are fairly new like me.&nb...

david62 · david62

Hi everyone, I know this is a little unusual, but I have a friend that had something they were going to post on the board her, who has lost access to internet. They wanted me to post it for them to get feedback from yall and I will print these out for her to read. I would sure appreciate it if yo...

kitty · kitty

So the last 26 years was a lie. I was lying in bed thinking about the facade of the Holidays. Every year, I say I "don't want anything" but that never works. I thought about writing my parents some poetry. Not sure if I will but it seems neither one of them has noticed me much. I...

bobump · bobump

Well, as I mentioned in chat. Had a visit w/ my therapist Friday. He specializes in addictions and I picked him to help me cope with the A and all that goes with her. Things of interest. He said many times when he has patients that are showing codependent behaviors, he hands them a c...

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	Isn't is ironic? (Preview) I was at the doctor yesterday and was diagnosed with Essential Tremors. The shaking is more prevelent when taking decongestents like I've been taking for my sinus', or from caffeine or stress. The doctor said that the tremors are proven to settle down some when you consume alcohol! All I could do was l...	whitie	3	368	Dec 22, 2005 by whitie
	Serenity Prayer (Preview) 1988 The Forum put together each slogan to repercent a flower,It was done once more in 1990 at a convention that I know of.I have collected a few.Do not have all for I donated some of my forum books to my home group,given to members in time of need or wanting them.Thought you may enjoy.Attachment is the re...	angel123	1	354	Dec 22, 2005 by Faith73
	Detaching with love (Preview) This is my first time posting. My ex husband is one of my current A's. I have a family full of them! He is the father of my 4 yr old daughter. Therefore I have to deal with him even though we are divorced. To give you a little background on our situation...he filed fo...	just me	7	450	Dec 22, 2005 by leo
	Help - I can't do it anymore (Preview) After my f2f meeting, I didn't want to go and sit home alone so I decided to go out to the bar and socialize. I figured it would be safe - my ex g/f has a class on Wed. and is busy with work so shouldn't be out. I was wrong!!!! I go in and I see her with the ex g/f before me. They are with a g...	angelinme908	8	656	Dec 22, 2005 by angelinme908
	too much time (Preview) My husband has too much time on his hands. He has not been working in a while maybe only on a tue or sat and the rest of the time he has been home. So therefore he has been home all day long. I can't prove it however I know that in the past he has gotten into alot of troblue. Last night when I came down into the hallw...	nycbt	3	351	Dec 22, 2005 by leo
	Joy to share (Preview) Went to my homegroup AA meeting last night and saw a young face I thought I recognized. Went up to him after the meeting and asked "didn't I give you a ride after a meeting a few years ago?" Yup same kid, he remembered me. The meeting was a year and a half ago, the kid (early 20's) had just gotten out of a...	UncleLou	9	436	Dec 22, 2005 by leo
	merry freakin christmas (Preview) Well, here I am again. Last night my A decided it was time for him to make "amends" with my father and he went to see him. Aplogized for everything and took the blame for our separation...yada, yada yada....I was not at all in support of this I didnot feel that he was in the right place to do so....	Kim	8	476	Dec 22, 2005 by Flora123
	also for oz, John (Preview) Hi John, Can you help? I wanted to register on the acoa site board room, but it won't take me because it says that my email address is already in use. I used my email address for this site, naturally. I only have one email. What do I do to be in both rooms with one email address? And, w...	toto12	0	351	Dec 22, 2005 by toto12
	Checking In! (Preview) Hi Roomies Julie (browneyes) Hey! i just saw your note asking how some of us were. I appreciate your thoughts! I have been so busy it is crazy, but I am enjoying it so much.For the first time in years I have a social life, lol and I am having a hard time keeping up with it. I have been going to my me...	Dolphin123	3	335	Dec 22, 2005 by twinmom2
	for John (Preview) Hello John , I have some excerpts fromthe FORUM , THEY ARE ON USING THE TRADITIONS IN OUR HOMES AND PERSONAL LIVES. IS IT POSSIBLE TO PUT THEM ON THE BOARD , ONE AT A TIME? THEY ARE REALLY QUITE INTERESTING. lOUISE	abbyal	0	393	Dec 22, 2005 by abbyal
	venting and lost in confusion (Preview) This is just so unfair, just when I think I am doing ok I fall back intoa pit. I went to see my A in the hospital yesterday to meet with the Dr. and the care coordinator. I thought it went ok but apparrently I was wrong. They have diagnosed him Bipolar and are starting him on Lithium and have increased the Zolo...	confused	6	383	Dec 22, 2005 by KathyS
	thank you (Preview) hi guys, i just wanted to say thank you for all your love & support. i couldn't have gotten through this with out you & my hp. i have made some really great friends here. & i just wanted to share. chuck has been doing wonderful my family is great. amanda's attitude has changed back to my...	chrissy	8	347	Dec 22, 2005 by megan
	Annoyed (Preview) I had a friend rip into me tonight about my ex. He got mad at me because his sister informed him (she is a very good friend of mine as well) that I called Child Protective Services on my ex when I found out he was addicted to painkillers and couldnt take care of his 5 year old son. Now this friend i...	Cyn	3	348	Dec 22, 2005 by KathyS
	One Day at a Time (Preview) hope you enjoy the attachment love Sharon/angel	angel123	1	318	Dec 22, 2005 by Dolphin123
	Need Help with a Decision (Preview) I am new to this board, but not alcoholism/addiction, and have been on the 'fringes' of Alanon for many years. I am now finally getting serious about really working the program, but realize I have a long way to go. My husband of 30 years was an alcoholic until his death (of course alcohol related) 18 year...	Marian2	8	451	Dec 22, 2005 by maresie
	listen and Learn (Preview) Hope you enjoy the attachment love Sharon/angel	angel123	1	358	Dec 22, 2005 by Dolphin123
	Feeling Guilty (Preview) Well boy am I feeling guilty now. My A and I have been living apart for about 3 months or more, cos I needed to get off the rollercoaster. He has now been sober 2 months, and I'm wrestling with my guilt cos twice in the past 2 weeks I've falsely accused him of drinking. I am only just starting t...	Picowitch	7	391	Dec 22, 2005 by marmare
	Easy Does it (Preview) Easy does it is a slogan I often need to put in effect in my life,Click the attachment to read...Forum 1988 Love Sharon/angel	angel123	2	351	Dec 22, 2005 by Marian2
	Christmas Greetings (Preview) Happy Christmas to each and every one of you. The best thing that happened for me this year was finding this Alanon site and giving me the privilege of meeting up with you fantastic people. You've all given me hope and encouragement and your many words of wisdom have led me from the path of misery to one of...	chris52	3	364	Dec 22, 2005 by Karilynn
	merry xmas (Preview) I would like to say happy xmas and new years to everyone. I am going to be off for a whole week next week for those who will be worrying where I am.	nycbt	6	314	Dec 22, 2005 by Karilynn
	Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays (Preview) Hello Group, I just wanted to wish all of you a Merry Christmas and a Happy Holidays. I'll be off for a week with my boys having fun. I pray that all of us have a blessed and safe holiday. This website and all of you have really enriched my life and gave me a safe Haven of comfort to expre...	twinmom2	3	322	Dec 22, 2005 by Karilynn
	Christmas Smile Abound! (Preview) Hi everyone, For two days now, the guys at Miracles In Progress Recovery House have received a great number of xmas cards from you fine folks here at MIP 12 Step Forums! If you could see their faces light up, the smiles cross their lips, as they eagerly rip open and read each card...	John	4	550	Dec 21, 2005 by whitie
	Let Go let God (Preview) From the forum,A slogan	angel123	2	369	Dec 21, 2005 by whitie
	making friends with step 4 (Preview) **You are reading from the book Today's Gift </OA_HTML/ibeCCtpItmDspRte.jsp?item=2121>. I came to see the damage that was done and the treasures that prevail. --Adrienne Rich** It takes great courage to face ourselves--to look honestly and fearlessly at our behavior, especially i...	rosie light shines	1	455	Dec 21, 2005 by cedarpines
	Update on my situation...... (Preview) well..... im here again. this computer seems like my only friend at the moment. the only one who doesnt keep asking me questions.... my "A" is at home with his parents for the moment. he doesnt seem happy to be in such a "confined location". im living about an hours drive away.... and he rang earli...	Rebecca	5	470	Dec 21, 2005 by maresie
	new (Preview) Hello, I have started to write this four times now, but I can't seem to finish it. I don't even know what I am trying to say. I have been reading your posts now for a few weeks and I am trying to decide if this is for me. I can't say for sure if there is alcoholism in my family. I feel like both my parents have sub...	LauraI	13	458	Dec 21, 2005 by maresie
	I hate fear. (Preview) Hi everyone. So I was haveing a wonderful day and was SO impressed with myself because this is one of the FIRST days I got through without speading the ENTIRE day wondering why he wasn't calling, or wondering what he was doing, or wondering if/what he was thinking of me/ playing our most recent conver...	alanajune	4	375	Dec 21, 2005 by maresie
	I don't know what to think of this (Preview) My husband and I have been seperated now for 6 weeks and I have been having the time of my life. I got married the first time around at a very young age and had kids young and then got involved with my current husband so I haven't really ever "lived". Here's the thing, my husband and I have agree...	JulieLynn	4	463	Dec 21, 2005 by maresie
	First things first (Preview) I have collected readings from the forum,and thought i would share a few Hope you enjoy,or find helpful love Sharon/angel	angel123	2	351	Dec 21, 2005 by angel123
	Thank you!! (Preview) You all are fantastic - thanks for all the hugs and congratulations! I am so excited and really feel loved by you all. My ex was the first one to encourage me to go for this new business and the new job - knowing I would be good for it and giving me the courage to go for it. Now I have both - I h...	Cyn	8	435	Dec 21, 2005 by angelinme908
	merry xmas (Preview) Hi guys, Today I want to thank each and everyone of you for all your support since I came to the board. I now have faith in a higher power thanks to MIP. I had a chest x-ray a week ago and I was stressing that I had lung cancer as my Dad died of it at age 47 which I am now. Before...	leo	6	378	Dec 21, 2005 by sandie123
	still having trouble (Preview) I am still having trouble getting into the chat room. sometimes i get in which seems to be rare now. -- Edited by nycbt at 16:08, 2005-12-21	nycbt	0	305	Dec 21, 2005 by nycbt
	I GOT THE JOB (Preview) I got the job...in tears - my life just started!!!	Cyn	21	419	Dec 21, 2005 by twinmom2
	Thank you Powerless and Marmare (Preview) Yesterday I responded to a post from Marmare about "when is it my time?" It seems that Marmare and i both had the same feelings yesterday, and as I read the replies, so did many others. But Powerless suggested we grab our purse, and get the heck out of the house and do something for ourselves...r...	captcodee	6	429	Dec 21, 2005 by notsonew1111
	Trust Issues (Preview) Hello All, I am brand new to the forum but not brand new to the disease of Alcoholism. My father was an alcoholic and was very abusive. I left home at 14 and never went back. I have been in many relationships through the years, some with Alcoholics and some with non-addicts. They always end the same way....	Earthgirl	9	567	Dec 21, 2005 by nycbt
	From Forum (Preview) This is from the forum,called meeting in my pocket.	angel123	1	315	Dec 21, 2005 by nycbt
	When is it my time? (Preview) My A came home last night from bowling and they had a gift exchange, guess what he got? Yep alcohol. 5 little airplane bottles, of course he and two team mates drank them at the bowling alley. He said "I didn't drink enough to even feel guilty.' Am I wrong to think that this is ju...	marmare	8	600	Dec 21, 2005 by dogscribe
	i need a microscope to see my faith (Preview) *Faith is the bird that sings when the dawn is still dark. ---Rabindranath Tagore* There may be many things in our lives that seem unsure or doubtful. Whatever our hope or personal need today, we are not given the knowledge that tells us how things will turn out. In the predawn darkness we don't know h...	rosie light shines	3	611	Dec 21, 2005 by leo
	Personal inventory (Preview) I've been doing a lot of soul searching since my breakup to determine why it is that I end up in serious relationships with either addicts or children of addicts. My first serious boyfriend, who was one of the most amazing human beings I ever met was a child of an alcoholic. He was so unbelie...	Cyn	8	412	Dec 21, 2005 by bobump
	My future (Preview) There are so many things in my future that I don't know what will happen or when. There is so much I can't control. I have decided that I have had enough sitting around waiting to see what is going to happen. I need to be proactive instead of reactive. I don't know if my daughter will e...	Powerless	6	407	Dec 21, 2005 by bobump
	Indifference (Preview) Hi, It was so good to see my parents. I have really missed them. My husband never showed up, so there was no altercations with him. His parents showed up, but with my parents here, they are troo concerned with appearances to cause much trouble. The sweetness was just dripping from his mother, with m...	Jeannie	4	526	Dec 20, 2005 by leo
	Where to begin? (Preview) First off, let me say that I have been impressed with and encouraged by the amount of understanding and genuine caring I have seen on this board--I've been a "lurker" for some time now, trying to decide if I belong here or if I would be imposing on you. I've decided that I have a problem with my H's...	beans	6	399	Dec 20, 2005 by beans
	Today is the day... (Preview) Today is the day that I am supposed to find out about my new job - WISH ME LUCK!! I am actually getting really nervous. I am counting on getting this job too much and am hoping for it - its scaring me! I went onto the university's website last night and looked at their master's program in clin...	Cyn	3	366	Dec 20, 2005 by Jeannie
	families (Preview) I went to PA this weekend for our family Christmas Party. I drove up with my dad and we had some nice chats on the way up...nothing about my A.....it was nice to spend some time alone with my dad. My stepmother and stepsisters came up ans well, both with their respective boyfriends. They are wonder...	Kim	2	366	Dec 20, 2005 by browneyes
	angel among us (Preview) What a weekend. I went to church yesterday morning and weeped through the entire service. I guess that is a good thing, I have not cried in a long time. I must have felt safe there to do so. After the service the youth group leader asked to speak to me in private. There had been a Christmas party on Friday nig...	confused	8	425	Dec 20, 2005 by Jeannie
	it's 5 am and I KNOW i have along day (Preview) Today I an confused again. I took a half a sick day yesterday to try to get some things done for the holiday without messing with the kids routing too much. I was quite successful in that task. Task it is, quite tiring. But I was happy to be able to buy the kids the gift without the added guilt that it was going...	confused	2	393	Dec 20, 2005 by lin0606
	Prayer Request (Preview) Please pray for a friend of my son Matthew. His name is Josh Barnill and he is 10 years old and having seizures. The doctors have not figured out what is wrong with him.	Robinks	9	392	Dec 20, 2005 by Robinks
	Can I get off the rollercoaster (Preview) Hi all - I haven't posted in a while but I always do come to read and "lurk" because even just doing that helps a lot. Anyway on last Friday I actually mentioned what I call "my tales of woe" to a couple friends - one in another state (via email) and one here at work. They were both really really accep...	dogscribe	8	463	Dec 20, 2005 by Vermont635
	learning to make time for myself (Preview) Hi Everyone, I've been making alot of f to f meetings and getting to know some strong women. I am looking forward to my day off today just to be alone and peaceful. My a was really mean last night. I bought tickets to a Broadway show for his birthday a few weeks ago. So we went to the show yesterday and he ridic...	liliana	6	528	Dec 20, 2005 by Vermont635
	Welcome to all around the world (Preview) As most of us think..This website only reaches the United States... I would like to personally welcome those of you have come to join us that are from all across the world. We understand the time difference and appreciate you staying up late at night. If you have children, we also have a Fami...	John	6	401	Dec 20, 2005 by notsonew1111
	Maria, book on million little pieces (Preview) Hello Maria, My daughter told me about that book. I do plan to read it when I have time but for now am wondering if you feel it is for all alanon people to read? Just looking for your own opnion. cdb :)	cdb	5	624	Dec 20, 2005 by cdb
	Nice (Preview) My weekend was nice. On Thursday I went to a concert/dance for a radio station, my husband won tickets which was very nice. He didn't drink was awsome it was a good night. The only thing I worried about was the transit strike on the subway. Which was nice. No transit stike that day. On Friday my husband and...	nycbt	6	339	Dec 20, 2005 by cdb
	God Box (Preview) OK, I've proven to myself the God Box works with everything, big and small...lol. We have doggie daycare in our city, and one day a week I take our dog to play there while I am at work. She loves this chance to play with 50 other dogs to no end. All you have to do is say the word "daycare"...	pixel04	4	378	Dec 20, 2005 by cdb
	Did You Ever Notice? (Preview) Hi Friends, Yesterday I lost my Uncle Kelly, the man who took the place of my A father after he left when I was 7 yrs old. He was 92 yrs old, had everything under the sun wrong with his poor ol body and was very ready to meet his God. But, did you ever notice , that God always takes the most giving wonderful peo...	jonibaloni21	10	548	Dec 19, 2005 by jonibaloni21
	is this alright? (Preview) well my a started working on his workbooks and readings he got from the counsellor. he wanted me to come and discuss it with him during the online meeting. i told him i will when my meeting is over. i want him to know his program wont interfere with mine.mine comes first for me and his for him. make sense? an...	notsonew1111	5	427	Dec 19, 2005 by Maria123
	I wrote something (Preview) I had to write a paper for my final exam in my Written communications course at college. I think I did a good job. Anyone want to see it? If you do just say so. Lanchas	Lanchas	5	378	Dec 19, 2005 by Lanchas
	OK Here goes everything lol (Preview) Well since I tend to share so much during the meetings I've decided to try writing in here a little more and maybe get some more feedback from the rest of you. I love the meetings and I love hearing from those of you who have been there for a wile and even those of you who are fairly new like me.&nb...	missylost	6	2067	Dec 19, 2005 by Flora123
	Some feedback please! (Preview) Hi everyone, I know this is a little unusual, but I have a friend that had something they were going to post on the board her, who has lost access to internet. They wanted me to post it for them to get feedback from yall and I will print these out for her to read. I would sure appreciate it if yo...	david62	10	440	Dec 19, 2005 by Dolphin123
	a life time of lies (Preview) So the last 26 years was a lie. I was lying in bed thinking about the facade of the Holidays. Every year, I say I "don't want anything" but that never works. I thought about writing my parents some poetry. Not sure if I will but it seems neither one of them has noticed me much. I...	kitty	5	686	Dec 19, 2005 by cdb
	thanks for alanon and thanks for my alanon friends (Preview) Well, as I mentioned in chat. Had a visit w/ my therapist Friday. He specializes in addictions and I picked him to help me cope with the A and all that goes with her. Things of interest. He said many times when he has patients that are showing codependent behaviors, he hands them a c...	bobump	11	495	Dec 19, 2005 by Flora123
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