The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
It has been almost 6 weeks since my A husband and I were talking. We have been here many times and in the past it is around this time I start getting weak. I would be so devastated when my husband and I would argue and he would demand that I leave and tell me he wanted a divorce. He would then go weeks without calling me, leaving me to think that he didn't love me. After weeks of not talking to me he would call and I would allow him to suck me right back into the chaos. I would be so desperate by that point that I was willing to put up with his unacceptable behavior.
Well, this time I feel so much stronger. I will not put up with unacceptable behavior and I will not allow myself to be sucked back into the insanity. It has taken me two years but I know that I have had enough. I am finally experiencing true growth in the program. Once I finally Let Go and Let God a huge burden was lifted from my shoulders. I feel so much more at peace now. I know that my journey has just begun but I am so much more prepared. Thank you Alanon.
Good for you getting stronger and protecting yourself.
It took me a very long time to leave my alcoholic husband. When I read back on my posts and what I put up with I say a prayer of thanks that I have regained sanity in my life.
This program really works if you work it, way to go!
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Megan
If you want things you never had you need to do things you have never done
This is what the program is albout: getting stronger. You sound so much healthier now than when you first came here. You are a great example. Keep up the great work. I'm proud of you.
Live strong,
Karilynn & Pipers Kitty
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It's your life. Take no prisoners. You will have it your way.
Once I finally Let Go and Let God a huge burden was lifted from my shoulders. I feel so much more at peace now. I know that my journey has just begun but I am so much more prepared. Thank you Alanon.
