Each year millions of people "say" they are going to this and do that.........but in alanon we learn to not only say we are going to change in some ways,  but we do it to improve our life situations. I for one take each new year as another challenge, how can I make my life more simpler, less stressful, take risks if needed. Changing my attitude not only gives me more peace and serenity from NOT over reacting, but also makes me aware of the bigger scheme of things,,,,living life to the fullest. and keep going to alanon meetings to remind me that I must take care of myself first and foremost. HNY all and keep coming back ,,,,keep working it because we are all worth it!