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Ziggy is a very happy girl today!!!! I will be happy dancing all night long...getting my groove going!!!!!!!!!!
My BF who lives 500 miles away called this afternoon to ask if he could come stay a while with me......"Uh Hello? This is me you are talking to! Staying with me is a GIVEN" He told me he should be here the first part of next week, he was 100% positive of that. He didn't know if it would be days, weeks, or months.....but I will be more than happy with whatever we get together. Xmas was great, I had three wonderful days with him....wish it had of been longer.
He will be working about an hour from where I live. Which is still good. Where he lives it takes him and hour and a half to get to or from work with all the traffic. The drive he will make here is a straight shot with little traffic and no lights to stop for.
Happy dance....happy dance.
I miss him a lot. I am grateful for the time we do have together. I don't know where the road will take us in the future. For now, I am very happy with getting to know one another. We may have a long distance relationship....but it is healthy and workable. We are mature adults working towards our own goals. I love being able to have someone standing behind me in acheiving my goals. I have wanted to go back to school for a long time and he pushed me 100% of the way last semester in doing that. He lives in a house he grew up in and has been restoring it. His daughter who is 16 and lives just a few minutes by him. He wants to be close of enough to have a place for her while she is still living at home. He wants to get the house back in order and then, go from there. I am all about him doing what he feels, needs, or wants to do.
To me that is healthy. We are not making demands on one another, that could later turn to resentments. I work my program and he works his.
So, my whole point again is.....Ziggy is doing a happy dance! I get to see my man!
Still happy dancing. I spoke with him before he went to bed and he still 100% certain he will be here. This makes cleaning so much more fun when you know there is someone coming to appreciate as much as you do.....lol. There is another reason to happy dance....the potential to a clean house......I am on a roll!!!!!
