The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
ten years ago that I could have a life of my own today, I would tell you that you were either nuts or that I had a life of my own. Oh how much I did not know back then.
This past weekend, I attended w/ my hubs the MA AA convention w/ Alanon participation. Hubs and I were able to go our seperate ways , attend the meetings we wanted to, and spend some time together. It was really a nice time. During the entire weekend, I didnt think about realized that I had truly let him go to work his program as he so chooses. I can live my life w/out being in his business all the time.
I travel all over New England attending meetings, conferences, conventions, & round-ups for both Alanon & AA w/ Alanon participation. Most of the time I attend alone or w/ program friends and I am comfortable with that. I enjoy going to these events because I learn so much from hearing others perspectives on old problems.
I dont have to obsess over what is happening at home while I am away. I dont have to obsess over what hubs is or is not doing in his life. I can and do get away to take care of me because I do deserve it.
Karen
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Nobody cares how much you know until they know how much you care. Love you all!
Karen
Amazing isn't it that you were at a family group (mixed) function at maybe the very same time I was doing the same thing and getting very similar results? Geeeez Louise does it work!!
I'm about 30 - 40 feet above ground level right now. You?
