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It sounds to me like an old A tactic. If the focus is on you, it's off of him and his actions.
My reaction to that would be "I'm sorry you think that", and let it go. Defending yourself and trying to convice him differently is most likely going to make matters worse. Sometimes it can be defused with just one sentence.
keep coming back, Christy
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If u didn't do it , don't deal with it. You dont say how long he is sober , if it's less than a yr he is STARK RAVING SOBER in other words he's just a little nuts . hehe sounds to me like he is trying to pick a fight so he can go out and drink again making it your fault . don't argue with him or try to defend stupid accusations . And what in hell is wrong with giving a daughter a few buck s anyway ????? keep the focus on yourself and ignore stupid accusations .
I must be seeing someone else, I saw this I heard that. CRAZINESS!!
I have to agree it's a tactic to get angry for an excuse to go get drunk. I know I have had that one done a million times. 3/4 of the time I don't even have to participate in the conversation he just works himself up to getting angry and then drunk. PATHETIC!!
