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Thanks karilynn and rtexas-my mom did everything she could think of on her own to protect her children. She never got into recovery, she was an orphaned child in the Depression and I think she may never have overcome her childhood but she was always ready to protect my brothers and sisters and I from the wrath of my alcoholic father. I am sorry she couldn't help herself more. I also don't think she realized the emotional trauma we all endured as children being in the presence of her and my father's ongoing feud about his drinking and everything else. I am grateful to her because I don't do any arguing in front of my child and I know it is important to take care of myself as well as my child. One without the other would be meaningless.