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debilyn


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Nope have not heard a word. Got on med that is tearing the H out of my gut..


But today I dragged myself out and dug out the mudhole bigger. Thinking how strange I am. Out there in a gauze dress and leather flipflops slopping out the pigs waller! I did this for me.


Funny, doing things for us. How what we might do for us what no one else would consider. I like washing all my bedding and hanging it outside. Then remaking my bed. Smells so nice, simple pleasure uno?


I got me four things of flowers from walmart clearance. OMG the most beautiful pink roses, red roses and carnations. I was thinking about if someone asked me who got them for me, I would say, someone who loves me....


A cannot be at his moms as they were evicted and are out of the house now. I guess there is no number for the shelter. I don't even know where it is. I wonder how it feels to be so invisible. No one knows where you are and no one looks for you.


Of course I am always taking care of me here. It really is serene here. Of course though he goes thru my mind. I know the man. I believe he is working for the temp place and living at the shelter. He is taking care of things he wanted to take care of. He has not called me becuz he believes I will want him to come home.


Or he will find he wants to but is not ready. If he ever will be. He knows what my boundaries are. He told me he wants that.


I believe he does,but the disease may be too strong.


On the other hand, he could be working and buying heroin. He does well on maintenance of that.


He is a very simple person. not too many scenerios fit.


Anyway since I got on med for this infection I am not so tore up at all. Day at a time.


thanks for listening. love,debilyn



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... you sound very serene, Debilyn.


Aren't animals the most healing things to have around?


It is my baby's first birthday today....


Thought that beiong an animal lover, you might like to see a picture of her, with her 'birthday doodads'... LOL you'll see...


Take care.


Jonibaloni



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Tiger2006


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((Hugs)) I am picturing you planting those flowers. I am so glad you are doing something for you.


 I've had to take a lot of anti biotics in the past that also ate up my insides. PM me sometime...I've found some organic milks that help. *shrugs


 I'm sorry you're going through this. I hope things get better.



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debilyn


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Joni thank you for the laugh! I loved the picture. Dogs know how to enjoy life I tell ya.


Such a pretty one there too.


Tiger thank you. Was a nice response. I gotta be careful with herbs and stuff. Are you thinking milk thistle?


This darn digestive disease and bone thing, if I don't stick to simple I get really sick.


Gots too many tummies depending on me for me to get sick.


Hey actually they are cut flowers for inside! I wish it were my roses outside. I have four I need to plant. They want me to also...too lazy I guess.


I love flowers inside and was so jazzed they had clearance cut flowers. That was why I was so happy. I can't afford to buy them not on clearance.


Makes me feel better to have flowers inside all year round. My llamas stuck their heads over my fence and ate some of my climbing roses. lol they love to munch.


My friend who has Hep C takes the thistle stuff and says it really helps. Like to get my A on it but who knows....


thank you again. love,debilyn



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hersh


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Debilyn:


Much love to you this wonderful day.  I am glad to hear you are serene on your "farm", it sounds like one, is it?  You are wonderful to yourself.  Flowers cheer me up anyday, and that is so great that you would say that someone who loved you bought them for you!!! 


I wanted you to know that you really do help people with your posts.  I always have a little more hope and a new perspective after reading them. 


Have a wonderful weekend with all of your four-legged friends.  I know my pets have always been there for me too, more than any human I know.  They are full of unconditional love, and always seem to sense when you are bummed or need some extra love.


Love, HeidiXXX



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Good to see that you are taking care of you. I sure hope the meds clear up that infection!! Toothache is so horrible, almost think I'd rather go through labor!


Good to see you are concentrating on you and your animals. Myself, I find that no matter how badly I want something, once I have given up on it, that's when it usually happens. Praying for your serenity. (love the one about 'someone who loves me' giving you the flowers). One person we can usually rely on is ourselves.


I have been living one moment at a time, one day at a time. Today, so far, I have my serenity intact! Keep on taking care of you and those great animals. Love, TLC



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