I made errors on my insurance claim page last night and my spouse, who insures me through his employer, threatened to remove my rights to

my account under his name, even though I found a way to correct those errors.  He berated and belittled me for an hour and I have to admit I

got sucked into the mayhem when I should have walked away.  Later I discovered that he was on his fourth beer and when he drinks he is extremely

belligerent.  Of course this morning it was all about him and his hurt feelings.  The thing is he called someone on his work cell and said that he had

someone on the line listening to me without my knowledge.  I feel so abused right now and can use some input.

By the way I was a member of this board for many years under the name of Debb and glad that this board is still here!!!!