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I just wanted to say on the original invite (I am locked out, nothing would work so re-registered) but anyway, I just wanted to say that I am saddened to see my old board messed up with spam
I moderate the ACOA board next door here on MIP, you can see it on top and you can , if you want, register with us, WE ARE SAFE....NO SPAM
I was praying and thinking, I used to drink too much, was very codependent and adult child of dysfunction/abuse so I qualift for at LEAST Alanon and ACOA and I am thinking that my former abuse of alcohol was a SYMPTOM of my roots of unhappiness, disassociation and numbing out, escaping, yea, I abused alcohol
I married into it twice...and I was , understatement, impacted BIG time by my mother being an alcoholic...I was abused/abandoned/shamed/put down by her when she would get "loaded" it was awful
so yea, I was serious when I offered you all a "home" next door..I moderate under the name mamalioness and the only requirement is to be kind to our fellow travelors...Thats it...
Sorry to be posting under 2 names, but for the life of me, Mamalion would not let me in..Something really weird going on on this site, I may get locked out again, but I wanted to offer you fellow travelors in alanon a place to share and to care with others...
I think you would be pleasantly surprised that we ALL have stuff in common and our behaviors now are a RESULT of something not right in our childhoods...
So , I may get locked out again, but just wanted to let you know that I wasn't joking about inviting you to "move in with us" next door at the ACA/ACOA site....
Love and hugs
Rosie aka mamalioness (I was a looong time member on this page when John and Betty were still with us...I spoke with John shortly before he died and he told me to take care of the ACOA board and I told him I would do my best) Well, I am taking it a step further and offering you all a place with us......I loved John and Betty (she was my sponsor for years) dearly and in honor of their memories, I want to help
(((((Lyne)))))))). Of Course it will be ok. HP led me to reach out to you lovely family MIP,rs. I promise. You all will be happy sharing with other 12 steppers
And I don't think it matters what 12-step program, heartache is heartache, no matter the origin, we need each other to share and care and overcome and that's my philosophy and I was led by my HP to extend this should have happened earlier welcome to all of you. You do have a loving home and you would be loved and wanted like anyone else
-- Edited by Rosie922 on Friday 4th of October 2024 10:30:48 AM