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debilyn


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You guys asked me what would make me want to visit my A in jail or write to him. Someone also said why does it have to be, he has to write me first or whatever.


You guys came up with some important points and I listened and took it to heart.


I have not contacted him. It has been 22 days now. I realized I want to see him becuz I have not seen "him" in years. I wonder if any of him is left. I want to know what damage has happened.


I go to the attorney about his SS Monday. I would like a clearer picture of what I am having to tell SS.


Wanted to tell you thank you again.


I am doing well. Gardening and being the country mouse me. It feels so good to know he is safe for now and for once I feel really relaxed. The disease is on hold for me.


love,debilyn


 



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rtexas


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((((debilyn))))


Good for you!  Go when you have a need to go, not out of guilt or someone elses interpretation of your responsabilities. 


Thanks for sharing!


I needed a strength booster shot today!


Take care of you!



-- Edited by rtexas at 10:35, 2006-05-12

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leo


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((()) Debilyn,


You do what your heart tells you to do Debilyn we will be here no matter what you choose.  Luv Leo xxx



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(((Debilyn)))


I'm glad you can finally relax for a while, you deserve it.


You know what the right thing for you to do is. Trust in your HP and do what you have to or want to. You don't have to justify it to anyone.


As you have always said, you can hate the disease and still love the man.


I hope everything works out well at SS on Monday


                         love Jeannie



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I am sooo happy you are taking a little 'vacation' (no such thing with all those critters, eh) from the stress and roller-coaster ride that comes with loving an A. Enjoy it while you have it! Treasure every minute that you can. Enjoy a little peace and serenity,('cause we all know, it doesn't last).


Take care of YOU, relax your brain, cuddle up with your pets, enjoy...


Love Ya! TLC



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