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His restraining order is lifted. He's back to visiting my mother. She's back to enabling. My brother's mad at me for calling the cops when he violated his restraining order. Im ready to detach from the family. I want off the roller coaster.
barbara if i were your sponser, i would tell u that as long as u dwell on ANY problem rather than the solutionn, it becomes ur higher power...
like me, fearing my needs won't be met...i am making FEAR my higher power....so i am with my co sponser, working the steps as to WHY i keep being afraid of stuff that hasn't even happened.....this is just an example, but i read ur posts and i dont' see anything about u and what u r doing about u......
what is barbara doing to take care of barbara?? what steps are u at now????
i felt like i was letting "stuff" take my focus off me, so i am back at the meetings, working the steps, and really hunkering down and getting myself ON THE SOLUTION and the solution is taking care of me, MY needs MY wants MY recovery.....
let us know how u r doing with the steps, sponser work.........blessings, rosie
