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I feel a little strange asking for prayers but i could really use some. My husband had a stroke seven years ago. He became disable and that lead to a drinking problem. Six years of hell for me. He is sober now and things are going better. We set up an appt with a marriage consler for this friday. There is alot I need to get off my chest to be able to move on in this marriage. I'm a little scared. I want so badly for it to go well. We are also going to court(trail) this monday may 8th against the doctor that mistreated him and cause the stroke. I'm scared. I know in my heart were right but am scared they will not see it the way i do. I have never been on the stand before and I am scared the other lawer will be mean to me. So i'm asking for a little prayer to get me though the next couple of days.
Nikkilou I too had a stroke 7 years ago, so I know what you guys have went through. No known cause for mine, so just got busy living. Hope all goes well for you. Telling the truth makes things a whole lot easier on the stand. May your HP be at your side holding your hand.
Josey
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Julianne - It's best to move on. You cannot look back in anger in life. It's too short
You have all the prayers and best wished coming your way. I hope court goes well, and the doctor will own up to his responsibility. I'm glad that your hubby has found recovery, and pray that it continues. Try not to be scared and invite trouble as my grandma use to tell me. Easier said than done, I know. But remember ODAT. You and hubby will get through this. You both survived his stroke and first year of recovery and that speaks volumes about your marriage. The fact that you both seek counceling is also a sign of hope.
Love and blessings to you both.
Live strong, Karilynn
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It's your life. Take no prisoners. You will have it your way.
(((())) The 8th is my brother's birthday so it will remind me that you need my prayers. The day is very significant for you in many ways and you will get through it. I am very much into Feng Shui and the number 8 is the luckiest number in Chinese Astrology. It will help if you can wear something red as this indicates strength and power. Luv Leo xxx
Just remember that you are not alone. HP will be with you on Friday and Monday. You also will be in our thoughts, so I hope when you need it you will be able to sense our support.
You are in my prayers.
Much Love,
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"Today's problems can not be solved if we still think the way we did when we created them" -Albert Einstein