The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
When Betty passed away, I felt like the entire bottom of this boat got blown away...Didn't know what to do or what to think, didn't know if I even wanted to hang out here at all.
But BOTH of you have done such a great job, not taking her place as that is hers, noone could do that, but you two have filled her space as good as anyone could....
I just wanted to say thank you both for your service and your great attention to us Al-anons that need that safety and continuity and support like you all give...
I know I am "next door" mostly as co-moderator, but I want to say I truly love this board and feel very loved when i come here...
God bless and may we all get through these trying times, 2020 has been one hell of a rocky year, but we are in this together...yes we are!!!!!
Rose, that is so kind of you! I can only say that whatever service I do in Al-Anon, I receive so much more from it. I like to say that I am paid in "Serenity bucks" and in not being alone.
Thank you Rose for your kind words - I am always reminded that '.....it takes a village.' MIP carries on because we all do our part to be of service to each other. Freetime - I could not have said it better. I'm amazed at what I 'get' in return for service to MIP and beyond.
I vehemently agree that 2020 has been a challenge. I can say that it's been a year I would never want to do again. The gift this program has given to me is instead of holding on to fear, sadness, etc. I just keep living one day at a time and look for the lessons. Love and light all...
__________________
Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
I am also grateful to you both for stepping in after the tragic death of Betty. Those were very big shoes to fill. Indeed i am very grateful for this board
One of Betty's core foundation techniques was to be grateful. I could not understand where that came from. Betty was passionate about it
Today i.am grateful for many things but I.am not counting on anything either. Nothing is promised
I keep doing the next right thing every day.
I miss Betty very much. I know she led a very productive life and had much joy in her life. Nevertheless she was such a solid and welcoming presence on this board it was always a relief to come here. It still is.
Thank you again
Maresie