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haven't been around for a bit had lots going on with trying to reconcile with hubby. I really need a sponsore to help me at the moment as I'm well and truly stuck - local f2f meetings have proved to be not very much help to me, and with very few members, I've been unable to find a f2f sponsor yet, so thought I'd ask if anyone on this forum would be interested in lending me a little bit of support online by way of sponsorship. I have no idea what kind of committment timewise etc this entails.
My main issues at the moment are being back with hubby and not being able to let go my suspicions and being very very confused about everything to the point I just want to run away.
Someone that accepts u for what u are , Believes in u, Keeps in touch with u, Doesn’t give up on u, Doesn’t judge u, Someone that helps u look at ur self, loves u no matter what, Doesn’t try to run your life
Make a difference in your life and help u see your mistakes
Offers support by Listening and supporting u
Says nice things to u about ur self
Honest with u, Understand u, Values you
Walk with u through all ur good and bad times
the best thing you can do is stick around a bit, listen in meetings and find someone you can relate too someone who's program you can respect
be selective its important someone who has the kinda program you want.
Some one that has worked the steps at least one time.
Good luck in finding one.
-- Edited by nycbt at 13:03, 2006-03-30
-- Edited by nycbt at 13:04, 2006-03-30
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Hey everyone watch me grow. I go thru good & bad times. each day i am getting stronger.
I hope you find someone Pico- I have asked a few times and still don't have one. (But I also have more than one addiction to live with as far as life with the other half goes). I have been in the program well over 10 years and still don't have a sponsor. I have been emailing with someone from my f2f and she has been answering me regularly. I actually express myself better in the written word than I do verbally.
