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My husband has accepted that we are leaving and we had a civil conversation about who gets what and are using the same attorney. No snags so far. What an awesome program, I could have never done this a year ago.
Will sit down next week, about details after State Wrestling and visit with an attorney.
Josey
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Julianne - It's best to move on. You cannot look back in anger in life. It's too short
You wrote," I never could have done this a year ago". I agree. I experience "shock and awe" at what I've done for myself this past year all due to Ala-non and it's tools.
Enjoy your son's state wrestling to it's fullest and good luck with the attorney. Keep us posted on how they turn out.
Adding my prayers for you, isn't Alanon awesome?! I have seen so much self-growth in this program!
Word of caution, my ex wanted to use the same lawyer and have what he called an 'immicable' (?) divorce... Immicable meant to him, that everything go HIS way!! He felt he should have the house and the kids and I rent a shack somewhere.We ended up with 2 lawyers and a bitter divorce. Hope it goes better for you!
