The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
He drove for the first in his old car. New to him. He took his son it was the first time he really left me home by myself. I cried I was so upset. Then I realize I am not alone. I had been talking to my sponsor earlier on in the day and she told me that my homework was to not follow him around or call him. Well i said to her ok I will not follow him around however calling I would do that. She said if u have want to call give some people in ur support a call. So when he left I was in the mip room. I also called some people in my support group. One the ones in my support group ask what time he left and u know what I didn't even look. That was good because normal I look up it. I didn't know how long he was gone which seem to be good. Well i didn't call him or follow him around. I am very greatful for my support system. I would not have bee able to do it with them. He end up calling me.
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Hey everyone watch me grow. I go thru good & bad times. each day i am getting stronger.
That is awesome ((((((((((((((NY))))))))))))))))) for not noticing, obsessing, and having him call you!
That's wht men r suppposed to do, part of what I am changing is not being so aggressive w/ men, giving them the opportunity to call me, instead of being 'impatient' and calling them first!
They need to chase us, be interested in us (as women) not the other way around!
KUDOS!!! Proud of you girlie!
Besides it's true boundaries do get easier the more u practise & so does focusing on yourself!
love, -K
-- Edited by kitty at 17:50, 2006-03-16
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Light, Love, Peace, Blessings & Healing to Us All. God's Will Be Done. Amen.
Way to work your program :) Your babysteps are turning into big steps. It works if we work it and your are doing just that. Glad you posted about your progress. It is inspiring. cdb :)
Good for you NY, next time take advantage of the time alone, and do something nice for yourself, bubble bath, candles, music! Get used to it and enjoy!
