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Merry Christmas!


I spent Christmas Eve with my daughter, grandson and their little dog, Marley.  Food, games, a ride to look at Christmas lights, ornament making and a few gifts opened.  No booze.  No drunks.  No drama.  Just normal family relations.  This morning, the family is still sleeping as my daughter's responsibilities are finished for the feasting part of our celebration and now it's my turn to prepare to cook the Christmas dinner.  I wanted to check in and thank you all for a wonderful year of support and learning.  You are part of my gratitude list for today.  Merry Christmas.



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You sound happy, content and grateful...how lovely.  Have a wonderful daysmile



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This sounds so lovely. A very Merry Christmas to you as well, enjoy!

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Merry Christmas to all

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Merry Christmas my friend ((( hugs )))


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Merry Christmas Catherine!

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Merry Christmas, Grateful. Your post was a picture of serenity. God Bless you and your family.

((Grateful))



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Merry Christmas G2B, have a great day.   Same for all of the MIP family.

((((hugs)))) smile



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Merry christmas grateful.x

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Merry Christmas to one and all. Grateful, so glad you are having such a peaceful, wonderful Christmas with your family.

Praying for Christmas Miracles for all beings.

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Merry Christmas to everyone! Hope you all had a beautiful day!

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Merry Christmas, (((G))) my Christmas turned out "ok"  been on the phone talking w/loved ones who thought about me and called b4 i did them, lol......and like you said...peaceful....no drama....no booze....no drugs......no abuse........going to the pool tomorrow and am just gonna ENJOY my days off!!!!!   HUGS and yes, grateful, I am for you and my other MIP'rs here.....



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Thank you, all!

I just returned home about an hour or so ago. It's quiet here. My daughter made sure I made it to my car safely and asked me to call her when I got home. She shared that she felt sad about my going home (even after I put her digital meat thermometer into the meat and baked the plastic (what'd I know?) but caught it before the meat was no good or the plastic dropped.) I asked my grandson if he wanted to come over one day this weekend (we usually spend "our day together" and some of that time he does work around my house to earn some pocket money.)
"Yeah, Nana, I want to spend time with you but I don't want to work. I don't need money. I've got everything I could possibly ask for or need."

I'm very blessed to have them in my life and to have you in my life as well. 



-- Edited by grateful2be on Thursday 25th of December 2014 08:16:44 PM

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Merry Christmas Catherine!
If it makes you feel any better I had a fit of giggles over your baking of the digital meat thermometer.
We are blessed to know you as well!


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smile  (((M)))  I have a confession to make.  After I melted her digital thermometer, I stuck a metal thermometer in the meat.  Fortunately, my daughter found that one, too.  "Mom, all you have to do is just check the meat with the thermometers.  You don't leave it in the meat."  She was calm.  She was patient.  Fortunately, she had one remaining thermometer that I wasn't able to mismanage.  Tomorrow, guess whose Mom is headed to the store to buy her daughter replacement thermometers?



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OK, weeping now. Visions of your daughter locking the remaining thermometer up in a special Catherine-proof cabinet next Christmas and telling everyone not to look at it and just 'act natural".
Thanks for the giggle



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I'm not used to these meat thermometer thingeys. I just stick a fork in the meat and if it "feels right," it's done. I learned quite a bit in my daughter's tech savvy kitchen today. I also couldn't turn on the TV and couldn't get the hang of talking to the equipment or waving my hand around it to turn it off and on. As my grandson and daughter checked messages on their phones and played games, I was busy wondering where my glasses were so I could put the minutes daughter bought me for Christmas on my Tracphone.

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Sounds like you may have been a source of loving entertainment for your family?



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LOL!  Between you and Melly, I'm having a wonderful time laughing alone in my home. 



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Alone in your home? Are you sure?



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biggrinWell, not anymore.



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smile  You have love all around...you forgot already?



-- Edited by PP on Thursday 25th of December 2014 10:25:39 PM

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LOL!  Yes, I must have forgotten already.  I think I got carried away by all that old music playing in my head. 



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I understand, I think there is a group for us somewhere, I will googlesmile



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LOL! 

Now, the Beatles have come to pay a visit:  "Listen, oo ah oo.  Do you want to know a secret?  oo ah oo.  Do you promise not to tell?  whoa ah oh, oh, oh.  Closer.  Oo ah oo...."  We'll need a group for the early 60s, too.  "Blue Hawaii" is now starting up and "Norwegian Wood."smile

Who needs drugs or alcohol?  I can do crazy just on milk and my ginger supplements.



-- Edited by grateful2be on Thursday 25th of December 2014 10:58:46 PM

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Merry Christmas all (((hugs))). So Grateful for all of you!!!!

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Didn't  need the drugs then, don't need them nowwink



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We can sure get into the fun of life with just tiny little nudges. Your roses did it for me. All I had to do was look at them and the first part of the sentence and was off and running.

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Merry Christmas, Truth. Thank you for the well wishes, too!



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I don't know what a tracphone is

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It's a burner phone. You can buy them for $10 to about $40 and buy minutes for about $30 for 120 minutes where I live.

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((Grateful)) Sounds like a lovely holiday! Doubly blessed to have you here.

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Trying to visualise what a "burner phone" might be. Mine has a torch, not a burner though, is it like a camp-stove and you can use it to boil water and cook food if you are stuck out in the bush? That would be pretty impressive, way better than a torch. But I suspect that isn't what you mean confuse



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Merry Christmas, sister. So good to see you hear dressed in your beautiful and festive red leaves. You certainly have an artist's eye. I'd never see fallen leaves to be something to photograph or to photograph as well as you have here.

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Merry Christmas Grateful and MIP--

Belated but heartfelt :)

I hope everyone enjoyed a peaceful Christmas.

Mary



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Merry Christmas, Mary. Right on time for anybody whose faith tradition is Christian. For us, this is just the second day of Christmas. We get to celebrate through January 5th. So, I'm very happy to receive your Christmas greeting on this - the second day of Christmas - when my true love didn't give to me two turtle doves. I didn't get a gold ring on the first day either, but I did get a silver Mother necklace with two children in a oval shaped pendant.

Melly - LOL! No, the phone is not what you'd think although some do come with flashlight beams. Grin.

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Melly, it's a burner because they are so cheap. Because of their cheapness they are also popular for making criminal transactions on them and then just throwing in the trash. My company actually packages most if the phones for Tracfone and some of the other really cheap places - Cricket, MetroPCS.

A couple of years ago we had to repackage all thr phones we had in the warehouse because they discovered they wouldn't fit under the plexiglass window that liquor stores and gas stations have here in rough neighborhoods, and they figured they were losing significant money off one of their customer bases

Kenny.

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I just use mine so that my daughter can track me and my grandson, too. I'm not a big cellphone lover. Too much echo when we're talking but still a good thing to carry for emergencies or when one has a daughter who notices her Mom is getting older and she wants to find me when I'm not at home. I refuse to pay more than $30 every 5 months or so on a cellphone. I'm a landline phone lover. I can hear better and it only costs me $20 a month to be able to call anywhere in the USA with no time limit or ticking minutes. I know. I know. I'm so "out of it" when it comes to phones, etc. That was clearly obvious at my daughter's where I couldn't turn on the TV, didn't know you don't bake meat thermometers with the meat, and couldn't figure out what piece of equipment to talk to when I wanted to turn off a gaming system and turn on something else. I'm happy with my little burner phone, a remote for my TV, and a laptop I don't talk to to turn it on.

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