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I am making progress with detaching from my AH. After seeing that nasty website stuff, it has actually helped me detach even more. I am able to ignore stuff he says or texts to me. I don't find myself getting upset as much as I used to. I have to live in the here and now. he and I both mad a mistake by getting married. But the positive outcome is our daughter. I am trying to look at the positive things in life. I walked my dog early in the morning yesterday and today. It was nice and peaceful.
I am focusing on my relationship with my HP God.
I am also realizing my current job isn't enough hours. I am barely scraping by since AH hasn't been helping me because he doesn't have a job. So I have to take care of myself. I am looking at full time jobs. I would be changing into a completely different area in my profession. I would have less commute traffic as well. So I am making another change, hopefully, and I think it will be for the best. I am tired of doing the same type of work for the last 24 years.
Please keep me in your thoughts/ prayers as I look for a new job and detach more from AH. I really want to be happy.
My prayers are definitely with you. I know that feeling of shrugging of the old emotions and starting fresh..have done it twice in the last 14years. I love going out with my dog..I do it every morning. There is a sense of calmness around me when I do. Starting again can be exciting and scary at the same time. I to am changing my career plans. I have been working in factories all my working life(26years)..im giving up my job next year to go back to school. I wont have a lot of money but I feel comfort in knowing I am doing what is best for me. Sending you hugs and love on your new journey
I am responsible for my life it feels good to have the security of knowing I look after Me !!!!
I was saving to but my home my partner was also saving part of the deposit but I made sure I would still be able to do it with out him was a bonus but not a necessity. £ months ago he slipped and spend his part of the deposit. I have just started the process of buying my home alone. I have to make it even if he doesn't,
Every journey starts with a single step.
I do the footwork and hand over the outcomes to Hp.
Stand back and watch the miracles happen. I don't need to say goof luck it is not about luck if you are meant to find the new job hp will deliver.
I am praying for you NLG and I'm glad you are making progress. I have recently realized that even when we slip, we are making progress when we become aware of the slips and learn from them.
one day at a time.
it works if you work it.
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Look for the rainbow after the storm, and I'm sending you a double dose of HOPE. H-hold O-on P-pain E-ends
Good job. One day at a time......put the applications in and see what happens....you never know. But to not do the job hunting ....nothing happens as you know.
((( hugs )))
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Lord, put your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth
Speak only when you feel that your words are better than your silence.
