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Apparently I like big messes in my life .. for once I don't want to get into detail .. just please say some prayers for the kids and I .. it's all going to be ok .. I just am not sure how it's all going to turn out and it's not good .. I'm not going to minimize it .. it is what it is and I will have to face the consequences of my actions. Or in this case .. non actions .. the old saying no decision is still a decision completely applies.
Hugs S :)
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Faith minus vulnerability and mystery equals extremism. If you've got all the answers, then don't call what you do "faith". - Brene Brown
"Whatever truth you own doesn't own you" - Gary John Bishop
I hope it's not that serious. I know you can be critical of yourself. This is also the exact title of a post you made years ago when your then husband found out about you posting here (Which was not a mistake). So prayers...yes indeed, but I'm hoping this is more like that in terms of being something that seems bad but maybe isn't that bad. Either way...in support of you!....
Hugs Pink .. no this is not good .. and I could care less what he reads at this point .. LOL .. I chose to ignore and not communicate about a situation because I didn't have the information and times were hard to get to the where I needed to be and NOW it's serious .. I'm just hoping I can figure a way out of it all.
THANK YOU for being here :)
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Faith minus vulnerability and mystery equals extremism. If you've got all the answers, then don't call what you do "faith". - Brene Brown
"Whatever truth you own doesn't own you" - Gary John Bishop
I'm sorry, sweetie! I don't know the details but I can pray for you and for things to work out in a positive way for you and the kids. We all mess up, we're human, be gentle on yourself! HUGS!
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Never grow a wishbone where your backbone ought to be!
Something that I'm working on currently and will continue to work on is the fact that I need to stop procrastinating .. everything would be FINE .. LOL .. if I would just STOP doing that one self sabotaging behavior and that's the one that I'm really struggling with at the moment. I think it's going to be ok .. it's just a matter of can I make certain things happen quickly and WILL I be able to keep moving forward.
Hugs S :)
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Faith minus vulnerability and mystery equals extremism. If you've got all the answers, then don't call what you do "faith". - Brene Brown
"Whatever truth you own doesn't own you" - Gary John Bishop
I will send you prayers that it will work out and not set you back to much. It's scary for one of our own having a problem they can't even mention....it makes me scared for you.
((( Serenity )))
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Lord, put your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth
Speak only when you feel that your words are better than your silence.
You've had so many balls in the air for so long. I hope this will be resolved quickly and the best way for you and your children and you can get back to taking deep breaths.
Hugs,
Temple
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It's easy to be graceful until someone steals your cornbread. --Gray Charles
Serenity...procrastination is a wide subject of mine also which has reached middle ground between the extreme reactions I use to employ before Al-Anon and then learning about letting go and letting God as the Serenity Prayer teaches. Often times I will not attempt movement when I don't have any solutions and need to employ patience. Procrastinating is also known as waiting and what I've learned is that if I can live with the consequences I'm okay. Having realistic expectations helps also. (((hugs)))
