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this am I go to the "lion's den" and i am smiling, "good mornings" and i am holding my tendonitis arm and wife asks me "you hurt your arm???" I says, "yea, my grandson thinks i am a tree and i pick him up wrong and i pulled a tendon in my arm" (not lying) little boy and exercising wrong , between the two, i got a nice case of tendonitis or tennis elbow they call it....i am twisting my arm when doing exercise or lifting a child and putting pressure on my elbow rather than keep arms closer to body..........
ANYWAY, I tell the wife "my daughter tells me all the time, how to properly pick him up so i don't strain my elbows, and now i need to listen" she says she is sorry i am "wounded" and her husb. who is the jerk, never made a comment and I KNOW he heard as he was in next room.....i was prepared to say nothing more and if he had said something I was gonna just nicely say "i give out respect here and i deserve to receive it" but he said NADA......i was gonna say what i mean, mean what i say and not say it mean...honest!!!
his dad was in his room and he got me some butter fingers (we both love those candies and we munch and chat) i just love the dad, he is so sweet, anyway, i basically stayed in my room and did my job, after the morning exchange with wife, and i didn't come out till my work was done.....detach....don't engage...do my job...myob.....and leave which is exactly what i did
on the way home dad texted me to asked me if i was "ok" and was the day "ok" for me...when i got home, i texted him back that "yea, it was ok...stayed in my room and myob and then left" he was glad....I thanked him for asking...what a sweetheart...i told him i really enjoyed working w/him and he was "de bestest"
went to GW to brouse and they are having another 1/2 off sale next Sat, the last Sat of the month....maybe this will be on going...yaaaay fun and ya meet lots of cool people.........i will haunt the two GW's that i like and have a ball......today...rest my arm...do my therapy...hope for the best....STEP 3 re: my arm
thanks ya'll and HAPPY FRIDAY
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Live and let live and do it with peace and goodwill to all!!!!
Glad your work day was uneventful and shopping was the kind you like - 1/2 off sale! Happy Friday back to you, N!
thanks ((((((C))))))))))) went to daughters and told her i am coming to her house 9am SHARP next saturday for this big 1/2 off sale......it seems that GW is gonna do this ea. end of month on saturday, like the last one of the month..........love to browse the thrift shops.......so whether or not my daughter goes w/me or not, I am going...i told her be ready to leave at 9am...i am goin....with her or without her...preferrably with her, but she may , last minute, let me down........no worries, i am goin........had a blast the last one, this one will be fun as well.........yea, i am just not gonna give this boss any thing to grab onto in regards to me....keep it business
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