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Post Info TOPIC: New beginnings it works if you work it.... hugs to all


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New beginnings it works if you work it.... hugs to all


disbelief I left my husband active alcoholic 2 years ago....dated him the last 6 months...and the only one who changed... was me...  Thank you ALANON.  Alanon was my life line, good friends and with hard work,attending meetings and participatingin this website I got strong and made good decisions for myself.  The alcoholic is no longer in my life, I will always love him just unable to live in an unhealthy relationship. Bought a home and moved in yesterday.  I feel so good, life is good....stay strong and attend your meetings...find you own kind of happiness.

 



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Thanks, Debra. It's good to hear this. Congratulations to you for moving onward and upward!



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A post of hope and a testament to "it works if you work it and you are worth it"..hugs.



-- Edited by PP on Tuesday 7th of October 2014 04:33:52 PM

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Congratulations on doing the work and moving on and moving into your own home! Wow!

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It's sad sometimes you have to leave the A but if that's the only way for peace so be it

(((( hugs )))


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Thanks for sharing Debra. My AH recently asked me if we could date. I know it won't work. I do still love him, but I also know he isn't the person I need him to be.
Congratulations on your house!

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Dear Debra Thank you for such a powerful share!!! You are a Miracle in Progress .
Blessing on your new home and life

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Hi Debra- I'm glad you're here and thank you for the inspiring post! Congratulations on your new home and new beginnings!

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This is so very inspiring. Thank you for sharing your journey.


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whispers, I LOVED your post. You are living the program and it shows.

God bless you!

It definitely works if you work it.



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Congratulations on your new home!  Recovery looks good on you!!!



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whispers wrote:

disbelief I left my husband active alcoholic 2 years ago....dated him the last 6 months...and the only one who changed... was me...  Thank you ALANON.  Alanon was my life line, good friends and with hard work,attending meetings and participatingin this website I got strong and made good decisions for myself.  The alcoholic is no longer in my life, I will always love him just unable to live in an unhealthy relationship. Bought a home and moved in yesterday.  I feel so good, life is good....stay strong and attend your meetings...find you own kind of happiness.

 


 WOW!!!  LOVE this "growth" share.....AND recovery DOES work....i can "see" the new power in you...a new home, new life, awesome....isn't it great when you take your power and life back into YOUR hands???   and yep...finding my OWN kind of happiness now....and its so funny.....the other night I told my sponsor, I actually LIKE me now....GOOD ON YOU.....I love reading posts like this....you set a gr8 example of what this program can help us do....changing  our minds = changed perceptions = changed emotions = changed behaviours =  changed habits = changed character.....CLAPPING and CHEERING for you



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Happy for you- thanks for sharing your journey of hope for other MIP members. It does work when you work it.

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