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I left my husband active alcoholic 2 years ago....dated him the last 6 months...and the only one who changed... was me... Thank you ALANON. Alanon was my life line, good friends and with hard work,attending meetings and participatingin this website I got strong and made good decisions for myself. The alcoholic is no longer in my life, I will always love him just unable to live in an unhealthy relationship. Bought a home and moved in yesterday. I feel so good, life is good....stay strong and attend your meetings...find you own kind of happiness.
Thanks for sharing Debra. My AH recently asked me if we could date. I know it won't work. I do still love him, but I also know he isn't the person I need him to be.
Congratulations on your house!
I left my husband active alcoholic 2 years ago....dated him the last 6 months...and the only one who changed... was me... Thank you ALANON. Alanon was my life line, good friends and with hard work,attending meetings and participatingin this website I got strong and made good decisions for myself. The alcoholic is no longer in my life, I will always love him just unable to live in an unhealthy relationship. Bought a home and moved in yesterday. I feel so good, life is good....stay strong and attend your meetings...find you own kind of happiness.
WOW!!! LOVE this "growth" share.....AND recovery DOES work....i can "see" the new power in you...a new home, new life, awesome....isn't it great when you take your power and life back into YOUR hands??? and yep...finding my OWN kind of happiness now....and its so funny.....the other night I told my sponsor, I actually LIKE me now....GOOD ON YOU.....I love reading posts like this....you set a gr8 example of what this program can help us do....changing our minds = changed perceptions = changed emotions = changed behaviours = changed habits = changed character.....CLAPPING and CHEERING for you
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