The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
My ah emailed me back and after several emails back and forth he said he would pay for divorce and hopefully he will file. Although I know what he says and what he does are two different things. If he doesn't follow through which is likely with his track record at least it is out their in the open. If he doesn't file I will still file in December when I get my bonus check. It will be a Christmas present to myself. I am very thankful for the program without it I would not be as strong as I am today. I give thanks for Alanon friends and this board who never judge me and help me grow :)
Thanks for the uplifting update Texasgal. I am so very impressed to read and feel the courage and wisdom that you have gained in this short time. Prayers and positive thoughts on the way.