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I left fo the day and abf ,I just got back abf stuff still sits outside on my deck.i do need all the strength i can get from y'all and everywhere that I don't end up back with him,I know he doesn't care about nothing right now but himself and alcohol and drugs    He knows all my soft spots and will play them if he has to he knows how to make me melt in his arms he is expert at everything when it comes to a roof over his head.last 3mths I've never been treated so badly by him.he always treated me like a princess.never knew I'd be going through such agin in a mil.my 1st husband did worse but hurt just as bad.i barely survived that that's been 15yrs ago.now here I am again .ive got to find my strength.



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Prayers LU
Recite the serenity prayer and know that you are not alone.
HP is with you and loves you much more than anyone can .

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I agree that his stuff there is not helping you. Hard to let go when he could be there anytime.

I know me, I would pack it in my car and leave it somewhere else. let him know where. so this way I could cont. my grieving and get healed up!

 



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Keep your feet pointed in the right direction for you and your truth; and know that your HP will walk with you every step that you make. Sending prayers for courage, strength, and wisdom.

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Since it is painful for you to see his stuff, remove or avoid it.  Do you have a friend that can help you?  I would change the locks, too.  Get your bada** suit on.



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