The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Active A : an alcoholic who is still drinking alcohol
Big Book : refers to the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous
CAL : Conference Approved Literature, writings that have been approved by the WSO
C2C or CTC : courage to change
CLOSED MEETING : a meeting of AA or Al-Anon that is only to be attended by members who qualify for either AA or Al-anon
CROSSTALK : During an Al-anon meeting cross talking is speaking when
someone else has the floor and is sharing. It is also cross talking
when, after another member shares, someone shares and comments directly
about what the other person's share was about and directs it to that
person. Both of these things are generally discouraged at Al-anon meetings
because it disrupts the meeting, takes away the anonymity of the
person's share and can also become "advice giving" which is also discouraged
in Al-anon.
DRY DRUNK : refers to an alcoholic who is no longer drinking alcohol but who is still exhibiting a lot of the negative behaviors associated with the drinking
ESH : experience, strength and hope
FTF or F2F : a Face-to-Face meeting; real world meetings
HALT : Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired
JADE : Justify, Argue, Defend, Explain
MIP : Miracles in Progress
ODAAT : one day at a time
OPEN MEETING : a meeting of AA or Al-Anon that may be attended by anyone who is interested.
Q-tip : Quit taking it personally
TYFS OR TFS : Thank you for sharing
WSO : World Service Organization Al-Anons headquarters
If someone puts your nickname in parenthesis (((((nickname))))) that means they are giving you a cyber hug!
I have heard people use terms like DS and DD to refer to children but am wondering what the D stands for? That is the only one I have not figured out yet.
I also want to thank Serenity for making STBAX (Soon to be Alcoholic EX) happen...she coined that...props lol.
Yes, I'm lazy and I like to confuse people .. I managed to do double duty with that one and the funniest thing is I use it on other boards and get asked about it!! LOL!!
DD DS .. I always thought was for Dear Daughter, Dear Son, .. usually AD or AS .. Alcoholic Daughter (or addict) and Alcoholic Son or Addict Son ..
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Wow! Thanks. On a few shares I was just clueless as they kept using the same acronym, and I was like, what is that? I tried to infer, but that didn't help. lol!