Well I did the abuse testing today and it was a clear yes. She said I pretty much had already done everything on the safety plan however she wanted to do the follow up counseling sessions to work through the last few issues I got triggered on. She said I must have worked through most of it because I am not getting triggered. Lawyer said do not agree to the mediation session and we can go back to court. He said if he cannot "behave" at exchanges we can request to do them on the police steps. I said I would love that.