The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Spending some time reflecting, praying, trying to hear HP and not use prayer for my own will but prayer for HP to guide me has given me some nice gifts.
A called and came over after bailing out on me again to get drunk. I asked him to leave. He gave dramatic speech is this is how it ends. I said yes. He asked me not to call him again. With a whole lot of drama. I said okay. And I am okay. HP is close.
I don't have to accept the unacceptable. I hear it very loud. A you figure it out on your own. Also stop texting me. I have had it.
You are right. You don't have to accept the unacceptable. I hope you are going to meetings, reading and hopefully you have a sponsor. Keep coming back! You are not alone!