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neshema2


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Just stopping in to check up on my boardies....

hope u all are ok.....income tax is on last month and loved the $$ but oh so tired...

daughter #2 is trying to inch her way back in and i set the boundary w/her...unless / until she gets into recovery and i see significent change there will be no my "putting me out there" for her to smash me down again.....sad, but i must put me first for a change.....i told her she did this (pushed me away)  she asked for this (hard lesson)  and I could not help her anymore....put her in HP's hands and I had to back off.....I will not , can not,  shall not subject me to any more abuse......i am standing to this boundary b/c I need to take care of me....

i told her i would always love and care about her, but in the interest of my recovery, my sanity, my serenity, my mental health in general, I am keeping my distance...staying out of the line of fire....

I don't owe ANYONE my mental health.....simple as that, but so sad.......

other than that, i am hanging in there.......

 

hugs to all



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Rose50


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It's good to hear from you, neshema. You were missed!

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Cathyinaz


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HI HI HI Rose

Big Hugs coming your way. Happy for you making the money right now. We can all use a little more. My taxes are done and refund returned.

Prayers coming your way that someday you and daughter two come together. But in the mean time I'm happy for you your not letting it get to you.

Have a great day my friend......keep coming back

((( hugs )))


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el-cee


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Hi neshema, glad your taking care of yourself.x

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Hi Neshama,  Good to hear from you, you sound goodsmile



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grateful2be


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I'm so glad you are earning some extra money and have boundaries in place that are working for you! Thanks for letting us know how you're doing, sister.

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Breakingfree


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Hi there, glad you checked in with us and are still strong in your recovery. Sending you love and support!

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Hugs xxxxx

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