The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
after all this time I finally went and spoke up to the guy who character assassinated me several years ago.
It had gotten so bad and was so widespread I was never going to ever have any semblance of a life in this state. I needed to speak up.
yes I tried to rescue him but he was there too WITH HIS OWN MOTIVES. No one had a gun to anyone's head. We are both adults and chose to be there - but that kind of abuse after it ended was needless and the damage was going to take my life. my health had already suffered greatly. So I did what I had to.
i used my tools. I didn't yell. I was very serious and firm though - this is my life.
what is clear to me now is that he was getting a LOT from this. And I was struggling doing all kinds of work every single day - and nothing was working - because God can't do for me what I can do for myself.
-- Edited by WorkingThroughIt on Thursday 3rd of April 2014 07:05:05 PM
((((S))))....thats what I was taught as working an amends...two ways with yourself and with the other. Making it right and I also see that I can prevent HP from working in my life by not "changing the things I can" myself. Thanks for bringing this here. Needed to hear it.
