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Lyne


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Hi, and yes, I got sucked back in to stinkin thinkin and didn't even realize it.  It happened in such a subtle way.  My A did several things that were so nice, like driving me to work in bad weather.  I started feeling guilty.  I'm detached and wanted to feel somethings I can't.  So I tried to get my A to make some decisions she is unable to do.  What I need from my A she can't give me.  And it was a major Ah ha moment to realize this , this morning, all over again.  I had briefly lost my serenity and happiness.  The cloud lifted.  I can be happy and serene if I meet my needs, and once again, stop expecting them from an addicted person.  Thank you all.  I have regained my freedom.  Love, Lyne



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Lyne,

Great awareness, acceptance and action.

 It truly is a one day at a time program and that is why we need to keep focused on ourselves and do a 10 th Step every day. 

Good work.



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KennyFenderjazz


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Things like this make us stronger. When we become aware that we can become aware, and we become aware that we can take action, we feel that much more empowered!

Keep it up, and keep coming back!

Kenny

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Cathyinaz


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I pray I can be as in control as you are when the time comes again. You have done good....

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Good for you lyne, your recovery is so good.x

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Jerry F


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I remember that lesson also and I'm still smiling about "getting it"....Keep coming back (((((hugs))))) smile



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SerenityRUS


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Hugs Lyne :) Good for YOU .. it takes time and it's a repetitive process because it's progress not perfection! So glad to share this lesson with you! Hugs S :)

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Your awareness is inspiring. You got sucked in but didn't stay there for long!

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Breakingfree


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I love how I now notice my red flags sooner and can get back on track without having to board crazy train, because I catch myself arriving at the station. Keep on keeping on. I am sending you love and support on your journey!

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