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Just wanted to check in. Things have been shockingly quiet here. AH seems to have really taken to heart everything I've said, and has been very, very mindful about his actions. He helps with things without me asking, is trying to cook more for us and eat healthier, more exercise, etc. I truly hope it is real change, but I'm not going to hold my breath. I will, however, enjoy it while it's happening. It's wonderful having my husband back, at least for a time. I can focus on me and not worry about him I told him yesterday that I felt like I could actually talk to him again. It's a breath of fresh air.
Good for you! Now you can keep up your program too, and get prepared for if/when it ends, and keep the expectations management going. In the meantime, yes, just enjoy the quiet.
((((Spider))))...stay alert and detached and self focused. Thanking HP for you and your mate and family. I like the quiet because when it gets that way I can hear the miracle happening. (((((hugs)))))
Isn't that nice! I am going through the same peaceful period too. It is wonderful. I had forgotten what it was like. But unlike years ago, I am really trying to enjoy it instead of worrying about when it will end. Thanking God for this temporary bliss.
