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Last night I made the mistake of answering ASO's phone call, somehow I thought it would be him calling to be nice or something...well he called to puke up all his misery on me and blameshift. I have not been reacting as I once did except the little setback a few days ago. He ended up telling me that obviously the English language was not my native tongue then I just hung up knowing that the conversation wasn't going to get better. So, today I am doing some reflecting and the crazy stuff they say sometimes has some humor in it. Apparently I don't speak blame it all on me well enough..I was able to use Jerrys visualization about the wire flippers though and just keep going.
. he is even mad at that now. Lol.
Last night I made the mistake of answering ASO's phone call, somehow I thought it would be him calling to be nice or something...well he called to puke up all his misery on me and blameshift. I have not been reacting as I once did except the little setback a few days ago. He ended up telling me that obviously the English language was not my native tongue then I just hung up knowing that the conversation wasn't going to get better. So, today I am doing some reflecting and the crazy stuff they say sometimes has some humor in it. Apparently I don't speak blame it all on me well enough..I was able to use Jerrys visualization about the wire flippers though and just keep going. . he is even mad at that now. Lol.
omg...how effective they are, projecting THEIR inventory out on US...its OUR fault, they are so miserable, LOL....oh yea, been there done that.....now I do a quickie step 10 and see my part, which usually a lesson for me to keep the focus on me and detach from the other and their stuff....HUGS
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Live and let live and do it with peace and goodwill to all!!!!
Thanks. I meant the wire clippers not flippers that Jerry suggested, visualizing clipping the wires to the buttons they normally push to get a reaction. I am just taking it in stride today and laughing at the me not speaking English part because its just so absurd its funny.
