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So fustrated at myself.. I love my son.. I truly feel like I may have abandoned him but truly I had to change things up. I needed to stick with my rental agreement.. There are consequences in life and I feel that he needs to pay them. I love him but I've done all I can do.. Now it's all up to him. And i will pray!!!
Gaby this must be devastating BUT if he does not learn this now when you are alive, what is he going to do when you are gone from this earth. He is going to repeat the same old, same old until it just does not work anymore. In this forum I have begun to realize that we enabled out son far too much and he would be so much stronger today if we had learned the word no and meant it instead of always trying to see his side of things. God bless you my dear and try to find some peace.
