Haha got u all bet you were thinking bad news.. Well I can say we all survived thanksgiving no screaming or fighting no guest nothing extra to bring to our table but good manors . We both been good with keeping to our side of the street the children are right in the middle now so they both our attention . Not sure what happen but the twister is slowing down enough so me and BIG A can ride it together . We are getting along Nicely we talk not shout we think before we speak. The children are settling down now , there are very happy that mom and dad can sit in the same room together for hours and not fight . He does what he needs to do for the day and I just been staying home a lot to tiered and sick I think the whole sobriety thing took away my energy . I'm still living upstairs which I have to say has helped a lot. Granted it's not normal for wife and husband to sleep apart but yet it's better then going threw a nasty divorce and losing every thing and for what . We get along better now then before we still are married still do things together and thinking about renew our vows , yes there will be some red ink involved to make sure the boundary stick .. Haven't gone to any face to face for a while been to sick and depressed to do anything , but I'm keeping my reading skills up and still self teaching myself . Pray daily google anything I don't know about alcoholism which is a lot , it's been a rough 1 year for both of us and more to come I just hope it get Easier . Well that's all I have to say for now happy thanksgiving to everyone . I am grateful for today to be able to wake up and see my children smile and hug me , for having a stress free home and a happy sober husband .