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Ok this is the deal I will make a promise to my family one because if I don't follow thru then I'm a failure . My simple goal is a routine a list of things I need to do when I wake up . List them
1 ) wake up smell the positive feelings
2 yes I realize I'm different and I like it I'm one of a kind sorry
3 ) I will not repeat myself more than once to a man that state he healthy
To back the hell off give me my space let me grow on my own . I'm your wife not your pet stop cornering me and caging me and give me treat thinking to get a reward for it
4) I will not tolerate his terrible 2 tantrums because I won't jump when he says to he thinks I'm doing this to get back at him but I'm not I'm applying healthy Alaon slogans I have the chose to make I'm advoiding the fight.
5) I am not a child I am a woman 46 years old that has a clue it's not my fault your clue don't fit in with mine
No more passing the unhealthily card anymore time to own up to your trash time to put the denial away . It's been out worn.
Stop sneeking up the stairs and listing at the door if your gonna do that shut the dam light off so I don't see your shawdow and the whole glass against the door doesn't work so stop being unhealthy
When I leave the house I don't need to here your comment and snickers about my wardrobe sorry I like soft animal prints since I feel like a caged animal . Get over it . I will wear what I want when I want and even inside out if I chose because I CAN!!
This Compulsive cotrolling A is out of his course even I can see it .
No more warnings and how long I can stay out I don't need a curfew . 10 pm really and this is when I'm with my Alaon girls . I guess there the bad ones now because I'm getting smart .
Swearing needs to stop
No mean dam no will not say that again.
I will go to bed when I'm tired not because you tell me to I'm the one losing sleep not you!! Mind your own mouth I do have duck tape you know.
Stay the heck away from my car I don't need you to watch my solor flower move with the sun you don't need to be changing my speedo motor every time I go out to see how far I go
I can take my own meds thank you and I don't need to prove they go down so leave
Dam it all the crazy unhealthy Sober man has seriouse issues . And mine came out from his crazy ways .
I put a new lock on my bedroom door he kept picking the lock .
Not a happy A he took that right off
So again I'm tired and sick of the attitude and the I got a solution
I'm leaving him I'm don't no more chances good luck on his journey I wish him and the next poor co dependent he finds
I will update when he is out .
Today I'm grateful for intellegents and my wisdom and my courage to change to live a happy life .
Those are my new Boundarys .
I AM SO VERY HAPPY TO READ THIS NEW POSTING. YOU CERTAINLY HAVE FOUND YOUR TRUE VOICE AND SELF. YOU ARE FOCUSED ON YOURSELF, YOUR THOUGHTS, YOUR NEEDS, YOUR ASSETS A ND YOUR GOALS. I CAN SEE HOW HARD YOU HAVE WORKED AND THE COURAGE THIS POST TOOK. HP IS WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
Read your post a few times- really appreciated the great reminders and, of course, your sense of humor. There have been many times that I wondered if someone would take my A, but the truth is that his HP already has him- just as our HP has each of us... knowing that removes the pressure and puts a different spin on things.
