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Amend to Grateful


I made a statement on my thread about its not being about the A's and N'a

and Grateful picked up on a salient point about the lady asking one of my responsdees about the book being laid upon the sidewalk

I posted that I had noticed it but did not want to open my "big mouth"

MEANING that I sometimes  "jump the gun"   that is ALL I meant.....I apologize for any confusion this may have caused

Grateful said something I totally agreed upon, but I am learning for ME..to not jump the gun so quicky,  EVEN THO  know she was right to say it and I was right to think it...

Grateful I apologize for making a statement that sounded like I did not care for your esh....I DID care for it and AGREED with it

Apologies to my alanon MIP'rs for ANY confusion this may have caused....it was about ME...not our dear Grateful....



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Unclench your fists (anxiety) hold them palm up and close your eyes and say out loud " I am human". Thank you neshema2 for being so open and honest in your posts. Now breath and cuddle a fury friend.

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I did this "unclear" near boo boo in public, so I must address/make amends in public...that is only fair......Grateful has been a great supporter of me and NEVER would I say anything intentional to ANYone, especially one whom I have befriended

Hope we are good, Grateful.........

Those of you who take the time and the care for me  to drop me an esh/acknowledgement , I am so very grateful for you ALL and never would I say anything to confuse anyone......



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Mari1978 wrote:

Unclench your fists (anxiety) hold them palm up and close your eyes and say out loud " I am human". Thank you neshema2 for being so open and honest in your posts. Now breath and cuddle a fury friend.


 oh yea, hands are now relaxed...one thing about amends....I do it....its over....b/c I know it came from my heart and its off me now.......and as to the furry "kids"....too hot to really play much w/them, but gonna go out and jump on trampolene b/c they roll in the grass and watch me jump up and down...."Jill in the box"  I must look like, but no cares....my body is so nice and firm...so jumping...dancing....swimming...tennis , ONE of them,  ea. day...or a nice bike ride in nature  or a run in the park............thanks Mari...gonna give that trampolene some work, LOL...blast my tunes and jump to the music....



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Grateful is good....Grateful I'm sure is always good. Posting on these boards can sometimes be confusing or not understood completely. That we take into account went posting.
You are great support on here with your ESH and your need for support like all of us need will shine through in the end.

We love you and your here for a purpose...keep it up and don't let it get you down.

(((( hugs ))))


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Cathyinaz wrote:

Grateful is good....Grateful I'm sure is always good. Posting on these boards can sometimes be confusing or not understood completely. That we take into account went posting.
You are great support on here with your ESH and your need for support like all of us need will shine through in the end.

We love you and your here for a purpose...keep it up and don't let it get you down.

(((( hugs ))))


 WOW, Cathy, this is beautiful......sending you love and friendship and BIG polar bear sized HUGSSSSSS    Hope your day is serene today , this is my prayer for you for today....May Cathy be at peace....enjoy good health.....enjoy abundance......feel safe......and live her life w/better ease.....Thank you Power most high.............



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Right there with you neshema and cath. i too sometimes mess up. my disabilities sometimes get in the way of me being active, mentally and physically. i too, do amends as soon as possible, then gone. that's the wonderful thing about alanon. i can let stuff go. its done, its over, poof all gone. where is it really hot today. its cloudy, cool and wet here which frankly i enjoy. i love rain particularly since i live in such an arid part of the country.

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Sister: Huh? I certainly don't think you were saying anything against me, my thoughts or my concern for cwya. I know you're there for me and care about me. I understand also what you were meaning in waiting to say anything about the "leave it on the sidewalk issue." I think that is a very wise and prudent thing for you to choose to do. I also think your mouth speaks volumes of program wisdom, encouragement and support and I love seeing it on the board. (((N and her furry ones)))

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Sister: Huh? I certainly don't think you were saying anything against me, my thoughts or my concern for cwya. I know you're there for me and care about me. I understand also what you were meaning in waiting to say anything about the "leave it on the sidewalk issue." I think that is a very wise and prudent thing for you to choose to do. I also think your mouth speaks volumes of program wisdom, encouragement and support and I love seeing it on the board. (((N and her furry ones)))


 (((((G))))))  Just making sure that we were "ok"  b/c I did see that post and thought  "ya know...typing is sooo easily misunderstood b/c there is no voice, no inflection/ emotions so just to be SURE..I am gonna just do an amend, no worries...just wanted to clear up something in public that I had said in public....only fair......thanks for the vote of confidence......



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I'm glad we ask for clarification when we're not sure what someone is meaning. It is difficult sometimes to communicate via this board. I so agree. And fortunately, we can communicate via this board. I'd be lost without it sometimes. (((( (N, C, Mari, CW)))

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grateful2be wrote:

I'm glad we ask for clarification when we're not sure what someone is meaning. It is difficult sometimes to communicate via this board. I so agree. And fortunately, we can communicate via this board. I'd be lost without it sometimes. (((( (N, C, Mari, CW)))


 DITTO.......((((G, C, Mari, CW)))))   smilesmilesmilesmilesmilesmile



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