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Post Info TOPIC: action versus re-action


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action versus re-action


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Today I woke up with this motivation. Got tired of waiting, passively, depending on other people's moods or actions.

I reclaim my life, I am the director, and I also decide how I feel. Today I want to move on, away from that chaotic past, close and far,

searching for truer answers. It's a bit scary , but I guess fear can also be a simple indicator of moving into unknown land, where change really happens.

Detachment and letting go will be the focus in the next steps in program.

It will not be easy, but I'm hopeful. today!

Life is beautiful.

Thanks for your support and kind words, I'm still in a place where there is no Al Anon meetings, also no police available for those kind of issues.... so your feedback sometimes is life saving and your different perspectives help me move forward....being more active again.

one day at the time.

 

 



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~*Service Worker*~

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Awesome post! Awesome awareness! Sending you love and support!

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Sending you love and support on your journey always! BreakingFree

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" Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional."

"Serenity is when your body and mind are in the same place."

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Powerful.  I hear the clarity in your post.  I, too, wrestled with a choice during the night that I needed to make without the influence of others wants/actions and woke up with the choice that was right for me.  Thank you for the quote from Scott Peck, too....it is a keeper for me.



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Paula



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Awesome post. I really needed to "read" that right now. Thank you for sharing it and good luck. I know exactly where you are coming from. I have f2f meetings available, but I have a 8, soon to be 9 year old daughter who is back at school, so even getting to the online meetings is hard right now. So, these posts are so much of a lifeline, I totally get that! Keep coming back!



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