Improving ms co-dependent ðŸ˜„ - Al-Anon Family Group

Cathyinaz · ~*Service Worker*~

Improving ms co-dependent ðŸ˜„

Bettina · ~*Service Worker*~

Ms Co...

Love hearing that kind of progress...so proud of you.!

You encourage me.!

Hugs, Bettina

-- Edited by Bettina on Friday 9th of August 2013 06:47:49 PM

Ms co-dependent · Senior Member

Well I see threw the fog in my brain I see the slogans that are guiding me threw this crazy disease . I'm not sure how I'm doing it . It's like I'm being lead to the right place . My kids came back from nc 2 weeks ago and ah moved back in with out my invite . Dam that was a tought week for me.i hit every day meeting 3 weeks in a row I felt the positive feed back I needed from al Alon groups . I was able to advoid a fight that I would of been dragged to a couple a weeks ago. Now I stand my ground stick to my slogans very little talk . I stopped hiding things that were not important . To think how much time I would sit back and think where am I going to hide this domestic abuse paper work . Well I put it in my book and that's it . He had to go to 3 meetings today because he was so upset with me for having info on domestic abuse.. He was very verbally abusive to me today on the phone and on voice mails . I said you no what ms c !! I don't need to listen to this rant and deleted it!! I made a choice not to listen to it and the choice to answer his call! I have the right as a person to make healthy choice for me sorry if ah 9 months not liking the semi smart co dependent , that's the positive energy I feel this week , but trust me there been alot of bad to I had to sift threw and toss out what was worth the fight.. Today I'm grateful that I see the light shining threw the alcoholics fog . And soon I will have serenity And I'm at a meeting now so that's it for my update !! ð

hotrod · ~*Service Worker*~

Dear Ms co

So happy to read your update smile You are a wonderful example of how alanon works

Keep on coming back as you are a inspiration

pinkchip · ~*Service Worker*~

You sound empowered! Good for you.

PP · ~*Service Worker*~

Keep working your program....you sound much stronger. I appreciate hearing from you. (((hugs)))

Jerry F · ~*Service Worker*~

((((Ms. C)))) That is exactly what an emerging miracle sound like. Great to hear it coming from you. Hugs... smile

Aloha · ~*Service Worker*~

Wow - your share is very inspiring, Ms. C.

So glad to see the program working is working for you. It may not be perfect all the time or work the way we want it to, but in tiny steps, something gets better in our daily lives.

(hugs)

neshema2 · ~*Service Worker*~

WOW, Mrs. C....that was a hell of a post.....what an example of the program in action......LOVE IT when a fellow alanoner stays cool in their program........its like starving the negativity of anything....U worked your program and negative had nothing to feed on.......GREAT job smile smile smile

grateful2be · ~*Service Worker*~

Good for you. Sticking with it. Seeing the changes happening in you. Must feel good. I'm happy for you.

Breakingfree · ~*Service Worker*~

I hear so much growth in your post! Keep up the great program work! Sending you much love and support!

el-cee · ~*Service Worker*~

Hi ms c. You sound so much better, well on your way to serenity. Love the slogans. Recovery is a fabulous journey not all plain sailing mind you.you are on the right track.x

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