The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
This made me think of the Twilight Zone where all the young people had to choose like one of 3 models to look like. Hence, everyone would look like everyone else. No individuality. No differences. No opposites. No pain, no gain-I hate this saying but I'm afraid it's true, Lyne
I know that you have been through so much with your ex husbands death. Thank you for so skillfully writing about there is a lot of difficulty on life's terms. Of course I absolutely want life on my terms and I know where that gets me.
When I have grieved successfully the past no longer holds power over me. I would never have imagined I could get to a place where I could see growth coming out of tragedy but I do.