Wow 30 days sure went by fast for me . It was a seperation trial to see if I can get better and work on myself and not have him watching and asking question. I was wondering why he was counting down the days?! . Out if the days he been completely away from me with no contact was only 2 days.. He found every reason to get back in the house . Oh it's trash day oh have to mow the lawn I need to do good shopping playbills . He even stayed over 3 of those night because he was to tired wondering about me.. I got this wonderful news 5 min ago . And my smile went back down to a frown.. It was nice not having him home and not pick but believe me when I say the days he visited he made sure he got plenty of nit picking in.. I felt so free I didn't have to worry about my trash being looked in for anything to pick on me.. The children attitude changed when he was out . The house was at peace . The kids never asked for him . And me and him were starting to get along on the phone . Talking nice .. I have my self a week of not caring not working on myself just trying to catch up with my life that was taken away when he got sober.. My children are not going to be happy that he will be comming home.. When he told me today that he decided to move back in this weekend .i immediately told him there will be new boundarys set this time. There has to be for me to stay sane.. I went to a face to face meeting last night and they could see the difference in me since he been out . Why do I feel the bad behavior going to return and I'm going to have a set back.. And I'm trying not to focus on that . Advise please . And I do keep going back to Alalon because that's my home . I'm at my happiest when I'm there . And the serenity pray is done . What now !!