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My anxiety has been rising in reference to when my Husband was going to go back to work and continue Intensive Outpatient Treatment. I prayed and did my best to let go and let HP handle that situation and never brought it up to my Husband. Husband knows what he has to do, it's his business.
Well, this morning over coffee and toast, while waking up to go to work (me), Husband told me he was about to wash the dishes. I focused on being grateful he was home, sober and helpful. And tried not to let the wishful thoughts of me being the one to stay home in PJ's and read and clean house enter my mind.
Then HP let me know he heard my prayers! Husband told me after he finished the dishes he was going to call Human Resources and get the ball rolling for him to return to work, next week!
Well done, you did the work and God breathed into the gaps you left open by not getting involved....it feels so good, huh? Enjoy the heck out of this day.
That is such a good example of let go and let God. I think it is to do with the fact that you gave him his dignity to make his own decisions and come to his own conclusions. I also find when I work it like this it works.x
