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Had a relaxing day just playing on the computer and watching TV.
My son now has a whole lot of money and on the biggest binge of his life. I can't seem to get it out of my mind and don't even want to talk to him at all if he calls me. My choice right? I will pray to my HP that he makes it though.
Thanks...just posting my thoughts....helps me.
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Lord, put your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth
Speak only when you feel that your words are better than your silence.
(((((Cathyinaz)))))...before you do the thing...think of the consequences first...and then go do it. That was an early lesson for me in the subject of reacting. I use to react most of the time which amounted to touching a hot stove burner. Letting go and Letting God is good thinking and good choosing because you get better consequences. Don't get in the way of your HP and his. (((((hugs)))))
Hugs Cathy, sending you love and support. Hugs p :)
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Stepping onto a brand-new path is difficult, but not more difficult than remaining in a situation, which is not nurturing to the whole woman.- Maya Angelo
Cathy, when my son was on the streets, I did not answer his calls, it killed me, but it would hurt me more to take his calls and listen to his hardships, or listen to his denial...Take care of yourself, even if that may mean not taking his phone calls. Let his HP take care of him. In support Oldergal....
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Don't Worry About Growing Old, It Is A Privilege For Some Of Us.....
Cathy, I saw this on the internet and immediately thought of my son, and then I remembered what you are going through with yours. I thought it might make you smile a little bit, during what can be hard times for a parent.
John
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Dear Mom & Dad,
$chool i$ really great. I am making lot$ of friend$ and $tudying very hard. With all my $tuff, I $imply can't think of anything I need, $o if you would like, you can ju$t $end me a card, a$ I would love to hear from you.
Love, Your $on.
A week later..... a letter from "home" Dear Son,
We kNOw that astroNOmy, ecoNOmics, and oceaNOgraphy are eNOugh to keep even an hoNOr student busy. Do NOt forget that the pursuit of kNOwledge is a NOble task, and you can never study eNOugh.
Love, Mom and Dad
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" And what did we gain? A new life, with purpose, meaning and constant progress, and all the contentment and fulfillment that comes from such growth."
Hang in there Cathy. You are working so hard at your program. His HP is watching over him now. Breathe and take good care of yourself. Sending you much love and support and prayers for your son.
Hi Cathy, my son also had money from a bond that matured last year. It lasted 1 week! All you can do is pray he comes out the other end soon and in one piece.
I think it's ok to not speak to him while he's on a bender. It's not about punishing him but about protecting yourself from pain. Take care.x
Thank you all for the support, makes me feel good.
el-cee I don't think my son can go through 8 grand in a week but I'm sure he will try...lol
I'm taking care of me and doing my work and practicing my steps. I will pray he will be OK and find his way....don't think he will anytime soon but I ask my HP just to take care of him and give him peace soon.
((( hugs )))
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Lord, put your arm around my shoulder and your hand over my mouth
Speak only when you feel that your words are better than your silence.
