The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I had a revelation so to speak this morning..I've accepted that I can't control her drinking, I didn't cause her drinking and I can't cure her of her drinking...Just like when my brother used to drink this took me a long time to realize and accept. (my brother has been sober for 4 years). I just wanted to share this. Thanks for letting me share.
I spent the first 30yrs of my life trying to find a way to fix my A Father and the next 30yrs fixing me....life will become good when we stop living other peoples lives and focus on ourselves.