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AH is coming out of his most recent depressed mood and seems more manic today. Scares me, because this is when he is more likely to binge drink. The good news is, he admiited to feeling manic, I'm encouraged that he is at least aware. He is 6 days sober today, still working his IOP.
I am hoping that tomorrow and the weekend is peaceful, but I feel empowered knowing that I can determine my own peace and serenity. I have a little sign by desk that just says "What Are You Going To Do?". A great reminder that he is going to do what he is going to do, but I can choose my own way.
Thanks for listening. Peace and support to you all.
Is he a dual diagnosis? manic depression can be helped by medication. If he can get MD under control it will make it easier to deal with his alcoholism. Just a thought.
Sounds like you have your head on straight. Hope things go well this weekend.
Usually they want to deal with the drinking first and then diagnosis the mental issues. Addiction mimics manic depressive actions. When my stbax continued to drink on the meds everything got completely out of control and he almost killed himself. Sooooo my esh, until the drinking is addressed the meds can compound the issues. An addictions counselor and a Dr well versed in addiction and mental issues can better guide that kind of recovery. Hugs p :)
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Stepping onto a brand-new path is difficult, but not more difficult than remaining in a situation, which is not nurturing to the whole woman.- Maya Angelo
Thanks all. He is in a dual diagnosis program, on meds, which are being adjusted at the moment. We got through last night. He made one hurtful remark and I was so proud of myself for not reacting in my usual way. This morning he left for his program, and told me he wasn't feeling well. I asked if he was sad. He said yes, and then said, "it's so good to be able to tell you that". One second, one minute, one day at a time. I am going to keep this weekend peaceful for me, however I have to accomplish that.
