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chinup


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hi everyone ive been missing you all,been hectic around here for sure well as for my update im been really down lately not just with my greiveing my loss of my precious mother but everything hitting me too ,bills,being very sick with crud and going through menopause,and getting my 1st ticket not haveing my seatbelt on all at a time when im only on a limited income (not good i tell ya),mark has been calling me on and on been broke up with him for a while ive not answered his calls been ignoreing him cause theres nothing there no more feelings but here i was really vulnerable and i didnt know it was him calling i answered it and we talked a little bit so i told him to come on over so now we been together for the last 3 and a half weeks no drinkning he knows what will happen if he has it on him or in him that itll be over agin so ive over heard him telling his buddies that he had 3 good reasons not to drink and that is no 1-his health cause he had started haveing seizures and was in the hospital at one time not long ago but even after that he had went back to drinking ,and no 2 his job he has a real good job he dont want to lose and if he has 1 more seizure it will be over with,and no 3 he said was me that he didnt want to ever lose me agin,sweet but can i really believe that or any of it and no he is in no recovery program and dont plan on it but anyway im just getting my bills caught up and getting back on my feet as soon as i can while he is around and staying sober cause i dont know how long its gonna last with him i know that an alcoholic is an alcoholic and that they can go into remission for a little time but fall off all the time we will both be 50 y/o this year he knows himself better than me i dont know what game he is trying to play with me but i can turn off just as easy as i give in to him.need some esh here before i allow myself to sink ,and not only did i let him back in but i actaully allowed him to move in my house,i was soo vulnerable but he didnt know that at the time.sorry for rambleing and takeing so long to get back to here....hugs chinup.......and yes he did bail me out of all my debt,so for now im ok,Ha dont know for how long he can act right though,thanks for listening and thanks HotRod for replying to me and ty for welcomeing me back into mip i tend to get sidetracked alot and forget that ive got mip to turn to and how much ive soo apriciated mip and this board and all of you all for helping me through all my trials.ty so much...chinup



-- Edited by chinup on Monday 11th of March 2013 03:44:50 PM

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Hi chinup

So glad that you checked in and shared with such honesty. If you are still unable to attend alanon face to face meetings, the access to our on- line meetings has been updated and may be helpful to you. Here is the link

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So glad to hear an update from you! Sending you much love and support!

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