The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I started reading this book and it is like doing a fourth step on your fears and facing denial!! It is a 40 day program with prayer and affirmations daily. It states that we operate from love or fear. Face the fear (hidden anger, resentment, denial or plain fear) and choose to operate from love instead. Love it!! I realized quickly some of the left over anger from my ex a is really about my fear to be single, my fear of having no one that loves me, my fear of him finding someone before me (ego) when I left him. I realize fadcing these issues, finding a loving way to be grateful for the future, for the lessons I learned and forgiving myself for choosing such a partner in the first place and letting him manipulate me out of guilt for leaving is freeing. Only one week into the book and I feel the difference.
Thank you so much for sharing. 'finding a loving way to be grateful for the future, for the lessons I learned and forgiving myself for choosing such a partner'...wow i can relate so much...working at that right now. Thanks for the inspiration. in support.
