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I almost let my a/a daughter get me in the middle of another cyclone, this time using her 8 y.o. daughter. A couple of weeks ago she went to visit her daughter and her X-husband, she said she was going to stay for a few wks. "to get clean" anyway, she stayed for a wk. came back, saying she wanted to get her daughter back, saying really terrible things about her X-husband, most of which she already spoke about, but added a few others that she knew would cause me to be concerned about my granddaughter.
I take responsibility for engaging with her, she accusing me of siding with her X-husband, I know that was my 1st mistake. I've at admit I've been concerned about my granddaughter, not wanting her to get hurt and be put in the middle of all this.
I know it will "hit the fan" Tues. when he receive some legal papers she is sending him. Today, my focus is to let go, let God and just refuse to get involved. If/when either one of them reach out to me, I'll let them know I won't get involved and I know they will work it out, and my prayers and concern is for my grandchild and God's will be done in this situation.
Thank you for your prayers.
Gettingitright!!
-- Edited by Highlyfavored on Monday 18th of February 2013 03:52:40 PM
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Just go a step at a time, one day at a time. And you'll find a rich, thankful life you never thought you could afford.--A Rogers
I no longer hold favorites and work at staying unbiased no matter who else is involved. My daugther is a woman, a mother, a child of God and a woman negatively affected by her spouse...never take sides...never ever take sides. We give them all the same feedback and ESH and then we let them go. God is Higher Power...I'm not...even close. Keep coming back ((((hugs))))
